Well i was arguing with a friend of mine yesterday on can a leopard change its spot,once a slut always a slut because she can still savours the taste of her past escapades in her mouth Or what do you think?

marrying 'reformed' sluts?

sure, women do it all the time,,lol

Oh, yes.
And you can introduce her, after, as
your reformed slut wife.

what do you consider a Slut?

Would I marry a reformed slut? No, because one slut, reformed or not, is already enough to have in a marriage.

I dated a slut for thirty years, and it was a misnomer. She was promiscuous, all right, but it was not because she was a slut or she would have wanted to be. No. She had high morals, actually. And she was a lady. Unfortunately for her, she could orgasm for a whole half-hour, in fact, that was her norm when she had sex. So obviously she was hooked on it, terribly. Imagine a heroine high, or a crack high. That's what sex was for her. Of course the poor sweetheart never could have enough of it, and she screwed every tom dick and harry. I never put it to her, I never asked her to reform, I loved her. I was, in fact, proud of her, for allowing herself this self expression despite the values she had been raised with (Church of God Evangelist church etc. All her sisters got raped by their uncles and brohters, but my friend was too much of a little angel, they spared her.) She still is an angel, a person whose moral compass got completely out of whack because of the oppositionally storng pulls of the magnetic North of societal expectations, and the magnetic South of her incredibly strong and lucky biology.

She never 1. used a condom, and 2. got any STDs. Incredibly lucky girl. The angels watched over her, I am convinced.

You, OP, I'd consider lucky if you could marry a slut like that. I still can't believe how lucky I was to have dated her.

She was gorgeous all her life, she still is. Incredibly.

KLC, please I beg you to not take this the wrong way: are you a man, or a woman? On some other websites the pictures we post give an indication, because it must show a true liking of the member; on still other websites the girl's monikers are always in pink, the boy's, always in blue.

I always assume you are a man. And then you surprise me with statements like the above quote.

Also: I could never figure out what the picture you have for profile picture shows. I used to stare at it for up to ten-twenty minutes before I finally gave up on hoping that I will ever figure that out.

It shows absolutely no semblance to anything I have seen in the real world. It is an abstract painting to me at this point.

Please don't consider this as a put-down. I still like you and I enjoy reading your posts. I just am baffled if you are a man or a woman, and it is not out of fascetiousness that I say I can't make out what your profile picture shows. It is indeed a sincere and honest statement, nothing sarcastic or abrasive is meant with it, when i said I can't make out what it shows.

1 mans slut is another mans princess !
Or mayby she just likes the beef dagger haha

I think this is one of the silliest thread topic's i have ever seen on mingle!!

That's what I think...since you've asked.

I do not view any woman ...as a slut. Most of the time there are underlying issues to why she feels the need to sleep around in order to feel loved or wanted.
Most of the time this person at one point or other learn that she can turn her world around and be loved properly.
Everyone deserves to be loved in my opinion.

One's sexual past is irrelevant to me as long as their future is only with me.

Seems that work needs to be done on both sides of the fence.

The double standard is alive and well...for now!

It's hard to believe there is still this much ignorance in the world.

Well said.

can she cook and clean?

People are human.
We do stupid chit all the time.
If we learn from it.....
alter our behaviour......
then we deserve nothing less than anyone else!!!!!

This is the plot of the movie "Chasing Amy"...

ew.
why would one want to get married?

I luv this!!!!
at this point, marriage is Highly Overrated!!!
Not out of the question but........
It would take yrs of getting to know her before I would consider it.