I dont understand how you can have two people in a relationship and when the Female gets things (money, food etc.) she shares with her mate but when a Male gets his things he makes a promise to do something and goes the other way. what wouyld you think if you were the Female or the Male in this situation?

I live on love, not food.

I think you might want rephrase the question because your situation is not necessarily typical of every female and every male

That's a bad sharer.
I would make him pay for everything
AND put out.

in this situation the male is making out like a bandit. the female is getting the short end of the stick. i have seen women with children living in housing assistance, collecting food stamps, financial aid, asking for church donations, swearing to child support that they don't know who the father is, and receiving aid for having children. then they move the boyfriend in and he lives off of all the support she gets. to answer your question, i could not be the male in this situation

Ese, you must have lived in Michigan ...this stuff runs rampant here

never been to michigan, but thanks for the warning. i'm not sure how they qualify people, or if once they qualify do have to requalify every so often, but it seems like some people think they have found the goose that laid the golden egg. i'm sure the system was designed to help, but it should be redesigned or updated somehow

Humm myself if I share and they don't then bye bye they go problem solved......

What is good for the goose is good for the gander was what I was always told. I am sure it would work for two gooses or two ganders.

I made this money you didn't......right Ted? We outta here!