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Topic: Fear
Mirage4279 Joined Sat 09/04/10 Posts: 2466	Wed 04/18/12 07:23 AM
I fear women who are very accurate at throwing things and take multiple mental medications. that was a great catch with your mouth by the way

MariahsFantasy Joined Mon 11/28/11 Posts: 6593	Wed 04/18/12 07:24 AM
Good morning aud...that a pretty intense answer for 8am dont ay think??? come back to bed and well hamnmer it out. Hey! I'm already awake so whatever... I am still sleepy about to roll back over My voice is sleepy but my body is thinking otherwise. good then come back to bed then... an awake body is good you offering?

singmesweet Joined Mon 07/28/08 Posts: 26661	Wed 04/18/12 07:24 AM
I think wrapping attraction up in physical boxes has to do with one type of fear,, Are you saying we fear those we aren't attracted to? IM saying we fear stepping out of a 'comfort zone',,,yes,,, You can't force attraction, though. I can't agree that not being attracted equals fear. you can RE Define attraction society insists on making it only a physical reaction, people are fearful of redefining it and comfortable with that definition,, so they stay where they are comfortable,,, If you are not attracted to something/someone, how do you redefine your attraction? I'm not talking about what society things. Individual people have different preferences when it comes to attraction.

RKISIT Joined Tue 01/08/08 Posts: 16721	Wed 04/18/12 07:31 AM
I fear women who are very accurate at throwing things and take multiple mental medications. that was a great catch with your mouth by the way Oh when you tossed me your Vienna sausage yeah that was cool wasn't it?

msharmony Joined Mon 08/31/09 Posts: 61041	Wed 04/18/12 07:33 AM Edited by msharmony on Wed 04/18/12 07:34 AM
I think wrapping attraction up in physical boxes has to do with one type of fear,, Are you saying we fear those we aren't attracted to? IM saying we fear stepping out of a 'comfort zone',,,yes,,, You can't force attraction, though. I can't agree that not being attracted equals fear. you can RE Define attraction society insists on making it only a physical reaction, people are fearful of redefining it and comfortable with that definition,, so they stay where they are comfortable,,, If you are not attracted to something/someone, how do you redefine your attraction? I'm not talking about what society things. Individual people have different preferences when it comes to attraction. again, that is a physical attraction which is fleeting and CAN change it is not an absolute, but society reinforces the idea to us that it is,,,so it becomes our 'reality' and our identity,,,, when I Was younger , I Was not at all attracted to Asians, if society had had a label, lets say,,,afroeurosexual and encouraged me to define my identity by it,,,my repeated insistence to myself and others along with societies affirmation that that is what I Was would become more and more concreate and real with time however, I have interacted with and been 'attracted' to Asians since then because I Refuse to define my identity in such shallow terms... however, there is no such la label, and as I got older , I Realized stimulation and attraction take plce in the brain and therefore are not restricted to a physical package I have developed 'sexual' attraction to people that I may otherwise not be 'attracted' to ,,,because of udnerstanding that,, but most people are too fearful to step out of their comfort zone of some 'absolute' attraction/identity to do so,,, dont believe me? think of episodes on the talk shows where men have 'fallen' for other men they 'thought' were women,,,its in their head the 'package' required to develop attraction, but its not really the 'package' at all,,,,

MariahsFantasy Joined Mon 11/28/11 Posts: 6593	Wed 04/18/12 07:35 AM
I fear women who are very accurate at throwing things and take multiple mental medications. that was a great catch with your mouth by the way Oh when you tossed me your Vienna sausage yeah that was cool wasn't it?

Torgo70 Joined Fri 06/27/08 Posts: 27387	Wed 04/18/12 07:38 AM
I'm asceered of this thread.

Mirage4279 Joined Sat 09/04/10 Posts: 2466	Thu 04/19/12 01:39 AM
Good morning aud...that a pretty intense answer for 8am dont ay think??? come back to bed and well hamnmer it out. Hey! I'm already awake so whatever... I am still sleepy about to roll back over My voice is sleepy but my body is thinking otherwise. good then come back to bed then... an awake body is good you offering? Perhaps I am LoL...report to the what kind of panties are you wearing and well see if they will look good on my head...

MariahsFantasy Joined Mon 11/28/11 Posts: 6593	Thu 04/19/12 11:40 AM
Good morning aud...that a pretty intense answer for 8am dont ay think??? come back to bed and well hamnmer it out. Hey! I'm already awake so whatever... I am still sleepy about to roll back over My voice is sleepy but my body is thinking otherwise. good then come back to bed then... an awake body is good you offering? Perhaps I am LoL...report to the what kind of panties are you wearing and well see if they will look good on my head... Well I am a single gal so why not?

Mirage4279 Joined Sat 09/04/10 Posts: 2466	Thu 04/19/12 01:21 PM
Good morning aud...that a pretty intense answer for 8am dont ay think??? come back to bed and well hamnmer it out. Hey! I'm already awake so whatever... I am still sleepy about to roll back over My voice is sleepy but my body is thinking otherwise. good then come back to bed then... an awake body is good you offering? Perhaps I am LoL...report to the what kind of panties are you wearing and well see if they will look good on my head... Well I am a single gal so why not? Keep that up and youll be keeping me toasty in the early am and wont have time for posting

LexFonteyne Joined Thu 12/07/06 Posts: 32131	Thu 04/19/12 01:22 PM
What truly makes a man afraid of a woman in all aspects of the spectrum? The inevitable "I need a BAY-BEE!!" speech....

navygirl Joined Sat 06/02/07 Posts: 8118	Fri 04/20/12 12:45 PM Edited by navygirl on Fri 04/20/12 12:47 PM
I scare men away by having served in the military, by being independent, by not needing his help, by lifting something heavier, and by showing any signs of intelligence. Just the whole point of being such a strong woman scares men away/ Its not hard at all to scare a man away.

whatssuup Joined Sat 10/25/08 Posts: 690	Fri 04/20/12 12:54 PM
I scare men away by having served in the military, by being independent, by not needing his help, by lifting something heavier, and by showing any signs of intelligence. Just the whole point of being such a strong woman scares men away/ Its not hard at all to scare a man away. Hey.... Want to help me change back to summer tires on the car?

Mirage4279 Joined Sat 09/04/10 Posts: 2466	Fri 04/20/12 03:35 PM
I scare men away by having served in the military, by being independent, by not needing his help, by lifting something heavier, and by showing any signs of intelligence. Just the whole point of being such a strong woman scares men away/ Its not hard at all to scare a man away. ahhhh wer4e just a little skedish when it comes to sea men

navygirl Joined Sat 06/02/07 Posts: 8118	Fri 04/20/12 09:42 PM
I scare men away by having served in the military, by being independent, by not needing his help, by lifting something heavier, and by showing any signs of intelligence. Just the whole point of being such a strong woman scares men away/ Its not hard at all to scare a man away. Hey.... Want to help me change back to summer tires on the car? Sure. I changed 3 flats on my car when I drove to Alaska.

navygirl Joined Sat 06/02/07 Posts: 8118	Fri 04/20/12 09:43 PM
I scare men away by having served in the military, by being independent, by not needing his help, by lifting something heavier, and by showing any signs of intelligence. Just the whole point of being such a strong woman scares men away/ Its not hard at all to scare a man away. ahhhh wer4e just a little skedish when it comes to sea men

newg78 Joined Thu 03/01/07 Posts: 3672	Fri 04/20/12 09:46 PM
What truly makes a man afraid of a woman in all aspects of the spectrum? Fear of being alone.

MariahsFantasy Joined Mon 11/28/11 Posts: 6593	Sat 04/21/12 06:41 PM
What truly makes a man afraid of a woman in all aspects of the spectrum? Fear of being alone. That the next one won't be as good as their ex.

Peekinin Joined Mon 03/17/08 Posts: 4970	Sat 04/21/12 06:47 PM
What truly makes a man afraid of a woman in all aspects of the spectrum? Same thing that makes a woman afraid of a man Lose of the me A perception of we To jump in with eyes wide open takes courage and love deep enough to conquer the fear

MariahsFantasy Joined Mon 11/28/11 Posts: 6593	Sat 04/21/12 07:24 PM
What truly makes a man afraid of a woman in all aspects of the spectrum? Same thing that makes a woman afraid of a man Lose of the me A perception of we To jump in with eyes wide open takes courage and love deep enough to conquer the fear People who are afraid of this maybe haven't accepted themselves. Its only a loss of me if its "one-sided" There's only a "we" if both parties so take a chance on each other.