I value your opinion.

Thanks Ruth!

i guarantee i guarantee that guys always think about if a woman puts out or not. single moms answer that question without a guy having to ask

(bulldog double guarantee - patent pending)

thats kind of illogical

unless you believe guys are looking for 'absolute' virgins, which would be much more unlikely as they got older to expect (or want)


it only takes 'putting out' once to make a child, often within a COMMITTED Relationship,

that is not evidence of anyone being willing to 'put out' in a casual context

lighten up. i guess i need to put disclaimers on every post i try to make light of the topic

btw, if you believe that "putting out" once to make a child is OFTEN done in a COMMITTED relationship, than you should visit some housing projects and speak to the girls with children who have "put out" once and were not in a committed relationship

I would rather date a single mother than a woman who doesn't have children. Being a single parent myself (not living with me) I feel like they can relate to what my wants, needs as a parent and adult are as well as they have a better chance of accepting my son and vice versa.

A woman isn't less attractive because she is a single mother.

Everyone has a mom. That is all to be said.

There juss another person plus there child.....iv dated single mothers...
If you have feelings for a mother it does mean it won't work out juss cause she has a kid
Hell you might even fall in love with the kid also
Its a package deal...
There's nothing wrong with dating single mothers
Juss make sure ur kid is treated respectfully and kindly

no big deal

just dispelling the notion that a woman that has had sex often enough to make a child(once) is 'putting out' any more or less than those who have had just as much or more sex but not had a child,,,,

i know its very hard because im a single father raising my children by myself. i will keep you in my prayers tonight. dont ever give up!

I think of an american expression - you have your work cut out for you.

hmmm, that's curious

now that,s a curious thought, hmmmmm

I am interested

I'm not sure what the question meant as far as what GUYS are supposed to think about, but does it really matter what anyone thinks about you as a single mom? I've been a single mom for a long time, and there are loads of single moms out there(and on here), who do it day after day without complaining. It is what it is, and no one can judge you for being a single mom. It's one of the hardest things out there to be a single parent, and be able to cope and deal with it emotionally/mentally/physically on a daily basis. There's times you can be so exhausted all you want to do is cry, but you can't. There's times when all you want to do is sleep, but you can't. There's times when you wish that you had someone who cared about you and loved you, but everything you have is in your kids. The kind of strength it takes to be a single PARENT is one of a kind. I have my good times and my bad moments, and I wish I had someone to help me sometimes, even if it's just to talk to and say 'hey, you're a good mom, and you can do it'. But it doesn't always happen, and you have to put everything aside for your kids. They keep me going sometimes, when I don't think I can do it anymore.

Agreed

I soooo agree

Sometimes the single part isn't on purpose. Either u pick a winner(loser). Or like in my case my fiancé was killed in a motorcycle accident and 2 weeks later I found out I'm pregnant. Sometimes I feel no one will want me cause they assume I'm a sleep around.

I've slept with a single mum before, the only difference is they're more willing so I like them but I couldn't walk into a kids life as a father figure unless he was like 1 years old and his real Dad died or something