in the opposite sex how many people just want looks? in my case i want more than that, i want intelligence confidence and a smile that jumps out and beats the crap out of me so I will do whatever she asks me to do.

Personality and the ability to make me laugh is high on my list...



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Personality all the way....hate to be redundant but sense of humor is a must!

hello eileena my dear so nice to see you again.

WOW!!! omg.... its a total suprise to see you on here again
for you seem to had been hiding from the world so to speak




oh by the way.. i was talking about you Romeo

There does have to be attraction in the beginning. However, there's much more than that. I like confident men who know what they want.

I prefer.....

Boobs.....

But I'll go with Boobs that can make me.....

Laugh!!!!!

physically, if I am not 'turned off' Im good

some physical things are a turn off to me, for whatever reason

as long as Im not 'turned off' by the physical , I can become physically attracted to anyones appearance if there is enough of a connection developing emotionally, or intellectually, or spiritually

I guess we really can see people in 'different lights' the more we get to know them,,,,

the most important thing is the balance of the relationship, I want someone with similar values and ideals and interests, someone that will be able to truly ENJOY sharing the life they have as opposed to continuing to do their own thing because our tastes and interests dont metch

I Just want someeone to truly become 'one' with , and not just share a home or share responsibilities with,,,

There are so many ethereal qualities that make a match. But the bottom line is that they have to want me, be willing to care for my heart, and be willing to offer me theirs in return. No substitutions. No half-hearted attempts (so to speak.)

I love a sense of..humanity in a person.
They have figured out their spot in the
universe and hold it, uniquely,
in their fashion.

Proud, fair, kind, charitable, protective,
all the good things we are capable of.

Looks are a fragile commodity, and I would
not invest in them.

I agree with Singmesweet, there has to be some physical attraction, i´m not going to lie about that. But for me that´s not enough. The one quality that is a MUST for me is honesty. Then, of course, good sense of humour and friendship, I mean, someone you can count on and rely on as a friend

I'm liking the fact that there seems to be no extremely vain person that wants solely on looks. I mean dont get me wrong I want some physical attraction to but its not everything I need or desire

i dont go by there looks
i go by there personality, and how they treat a woman

if there personality stinks
then there is no point to stick around

i always go by this saying

beauty is the eye of the beholder

I am looking of course for a girl I find remotely attractive, I don't care if she's my dream girl physically but remotely attractive will do.

I'm mainly looking for a self confident girl who is loving and caring and has an amazing personality.

Essentially a girl I fall in love with who shares my beliefs or at the very least respects them.

A life partner.

But typically I go after girls who are hard working, overly confident and strong women.

I have to look up to them and bring something to the table that I don't. I'm a mad genius lol other then Math I'm brilliant but I'm not as great at some other things and I like a girl who is better then me at some things.

Actually me whole life I've been after active girls who can also chill. The reason I am very smart but I also love to do some physical stuff and enjoy trying new things. I like going camping and such, problem I'm always to busy doing things I see as more important.

But when I have a girl around who likes physical activity I actually have an excuse to do the stuff. Haven't been camping in years, why? Because I have better more efficient uses of my time. But if I have a girl then Ill have an excuse to go out and do that stuff!

If she don't put out in the first 45 minutes....there is something wrong with her.

:)

I may be asking too much, but I'd like the full package. Good looks, good sense of humor, caring, compassionate, romantic, active, financially and emotionally stable, easy-going, passionate, faithful, hard-working, honest and genuine man.

Besides, I'm not asking for anything I'm not willing to bring to the table myself either.

i look for quantity,not quality

Trustworthy - cheaters have been dominating the game!

PS, Hi Jeff!

"MAY BE" asking too much?

You know I have a flair for abusing men...care to make a date with my paddle? If you fall in love with me, not gonna stop ya.