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Topic: the minute you say you need me...
kelp1961's photo
Wed 09/14/11 10:22 PM
I'm gone...thoughts?

kc0003's photo
Wed 09/14/11 10:28 PM
what if i just couldnt reach the soap?

AndyBgood's photo
Wed 09/14/11 10:29 PM
the night is darkest before the dawn.

Sandelwood4's photo
Wed 09/14/11 10:36 PM
you're saying, if someone seems co dependent you'll flee?

kelp1961's photo
Wed 09/14/11 10:39 PM

what if i just couldnt reach the soap?

should have thought of that before you got in the shower...lol

kc0003's photo
Wed 09/14/11 10:41 PM


what if i just couldnt reach the soap?

should have thought of that before you got in the shower...lol

Fine, I’ll get it myself, but don’t come calling to me the next time you need me to kill a spider!

kelp1961's photo
Wed 09/14/11 10:42 PM

the night is darkest before the dawn.

that it is...good thought. :smile:

kelp1961's photo
Wed 09/14/11 10:46 PM



what if i just couldnt reach the soap?

should have thought of that before you got in the shower...lol

Fine, I’ll get it myself, but don’t come calling to me the next time you need me to kill a spider!

I don't kill spiders...I pick them up and relocate them. next. :smile:

RainbowTrout's photo
Wed 09/14/11 10:47 PM
I ask you what you need me for.




kelp1961's photo
Wed 09/14/11 10:55 PM
co dependent..that is such a catch phrase...I tend to think of the extreme needy person when using that....but it fits I guess...if you say you need me, while you are trying to make me feel loved, or are trying to express how much you love me...I am more likely to not take it the way you may be feeling....when you feel that strongly for someone...it can feel like a need but don't call it a need...

laidbackguy1964's photo
Thu 09/15/11 01:59 AM
what if i just want to hear you reply i am here? or maybe i just want to hear myself talk.frustrated frustrated frustrated

SilentlyScreaming's photo
Thu 09/15/11 03:55 AM
i think thats a little harsh... i dont want someone to rely on me completely for anything.... but i think its nice to feel needed sometimes

pennyg281's photo
Thu 09/15/11 04:12 AM
I saw this quote once. . . I dont love you because I need you. I need you because I love you.

no photo
Thu 09/15/11 04:36 AM

i think thats a little harsh... i dont want someone to rely on me completely for anything.... but i think its nice to feel needed sometimes


I agree with this.

It sounds like you're assuming that anyone who says they need you is too needy. You even said you probably wouldn't take it as they meant it. So, it has more to do with you than it does with them.

soufiehere's photo
Thu 09/15/11 05:51 AM

I saw this quote once. . .
I dont love you because I need you.
I need you because I love you.

Niiiiiiiice Penny :-)

s1owhand's photo
Thu 09/15/11 06:15 AM
the night is darkest just before it goes pitch black forever

laugh

soufiehere's photo
Thu 09/15/11 06:16 AM
the minute you say you need me...
I'm gone...thoughts?

I need you.

(Just checking :-)

no photo
Thu 09/15/11 06:28 AM
Edited by Troublebug on Thu 09/15/11 06:29 AM
But I didn't realize we were outta toilet paper BEFORE I sat down.
tears


guess I'm stuck here than!

no photo
Thu 09/15/11 10:01 AM

I'm gone...thoughts?


I think it's a little too "blanket statement," but I'd agree with the overall premise, if we're talking "I need you in order to function."

There's a difference between "I really need to talk to you about something" and "I can't live without you."

navygirl's photo
Thu 09/15/11 06:17 PM

I'm gone...thoughts?


Yeah, I really hate the word need. Personally, I don't want to ever be needed but I don't mind being appreciated.

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