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Topic: LOVE OR BEAUTY
smileyy19 Joined Mon 03/19/12 Posts: 43	Sun 04/29/12 04:01 PM
Do people fall in love for the beauty of the person or for inside of the person?

dozzer13 Joined Sun 09/17/06 Posts: 7284	Sun 04/29/12 04:04 PM
depends on how shallow that person is

BettyB Joined Tue 01/29/08 Posts: 31912	Sun 04/29/12 04:05 PM
Maybe a little bit of both.

oldhippie1952 Joined Mon 03/14/11 Posts: 22693	Sun 04/29/12 04:05 PM
I have to "know" a person to feel love.

Totage Joined Sat 10/13/07 Posts: 24210	Sun 04/29/12 04:07 PM
People often confuse lust for love. What's on the inside often times makes one even more attractive on the outside to me. Although, outside appearance is all we have to go by at first, what's on the inside is what's more important. I'd much rather be in love with one who is an 8 on the outside and a 10 on the inside, than with one who is a 10 on the outside and a 1 on the inside.

TammyA Joined Sat 03/10/12 Posts: 300	Sun 04/29/12 04:07 PM
I think the physical appearance is what attracts people to each other, but the inside is what causes a person to either fall in love with that person or not.

josie68 Joined Mon 11/22/10 Posts: 6270	Sun 04/29/12 04:10 PM Edited by josie68 on Sun 04/29/12 04:14 PM
If you only love the outside you are in trouble. My ex after 14 years told me I wasn't pretty anymore and it sucked. So I don;t want to be liked because of the outside, as looking ok doesnt last everyone gets old eventually but hopefully you are attracted to the outside but love the inside.

teadipper Joined Wed 10/19/11 Posts: 2732	Sun 04/29/12 04:22 PM
That's like saying what makes a donut tasty. I mean sure the maple bar looks better than the powdered raspberry filled but if you bite into them, the maple bar is not near as interesting as the raspberry. No, I am not high but I think I spent too much time with stoner heavy metal guys in high school. If I start babbling about if you spit in the ocean on one side, does it rise that much more on the other side, let me know.

Ghostrider2u Joined Thu 05/17/07 Posts: 6953	Sun 04/29/12 05:11 PM
For the Beauty..... Of those who have it from the..... Inside...out!!!! For the beauty inside...... makes the outside that much more..... Appealing!!!!

Ladywind7 Joined Sun 04/08/12 Posts: 7833	Sun 04/29/12 05:32 PM
For the Beauty..... Of those who have it from the..... Inside...out!!!! For the beauty inside...... makes the outside that much more..... Appealing!!!! agree.

Gentleman590 Joined Sat 03/24/12 Posts: 247	Sun 04/29/12 05:43 PM
I think the physical appearance is what attracts people to each other, but the inside is what causes a person to either fall in love with that person or not. You are very correct and astite!!!

man4sale Joined Sun 11/18/07 Posts: 166	Sun 04/29/12 06:17 PM
I need to love the inside of a women first the beauty part is a bonus.

pyxxie13 Joined Wed 09/28/11 Posts: 3835	Sun 04/29/12 06:32 PM
I have to "know" a person to feel love. Put me down for that too.

Leigh2154 Joined Sun 10/02/11 Posts: 16479	Sun 04/29/12 06:44 PM
Do people fall in love for the beauty of the person or for inside of the person? Both.....People fall in love for a variety of reasons, some are right, some are wrong.....We fall in love with people we find attractive....We fall in love with people who find us attractive....When we love someone, in our eyes they are beautiful inside and out....Tammy is right, the outside is "usually" what creates the initial attraction which may or may not lead to falling in love...You can also fall in love with a person you are not physically attracted to if you are in a situation where you have the opportunity to get to know the person on the inside...Like Gostrider said, it's the beauty on the inside that makes the outside beautiful...

TammyA Joined Sat 03/10/12 Posts: 300	Sun 04/29/12 06:48 PM
Do people fall in love for the beauty of the person or for inside of the person? Both.....People fall in love for a variety of reasons, some are right, some are wrong.....We fall in love with people we find attractive....We fall in love with people who find us attractive....When we love someone, in our eyes they are beautiful inside and out....Tammy is right, the outside is "usually" what creates the initial attraction which may or may not lead to falling in love...You can also fall in love with a person you are not physically attracted to if you are in a situation where you have the opportunity to get to know the person on the inside...Like Gostrider said, it's the beauty on the inside that makes the outside beautiful... So very true, been there, done that.

Rawrr_Girl Joined Sun 10/04/09 Posts: 4431	Sun 04/29/12 09:36 PM
People are attracted to each other for different reasons. If i don't feel some sort of attraction towards him, then i might aswell quit while I'm ahead.

Cheer_up Joined Tue 11/02/10 Posts: 3269	Sun 04/29/12 09:45 PM
If you only love the outside you are in trouble. My ex after 14 years told me I wasn't pretty anymore and it sucked. So I don;t want to be liked because of the outside, as looking ok doesnt last everyone gets old eventually but hopefully you are attracted to the outside but love the inside. well i think your ex needs to buy some glasses cause your beautiful looking and your new guy is a lucky dude i tell ya :) cheers cause i know your a good person from talking to you in the past and you got looks too :) have a great night my friend cheers

Cheer_up Joined Tue 11/02/10 Posts: 3269	Sun 04/29/12 09:49 PM
Do people fall in love for the beauty of the person or for inside of the person? depends what the person is looking for myself i go for a persons heart cause looks fade anyways :) but it helps to in making love both :)cheers

navygirl Joined Sat 06/02/07 Posts: 8118	Mon 04/30/12 11:27 AM
Do people fall in love for the beauty of the person or for inside of the person? Mostly for the beauty as you have to be attracted to that person and looks are what attract people.

Dodo_David Joined Fri 08/13/10 Posts: 48916	Mon 04/30/12 05:05 PM
Do people fall in love for the beauty of the person or for inside of the person? #97 of Observations About Life: Attractiveness is on the outside. Beauty is on the inside.