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I'm just wondering why every guy I talk to suggests that they like to cuddle? WTH? I just don't get it. So do you guys really like to cuddle or is it something you say cuz thats what women wanna hear or WHAT??? A child cuddles a teddy bear, we cuddle kittens, we cuddled with Mom & Dad when we were like 4. Maybe I dont understand the concept. NEWSFLASH most of the guys I know like to cuddle. Its very intimate, yet there is no "performance" pressure. And you get to feel the others heartbeat and body against yours. Its geat as a lead in to sex. Its not a line with all of them., I;m sure with a few. I think alot may mention it because women like that. But some just may like the closeness it provides I have to agree, there is really nothing wrong with cuddling if you are with someone special it can be a very romantic thing. |
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Many times I've had a woman in my arms with her head resting on my chest and we fell asleep together. That's cuddling right?
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Depends on the person. I for that matter, enjoy it sometimes and other times i dont. It depends how "clingy" or attatched that person is. If i have company over, which is referred to my buddies girl who wants to cuddle 24/7, then def not and if you have to ask me: "Do you want to cuddle", then nope. You shouldnt have to ask just do it type thing. Depends on the time, place, and situation. Mostly, women think just like men and vise versa.
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Depends on the person. I for that matter, enjoy it sometimes and other times i dont. It depends how "clingy" or attatched that person is. If i have company over, which is referred to my buddies girl who wants to cuddle 24/7, then def not and if you have to ask me: "Do you want to cuddle", then nope. You shouldnt have to ask just do it type thing. Depends on the time, place, and situation. Mostly, women think just like men and vise versa. Well said. Fhis whole do you like to cuddle thing is just too obvious. Makes me want to reach through the computer and choke some twit who asks me do I like to cuddle and then proceeds to tell me how much it pleasures him to see my picture or pat a females behind. Well Duh like that is news to a female. Now if we are together in some private situation or at least semi private situation and he asks would you like to snuggle or cuddle that just seems considerate. I don't expect someone to read my mind but come on can't people pick up on body language and situation a bit. Doesn't the concept of approriate mean anything now days? |
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Well, what am I to assume when a woman is hanging on to me like tree sap on a hot day? Too much contact and I want to get my weenie whetted! Only a liar or a queer isn't into the idea of a woman getting all touchy feely wanting to do the horizontal bop!
I am so sick of the double standards in life. Its like I say, 99% of the people out there are so full of shitte or themselves. Women engaging in too much personal contact make me horney. So what? So is being honest suddenly a reason for women out there to want to smack my pee pee? Also, female dogs will hump legs too! So now what? Andy is being Scandalous? Well, that is what I do best! |
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I don't see how liking to cuddle is a sign of weakness.I mean really I am a pretty damn manly man I work hard and don't take ********. What you may think is weak is a man who wants someone to be tender and loving with. Cause if all you have is the take no crap hard lined hard edged workaholic then where is all the fun in life? Wheres the motivation to keep going?
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I don't see how liking to cuddle is a sign of weakness.I mean really I am a pretty damn manly man I work hard and don't take ********. What you may think is weak is a man who wants someone to be tender and loving with. Cause if all you have is the take no crap hard lined hard edged workaholic then where is all the fun in life? Wheres the motivation to keep going? Yeah, cuddling leads to foreplay leads to sex..  Or sometimes after your man kicks another mans asz he likes to come home wind down...and eventually, be cuddled by his wife. ..appreciated for his strength. that is after all why men are tough anyways to show off to their women...Its so obvious! That deserves a cuddle. |
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Only a liar or a queer isn't into the idea of a woman getting all touchy feely wanting to do the horizontal bop! Andy, I am telling the absolute hetero truth when I say that there have been hundreds of occasions in which I was extremely affectionate, cuddly, touchy-feely with a girl and not aroused, nor especially interested in copulation or orgasm. There were times when I've had partners with whom I had sex on a daily basis, and regular, additional hours of affection. I was sexually sated, and simply enjoyed all that additional touch in non-sexual way. Also, there were times in which I was in a relationship that was sexually committed but otherwise very "open"... when I was being cuddly and affectionate with other women, it was the norm for me to not have much sexual interest. I associated sex with my primary partner, and non-sexual touch with other women. |
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I don't see how liking to cuddle is a sign of weakness.I mean really I am a pretty damn manly man I work hard and don't take ********. I know, seriously. Cuddling is really not sign of weakness at all! Its not a sign of physical weakness, its not a sign of neediness, its not a sign of someone lacking moral fiber, or lacking bravery, or lacking conviction. What is 'weakness' after all? Men who cuddle are men who recognize their animal nature - most (all?) primates engage in touch as part of their bonding, socializing, communicating. Or sometimes after your man kicks another mans asz he likes to come home wind down...and eventually, be cuddled by his wife.  
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Only a liar or a queer isn't into the idea of a woman getting all touchy feely wanting to do the horizontal bop! Andy, I am telling the absolute hetero truth when I say that there have been hundreds of occasions in which I was extremely affectionate, cuddly, touchy-feely with a girl and not aroused, nor especially interested in copulation or orgasm. There were times when I've had partners with whom I had sex on a daily basis, and regular, additional hours of affection. I was sexually sated, and simply enjoyed all that additional touch in non-sexual way. Also, there were times in which I was in a relationship that was sexually committed but otherwise very "open"... when I was being cuddly and affectionate with other women, it was the norm for me to not have much sexual interest. I associated sex with my primary partner, and non-sexual touch with other women. thats because you are a massage therapist and are used to having your hands all over a body and not being able to be aroused...I can only cuddle so long...mmmmm-mmmm |
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Only a liar or a queer isn't into the idea of a woman getting all touchy feely wanting to do the horizontal bop! Andy, I am telling the absolute hetero truth when I say that there have been hundreds of occasions in which I was extremely affectionate, cuddly, touchy-feely with a girl and not aroused, nor especially interested in copulation or orgasm. There were times when I've had partners with whom I had sex on a daily basis, and regular, additional hours of affection. I was sexually sated, and simply enjoyed all that additional touch in non-sexual way. Also, there were times in which I was in a relationship that was sexually committed but otherwise very "open"... when I was being cuddly and affectionate with other women, it was the norm for me to not have much sexual interest. I associated sex with my primary partner, and non-sexual touch with other women. thats because you are a massage therapist and are used to having your hands all over a body and not being able to be aroused...I can only cuddle so long...mmmmm-mmmm well i agree that people are different! (but its not because i'm a massage therapist: I was like this before I got into bodywork.) |
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Only a liar or a queer isn't into the idea of a woman getting all touchy feely wanting to do the horizontal bop! Andy, I am telling the absolute hetero truth when I say that there have been hundreds of occasions in which I was extremely affectionate, cuddly, touchy-feely with a girl and not aroused, nor especially interested in copulation or orgasm. There were times when I've had partners with whom I had sex on a daily basis, and regular, additional hours of affection. I was sexually sated, and simply enjoyed all that additional touch in non-sexual way. Also, there were times in which I was in a relationship that was sexually committed but otherwise very "open"... when I was being cuddly and affectionate with other women, it was the norm for me to not have much sexual interest. I associated sex with my primary partner, and non-sexual touch with other women. thats because you are a massage therapist and are used to having your hands all over a body and not being able to be aroused...I can only cuddle so long...mmmmm-mmmm well i agree that people are different! (but its not because i'm a massage therapist: I was like this before I got into bodywork.) well, i find massages to be a turn on, i am not a touchy feely person myself, in fact i like to keep a large circle of fresh air around me...I only like to be touched my children, and the one I love, if i am cuddling with my BF i am sure to get aroused, just cant help it. |
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OMG...way out of context some of you. First of all I havent said anything about 'screwing', secondly, lying on the couch watching a video with each other is not cuddling. Hey to each there own. I never said intimacy had to be sexual. ok, so with the information you have all provided in your opinions and such, I guess I'm just not that touchy feely. And when a man wants to 'cuddle' I view that as a weakness. I want a man not a teddy bear. It just equates with softness to me and I dont care for soft men either. Doesnt mean I wanna be strapped down and whipped! Hmm, I am far from being touchy feely myself but I would never think of man that wants to cuddle as a sign of weakness. I would think that is his way of being affectionate. |
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Only a liar or a queer isn't into the idea of a woman getting all touchy feely wanting to do the horizontal bop! Andy, I am telling the absolute hetero truth when I say that there have been hundreds of occasions in which I was extremely affectionate, cuddly, touchy-feely with a girl and not aroused, nor especially interested in copulation or orgasm. There were times when I've had partners with whom I had sex on a daily basis, and regular, additional hours of affection. I was sexually sated, and simply enjoyed all that additional touch in non-sexual way. Also, there were times in which I was in a relationship that was sexually committed but otherwise very "open"... when I was being cuddly and affectionate with other women, it was the norm for me to not have much sexual interest. I associated sex with my primary partner, and non-sexual touch with other women. thats because you are a massage therapist and are used to having your hands all over a body and not being able to be aroused...I can only cuddle so long...mmmmm-mmmm well i agree that people are different! (but its not because i'm a massage therapist: I was like this before I got into bodywork.) well, i find massages to be a turn on, i am not a touchy feely person myself, in fact i like to keep a large circle of fresh air around me...I only like to be touched my children, and the one I love, if i am cuddling with my BF i am sure to get aroused, just cant help it. Yes, I think thats the connection right there. Touch and cuddling and affection is not intrinsically sexual. But when we normally experience it only in certain circumstances in our lives for a long time, then we associate all touch with one of those circumstances. For you, those circumstances are 'touch with your kids' or 'touch with your sexual partner' - so if you are touching an adult male you are likely to associate that with having sex and be sexual. Before I went into massage, and even before I had a lot of sex, I was touching my friends, especially non-romantic female friends in a non-sexual way...this left open a non-sexual-with-peer association, making it easier and more natural to not feel sexual when touching someone. |
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i just had to say its been a long time but when i was with my last i enjoyed the cuddling anywhere anytime but not dirty in public but a hug or holding each other close like having a good freind to be with ya an have a blast.
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I do not mind touching, feeling, stroking, sensuality through touch...thats not my definition of cuddling. Cuddling is having someone all up on you, almost in a suffocating embrace. Ok well, we just wont call it cuddling then. I hate that damned term. Yeah, I'll feel all over ya...very sensual and passionate...but I'll pass on the "cuddling". As for dogs chasing after cats...I'm one cat that puppy might turn tail and run from ;) wow |
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ALL men hate to cuddle
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ALL men hate to cuddle  {{{{mano!!}}}}
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i love to cuddle.... i would rather do that then anything else
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ALL men hate to cuddle {{{{mano!!}}}}
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