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| Topic: What do you GUYS think about single mothers?? | |
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Sometimes the single part isn't on purpose. Either u pick a winner(loser). Or like in my case my fiancé was killed in a motorcycle accident and 2 weeks later I found out I'm pregnant. Sometimes I feel no one will want me cause they assume I'm a sleep around. Gee, why would someone assume that you sleep around? Could it be because you became pregnant outside of marriage? I am not saying that you are a bad person because you became pregnant outside of marriage, but the fact that you did so indicates to others that you don't wait until marriage before having sex. |
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I personally have many friends who are single moms, some married, some not. They always do what is best for their kids & I always help them out when I can. One of my favorite sayings is about a mother's love that their child knows what her heartbeat sounds like from the inside!
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I've slept with a single mum before, the only difference is they're more willing so I like them but I couldn't walk into a kids life as a father figure unless he was like 1 years old and his real Dad died or something |
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I think single mom's are doing one heckuva hard job. I have no problems dating them but I'm taken.
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Hello
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Easy root. Just saying
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You go girl
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Single moms
Should be called super moms! They go through so many emotions.  loved         |
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agreed
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For me they are super women
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Not sure really, I personally think it`s a little wrong ... I mean, kids should have two parents. Even though there are many reasons for someone having to raise kids on their own. Takes a lot of effort, I`m sure. Here in Norway, it almost seems as raising children on your own, is the norm - I don`t like it, I just don`t, and I would be somewhat hesitant to involve myself with a single mum because I don`t think I would be able to trust her fully to be faithful in a relationship. But, I could be ignorant, who knows.
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I'm not sure what the question meant as far as what GUYS are supposed to think about, but does it really matter what anyone thinks about you as a single mom? I've been a single mom for a long time, and there are loads of single moms out there(and on here), who do it day after day without complaining. It is what it is, and no one can judge you for being a single mom. It's one of the hardest things out there to be a single parent, and be able to cope and deal with it emotionally/mentally/physically on a daily basis. There's times you can be so exhausted all you want to do is cry, but you can't. There's times when all you want to do is sleep, but you can't. There's times when you wish that you had someone who cared about you and loved you, but everything you have is in your kids. The kind of strength it takes to be a single PARENT is one of a kind. I have my good times and my bad moments, and I wish I had someone to help me sometimes, even if it's just to talk to and say 'hey, you're a good mom, and you can do it'. But it doesn't always happen, and you have to put everything aside for your kids. They keep me going sometimes, when I don't think I can do it anymore. Very well said and so true! I raised two kids by myself and know how hard it can be. Just want to add that being a single mom(or dad) doesn't automatically make you "ROCK". There are many single mom's who pass their kids off to their parents while they go out and "play" to fulfill their needs instead of giving the emotional support and love to their kids. Just don't like the generalities associated with the term "single mom's" as being all great and responsible. |
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Single moms are ok, what about single Dads?? Men that do the same job that single moms do...
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No, not everyone has a "mom". Everyone has a "mother"
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single moms are not loose anymore than women who get married at some point in time are chaste
people can become single parents at many stages in life and for many reasons,, assuming they are 'loose' because of their marital status seems kind of,,,,, ignorant I wouldn't worry much about it, just be the best parent you can be,,,its meant for two,, but if things didn't work that way for your child,,,don't let anyone make you feel less of a person for it,, just focus on those kids,,,,, single moms can be wonderful, or terrible, just like married moms,,,, |
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I think single moms are the toughest women around. They take all the load on there shoulders. Just one day would snap my sanity....
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Single mums are to good I'm a single dad i have my son full time and work all week i wish i could be half as good to my boy as a mum :(
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Hun, who cares what guys think about single mothers? Our children make us better people, they appreciate our love and the opinion of any man is unimportant :-) Yes, if they are not on board then they can take a hike. You certainly don't want a man who can't respect your children. Amen the last "man" i was with is my beautiful baby daughters father but the moment she was born and the attention removed from him he betrayed us and my son who had grown close to him as well. A man that cant understand that a child is everything to life and love is not a man at all. |
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DO HEAR FEELINGS BEHIND THE WORDS ?
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Sometimes the single part isn't on purpose. Either u pick a winner(loser). Or like in my case my fiancé was killed in a motorcycle accident and 2 weeks later I found out I'm pregnant. Sometimes I feel no one will want me cause they assume I'm a sleep around. Gee , why would someone assume that you sleep around? Could it be because you became pregnant outside of marriage? I am not saying that you are a bad person because you became pregnant outside of marriage, but the fact that you did so indicates to others that you don't wait until marriage before having sex. Seriously!?!?!?! Your assuming that ALL single moms became pregnant out of wedlock. Not so!!!! Some of just aren't as lucky as others. I was married, but was in an abusive relationship. And I refused to raise my children in that enviorment. So don't assume anything...... I was scared for our lives so I left because my children deserved the best. And the best was me becoming a single mom. |
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