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Topic: Love dont live here anymore.
Ladywind7 Joined Sun 04/08/12 Posts: 7833	Fri 07/06/12 12:55 PM Edited by Ladywind7 on Fri 07/06/12 01:13 PM
Think back to previous relationships. When love for that person has gone, what feeling replaces it? Of course everybodies idea of love is different & all relationships have different dynamics, but that 'lost love' feeling, are there words to describe it?

Derekkye Joined Sat 12/22/07 Posts: 3427	Fri 07/06/12 01:20 PM Edited by Derekkye on Fri 07/06/12 01:20 PM
no...just the pitt in the stomach that only time can eventually take away

Ladywind7 Joined Sun 04/08/12 Posts: 7833	Fri 07/06/12 01:28 PM
no...just the pitt in the stomach that only time can eventually take away Ouch, that sounds nasty. If you dont mind me asking, who ended it, you or her?

singmesweet Joined Mon 07/28/08 Posts: 26661	Fri 07/06/12 01:43 PM
I try to be friendly with exes, but I don't really think about them often.

Derekkye Joined Sat 12/22/07 Posts: 3427	Fri 07/06/12 01:56 PM
no...just the pitt in the stomach that only time can eventually take away Ouch, that sounds nasty. If you dont mind me asking, who ended it, you or her? A long long time ago - 1994 - she left me along with my 1.5yr old son...it's called a broken heart but all is well now

Ladywind7 Joined Sun 04/08/12 Posts: 7833	Fri 07/06/12 02:27 PM
I try to be friendly with exes, but I don't really think about them often. I can see that 'peacemaker' in you. My ex died so although there is peace, there is not closure, because we argued the last time we spoke. Ugh!

Ladywind7 Joined Sun 04/08/12 Posts: 7833	Fri 07/06/12 02:34 PM
Derykke. So you have a son. Something good :-)

blueeyes2000 Joined Thu 11/08/07 Posts: 1517	Fri 07/06/12 02:35 PM
Think back to previous relationships. When love for that person has gone, what feeling replaces it? Of course everybodies idea of love is different & all relationships have different dynamics, but that 'lost love' feeling, are there words to describe it? Hmm, when the feeling of love was gone, I'd say sadness. Hating the quiet, the empty feeling in a room. Missing a lot of little things,even a touch or the sound of their voice. But eventually that goes away,and you can move on maybe.

NathanielZ Joined Fri 12/30/11 Posts: 45	Fri 07/06/12 02:36 PM
I haven't lost anyone really close to me - maybe my grandparents, but I was so young that I barely remember but I know it will happen sooner or later. That is why I am doing all I can to research aging...hopefully I can extend our lifespan long enough for technology to catch up. If the brain can be mapped and our memory data can be stored on a chip, from then on, I no longer need to worry.

oldhippie1952 Joined Mon 03/14/11 Posts: 22693	Fri 07/06/12 02:36 PM
Think back to previous relationships. When love for that person has gone, what feeling replaces it? Of course everybodies idea of love is different & all relationships have different dynamics, but that 'lost love' feeling, are there words to describe it? Pain.

Ladywind7 Joined Sun 04/08/12 Posts: 7833	Fri 07/06/12 02:49 PM
So we have sadness, emptiness, pain, motivation to extend life, the pits and for me grief, regrets and deep anguish, a questioning of my beliefs and new love in the form of children :-)

oldhippie1952 Joined Mon 03/14/11 Posts: 22693	Fri 07/06/12 02:56 PM
I said pain cuz when I am in love I am truly in love and don't want it to end. Haven't found anyone the same way.

singmesweet Joined Mon 07/28/08 Posts: 26661	Fri 07/06/12 02:56 PM
I try to be friendly with exes, but I don't really think about them often. I can see that 'peacemaker' in you. My ex died so although there is peace, there is not closure, because we argued the last time we spoke. Ugh! I'm sorry that happened to you. There is someone I wonder about. He did the disappearing act and I never heard from him again, so there was no closure. There is no anger or hate, but I do wonder what happened.

Goofball73 Joined Mon 11/05/07 Posts: 33913	Fri 07/06/12 03:51 PM
You know, one past relationship I had ended with me asking, "WTF"? I mean, it was so odd how she ended it. She just broke off contact and then (like four days later) she texts me and states, "I guess we are no more? Well, I really loved you and good luck". That was the last I heard from her. Lol. So, this one ended in confusion.

Ladywind7 Joined Sun 04/08/12 Posts: 7833	Fri 07/06/12 04:01 PM Edited by Ladywind7 on Fri 07/06/12 04:06 PM
I blame his 'disappearance' on aliens myself JK. I have a cousin that has disappeared, for real. He was a truck driver in Australia. The police told him to pull over and sleep, they found his truck, (mobile & wallet still there) but not him, ever.

MariahsFantasy Joined Mon 11/28/11 Posts: 6593	Fri 07/06/12 04:09 PM
You know, one past relationship I had ended with me asking, "WTF"? I mean, it was so odd how she ended it. She just broke off contact and then (like four days later) she texts me and states, "I guess we are no more? Well, I really loved you and good luck". That was the last I heard from her. Lol. So, this one ended in confusion. That's not confusing. She ended things on HER terms. There had to have been a reason behind it. Clearly she didn't wanna tell you.

MariahsFantasy Joined Mon 11/28/11 Posts: 6593	Fri 07/06/12 04:11 PM
Think back to previous relationships. When love for that person has gone, what feeling replaces it? Of course everybodies idea of love is different & all relationships have different dynamics, but that 'lost love' feeling, are there words to describe it? Just memories, what's left is moments.

krupa Joined Thu 07/03/08 Posts: 18651	Fri 07/06/12 04:29 PM
I try my best not to give them any thought....what's the point? Second guess a past we can't change with 20/20 hindsight? I am generaly indifferent. Only one that I ain't ever gonna get along with.

Totage Joined Sat 10/13/07 Posts: 24210	Fri 07/06/12 04:29 PM
Think back to previous relationships. When love for that person has gone, what feeling replaces it? Of course everybodies idea of love is different & all relationships have different dynamics, but that 'lost love' feeling, are there words to describe it? My feelings just fade with the memories, and there is no feeling after love with me. I don't fall out of love, it's more of a fade to nothing. I don't dwell or hang onto what's go, I accept it and move on.

Unknow Joined Sat 10/21/06 Posts: 3353	Fri 07/06/12 04:49 PM
Feelings now on the last person I loved? Gawd he looks great! What an ashole! Dang I miss what we had! Go the other way to avoid him! Hope he is there again tomorrow! Who does he think he is anyways?!? Someones been working out! What a looser! Hope he chokes! We don't even say hi now! I wish he'd just say hi! Maybe I'll just call him! I should really slap him! It will NEVER work! Might want to hug him! F&#$#*%# him!!!!!