Topic: what are women lookin for
wux's photo
Sun 05/15/11 09:51 PM
I think what a woman might be looking for in a man is the boy inside the man. She may be looking for her lose change which he may have swallowed because he thought they were candy, while sitting on the sofa, waiting for her to change into something more comfortable. What a woman may be looking for in a man downtown is the country. What she may be looking for in him is the lost spirit of sensual swathing, in the silver nights of the trubadours. In a man a woman may be looking for colorectal cancer, during a physical examination.

wux's photo
Sun 05/15/11 09:55 PM

tell me what u want out of a man


Bit different.

A woman may want the truth out of a man. Or one of his kidneys if they are compatible with her. Or his ONLY kidney, if they have been married more than 8 years but less than 11. She may want the devil out of him. Or she may want the piety out of him. Or she may want the heck out of him. Or she may want some words out of him. Or she may want some compliments, confessions, admissions, a lot of cash, some semen, or anything else out of him.

humuh's photo
Mon 05/16/11 12:37 AM


tell me what u want out of a man


Absolutey nothing which is exactly what I got was when I was dating. laugh
Ooh!! you have since stopped dating you must have seen it all

TexasScoundrel's photo
Mon 05/16/11 04:15 AM
These women are telling you what they want from a man in a relationship. This is not what attracts them in the first place.

If you want to catch a fish, do not ask a fish for advice. Ask a good fisherman.

josie68's photo
Mon 05/16/11 04:29 AM
For some reason we often dont know what we want until we find it..

I wanted honesty and Love but ended up with men who had no idea how to give it, because I was attracted to the wrong men, so just cause we want something doesnt mean we will settle with that.

Pink_lady's photo
Mon 05/16/11 04:35 AM
Edited by Pink_lady on Mon 05/16/11 04:37 AM
I got what i wanted in Dan...

Sincerity
Respect
Genuine interest
Honesty
Good sense of humour

*forgot to add,

Emotional strength, weak men sap the life outta ya!

no photo
Mon 05/16/11 05:18 AM
Things that I look for:

confidence
honesty
humor

bookfan61's photo
Mon 05/16/11 07:06 AM

These women are telling you what they want from a man in a relationship. This is not what attracts them in the first place.

If you want to catch a fish, do not ask a fish for advice. Ask a good fisherman.
I want to say for him to be honest and faithful first.But after reading your quote, YOU MADE A VERY GOOD POINT.Something for all of us to think about.

no photo
Mon 05/16/11 07:15 AM

These women are telling you what they want from a man in a relationship. This is not what attracts them in the first place.

If you want to catch a fish, do not ask a fish for advice. Ask a good fisherman.


I don't necessarily agree with just asking the "fisherman." As some think they know what women want but clearly do not.

fireflysgirl's photo
Mon 05/16/11 07:39 AM

For some reason we often dont know what we want until we find it..

I wanted honesty and Love but ended up with men who had no idea how to give it, because I was attracted to the wrong men, so just cause we want something doesnt mean we will settle with that.


I use to view a man "loving me" the most important part of finding a relationship! After my life lessons, I am now asking for a man that is worth me "loving him"! I don't plan to settle either.

challengingmind's photo
Mon 05/16/11 08:13 AM
Hmmm...what I want out of a man

First a man has to attract me in order for me to want anything from him lol

BettyB's photo
Mon 05/16/11 08:20 AM
I want a man who will treat me the same way I treat him.With caring, love, honesty and respect and by letting me feel I am special as I would do that for him....someone who knows how the story goes.


navygirl's photo
Mon 05/16/11 09:08 AM


I want a guy who realizes that just because I'm a girl, does not mean that I am like every other girl. I think guys assume that all girls, for instance, love shopping. For the record, I hate it, and I don't want to be part of the cliche majority. I like a guy who is intelligent enough to realize that girls can like things other than shoes and clothes and reality tv.


Stereo typical comments come from both genders and are, many times, unfair. Not all men only want sex. There are men who do want a relationship before sex. I've been seeing a woman for two months and while she kisses passonaltely the subject of sex has not been brough up. Someday, perhaps, but as for me I want someone I care for and who cares for me.


Did I miss something? I did not see any mention that all guys are after sex in the poster's comments. Me thinks you are flying off the handle for no reason. surprised

navygirl's photo
Mon 05/16/11 09:09 AM



tell me what u want out of a man


Absolutey nothing which is exactly what I got was when I was dating. laugh
Ooh!! you have since stopped dating you must have seen it all


Not seen it all but have had enough abuse to last me a life time.

soufiehere's photo
Mon 05/16/11 09:25 AM

tell me what u want out of a man

I want out of him what I put into him.

wux's photo
Mon 05/16/11 04:03 PM


tell me what u want out of a man

I want out of him what I put into him.

Men feel the very same way with a woman. Very literally.

(Was this a set-up? You lead me like a lead guitarist leads the fab other three.)

gball72's photo
Fri 05/20/11 06:31 PM

I know it's too much to ask for but i want him to be honest with me at all times.

I just wanna say that being a man I am very honest and was thinking that's what I would like from my partner. I think men get a bad rap sometimes with this honesty thing. There are honest men in this world and there is a lot of dishonest women out there.

no photo
Fri 05/20/11 06:32 PM
Their shoes

no photo
Fri 05/20/11 06:36 PM


These women are telling you what they want from a man in a relationship. This is not what attracts them in the first place.

If you want to catch a fish, do not ask a fish for advice. Ask a good fisherman.


I don't necessarily agree with just asking the "fisherman." As some think they know what women want but clearly do not.
yes I also do not care for the paternalistic thinking as tho women do not know themselves what they are attracted to

excuse, yes, we do

I look for the mutual spark of attraction and a man who is looking for some of the same things I am - who is nice and who has the confidence to be a gentleman

Goofball73's photo
Fri 05/20/11 07:56 PM
Women want a man who........

Scratches himself during church service.
Burps during tea time.
Farts on there favorite shoes.
Leaves the toilet seat up.
Picks and eats there boogers.
Thinks ESPN is THE only news (In defense, this is true, but us dudes still watch FOX News to make us look better).
Wants a threesome with his lady's best friend (who is also female).
Demands you bring his morning cup of coffee to him while he is on the throne.
Won't throw away his favorite shirt that has holes all in it. But really, the shirt has sentimental value ladies. Be kind.


I could add more, but you get the gist of it.