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Topic: The things that make you.....you
krupa's photo
Sun 04/22/12 01:05 PM
I firmly believe that we are what we were raised to be. (we learn by example...not ideology)

I was raised to be stubborn, indepedant, concieted and self-confident.

I was also raised to give gratitude and loyalty. I was raised to give love as good as I can give hate. I am good at both.


What where you raised to be?

All of us are gonna play it up to the best light but, please be honest.

Are you a lover? A fighter? A push over? An @$$hole?

There are no wrong answers here. Just be honest.

You will be respected and loved anyway.

TxsGal3333's photo
Sun 04/22/12 01:21 PM
I was raised to be independent...

I was raised that never tell someone you can't until you have actually tried doing it first.

I was raised to give respect to others until they give you a reason not too..

I was also raised to treat others as you would want to be treated...


Not sure that I follow all that I was taught for as I got older I grew into the person I'm now...

There are somethings within my child hood that I said I would always change with my own. For I'm a true believer that we grow into our parents unless we change the cycle our kids will do the same...

Most of us seem to have bucked the system even though we have traits of our parents we have grown to be the person from our actions within life. All that matters in the end is that we are happy with who we have become....bigsmile

mssilverfox's photo
Sun 04/22/12 01:38 PM
Edited by mssilverfox on Sun 04/22/12 01:41 PM
I am a giver...I was raised to treat other as I would like to be treated and to respect my elders.. After I married my second husband many of his friends were people that were my teachers when I was in school..It was hard to call them by their first names..

I was raised to be independent(all my kids are)... and to know I could do anything I made up my mind to do.. Growing up around racing, cars and motorcycles, I was sure I was going to be the first female to drive at Indianappolis! bigsmile I love flying high and going fast...lol

I will be the first to admit when I'm wrong but I will fight with everything I've got if I know I'm right...:smile:

krupa's photo
Sun 04/22/12 01:46 PM
If I read that right.....I could probably score with both of you....If my woman didn't kill me.

I ain't saying it like a bad thing.....I love sluts!

I love you gals.

:

no photo
Sun 04/22/12 02:11 PM
Independent, stubborn, intolerant of stupidity, yet...compassionate to those truely in need.

I'm only an azzhole.....

when I need to be!!!!!

laugh bigsmile laugh

galendgirl's photo
Sun 04/22/12 02:16 PM


What where you raised to be?


I was raised to be a "good girl people-pleaser" and to avoid conflict.

Self-confidence is something I struggle with every day - but when my back is really up against a wall I usually find a little kernel of self-respect and act on it.

My stubborn and independent nature came out of self-preservation.

I love earnestly and feel deeply - both joy and sorrow.


Are you a lover? A fighter? A push over? An @$$hole?


I'm all of these things and more. Perfectly imperfect and in a word...HUMAN. Pretty much like everybody.

flowerforyou


no photo
Sun 04/22/12 02:22 PM
I know who I am. I'm the dude playin' the dude, disguised as another dude!

krupa's photo
Sun 04/22/12 02:24 PM



What where you raised to be?


I was raised to be a "good girl people-pleaser" and to avoid conflict.

Self-confidence is something I struggle with every day - but when my back is really up against a wall I usually find a little kernel of self-respect and act on it.

My stubborn and independent nature came out of self-preservation.

I love earnestly and feel deeply - both joy and sorrow.


Are you a lover? A fighter? A push over? An @$$hole?


I'm all of these things and more. Perfectly imperfect and in a word...HUMAN. Pretty much like everybody.

flowerforyou




My interpretaion is "Ho"...but, somehow it ain't a bad thing.

krupa's photo
Sun 04/22/12 02:26 PM

I know who I am. I'm the dude playin' the dude, disguised as another dude!


I feel that is cool but, I feel kinda wierd that it is giving me a boner.....is that wrong?

krupa's photo
Sun 04/22/12 02:35 PM
I tell my dogs that they are friendless and alone and that they are a terrible burden.....

cause it is funnier to mess with the ones that really love you.

krupa's photo
Sun 04/22/12 02:38 PM

I know who I am. I'm the dude playin' the dude, disguised as another dude!


Do it man.....make me give you that apology. you got it comming....now earn it man.

no photo
Sun 04/22/12 03:05 PM
I was raised to be honest, responsible and independent.

no photo
Sun 04/22/12 03:19 PM
Whats bred in the bone is born in the flesh:

My mother ended up a single mother after an abusive marriage.
I am a single mom after an abusive relationship.

I was raised and am rasing my children to work hard but don't take no **** from anyone. Learn from your mistakes ,don't be afraid of making them, and correct them the best you can. Love & Respect others.Learn forgiveness but don't ever forget when someone does you wrong. Hold your head up at all times and just be who you are!

Totage's photo
Sun 04/22/12 03:25 PM

I firmly believe that we are what we were raised to be. (we learn by example...not ideology)

I was raised to be stubborn, indepedant, concieted and self-confident.

I was also raised to give gratitude and loyalty. I was raised to give love as good as I can give hate. I am good at both.


What where you raised to be?

All of us are gonna play it up to the best light but, please be honest.

Are you a lover? A fighter? A push over? An @$$hole?

There are no wrong answers here. Just be honest.

You will be respected and loved anyway.


I think it's more so true when we're children, but as we get older we choose to either be a product of our environment or not.

I was given the option to choose a few different paths, so I kinda just made my own path, I suppose.

no photo
Sun 04/22/12 03:30 PM
Never gave this any real thought much... I am just myself really.

I suppose I could be classified as stubborn, silly, cold and arrogant.

But I consider myself whimsical, thoughtful, determined, honorable and driven.

Really I think it comes down to how people find me.

no photo
Sun 04/22/12 03:32 PM
I was raised to be a Gentleman.

galendgirl's photo
Sun 04/22/12 04:37 PM


My interpretaion is "Ho"...but, somehow it ain't a bad thing.


Well, I'm not done learning so...
:banana:

krupa's photo
Sun 04/22/12 04:44 PM



My interpretaion is "Ho"...but, somehow it ain't a bad thing.


Well, I'm not done learning so...
:banana:


....boner!

:)

galendgirl's photo
Sun 04/22/12 04:46 PM
I am, however, smart enough not to tempt the wrath of a hottie girlfriend like you've got (as if she had a worry about me - OR you! NOT!)

krupa's photo
Sun 04/22/12 04:49 PM

I was raised to be a Gentleman.


Sure...that is what we tell the natives....now , tell us how you are when you are getting funky.

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