lets say its your first date,,,but their ALL THAT!
Would you sleep with them that first date if they were leading their to have that happen,,,,or would you be firm and say,,,no,,not on the first night we met?

1. Yes?
2. no?
3. doesn't really matter?

I would have to know what their feelings were for me so I could emotionally prepare myself.

Sleep and snuggle....yes....touchy-feely....no!

A straight up new person, no.

Someone I've known for a while and then we went out on a date, maybe. Probably wouldn't happen.

Krupa and I waited a year for our first date.
Ebola would not have kept us apart.

Depends on who she is. And if I thought that I would not get bitten in the azz later for it I would go for it! Why not. After nearly getting killed two or three times I came to the realization that I may as well have as much fun as I can before I die!

i gotta say no since i am looking for serious relationship. i mean who wants a serious relationship with someone who puts out right when meeting you

My thoughts have always been,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,

what HER thoughts were........

and IF that took us there,,,it would be cool,,for we would have had to of touched on how we felt before that,,,so we would know what the other had in mind,,,as to us going there..

I do SO dislike the ones who ONLY make the first date a NO,,because of THEM THINKING,,,,it would cheapen them,,,in my mind
NOT BECAUSE "THEY"REALLY FELT IT A WRONG FOR ANY OTHER REASONS.

Hey,,,I am who I am,,,the same as their who they are..
We are BOTH to old to be Nineveh about the act,,,,but I do also understand the feelings,,,so I NEVER go there,,,,unless they lead.

not sex on the first night, thats a 5th or 6th date. if she wanted me to stay the night to cuddle and then pass out sure thats fine but if she wants to give it up to me so quick she isnt worth my time to begin with. and im not going to give it up to her until we both feel comfortable with one another.

Now, that's a healthy and lively approach...

For the rest of the comments, I can only say: "Minds with fences around them."

After all; who knows when the reaper is at your door?

Once in a while, sex is just sex. And it's fun. It has happened in the past.

my personal outlook
if i feel there is the potential for longevity then i would hold off.
if it seems there's no chance of an actual relationship outside of a purely physical one, then i would go as far as she's willing.

to be honest though, i've never been in that situation, so it's all hypothetical for me.


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would have to say no

I think that sex on first dates in inappropriate.

You should only go as far as Prostrate massages and fisting.

lol...

Dan your just ain't right.....

I would say no.... but it also depends.... say i met someone from here... and we developed a really strong emotional bond... and we were together for a long time before we could actually meet... if i fell in love with that person already, then why not? I would still like to think i wouldn't RIGHT AWAY... but in a situation such as that, i dont think it would be so wrong...

please say you are destined to repeat your past

Nice mood good music alot of chemistry. . :-) It happens and I have never had any regrets. I know the choice Im making and I know how to use protection. :)