Topic: What do you GUYS think about single mothers??
Gossipmpm's photo
Sun 12/22/13 05:14 PM

well on the positive side,it shows you "do it" :thumbsup: smokin




hell yea!!!laugh laugh laugh laugh :heart:

Orko76's photo
Sun 12/22/13 09:24 PM
maybe another topic but what about us single fathers?

amusicalweapon's photo
Tue 12/24/13 06:59 AM

well on the positive side,it shows you "do it" :thumbsup: smokin


^^^This guy right here, this guy here...not worth your time.

It can be two sided really. It depends on why they are single AND a mother. Are they single because of what happened to myself? (I.E. because they were married and their husband cheated on them so they left them) or are they single because THEY are the ones who cheated and got kicked out? It works both ways, and (at least to me) it's important and I will ask. I don't want and cannot trust someone who betrayed someones trust like that.

Now for those were were never married it could be two sided as well. Do they have kids because they were promicuous and never wanted a child and now they take care of them because their father doesn't want anything to do with them? Are they single with children because the father died and they are a widow? I mean all these questions are important and matter.

It can't just be generalized into "well what do you think about single mothers."

In my case, if it's the same situation, then I feel their pain and they are probably ready to move on and find someone who will be faithful. That's what I'm looking for. There will never be another biological mother for my daughter but at the same time, I don't want to be alone and anyone I get involved with needs to realize a child can't just be discarded and ignored. She's a big part of my life and schedules for single parents are different. They'll be times we can't go out because she's sick or because I made plans with her or whatever. Hope this helps.

amusicalweapon's photo
Tue 12/24/13 06:59 AM

maybe another topic but what about us single fathers?


I feel ya man, I'm in the same boat.

Jtevans's photo
Tue 12/24/13 06:59 AM


well on the positive side,it shows you "do it" :thumbsup: smokin




hell yea!!!laugh laugh laugh laugh :heart:



well atleast you get it :tongue: :wink:

amusicalweapon's photo
Tue 12/24/13 07:02 AM



well on the positive side,it shows you "do it" :thumbsup: smokin




hell yea!!!laugh laugh laugh laugh :heart:



well atleast you get it :tongue: :wink:


Because women who don't have children don't have sex. Keep telling yourself that. Just because a woman has a child doesn't mean they want the same sexual relationship they've had with other men either. Think with your big head instead of your small one dude. It's guys like you that give us a bad name. Might want to head over to adult friend finder if that's all you want.

Jtevans's photo
Tue 12/24/13 07:09 AM




well on the positive side,it shows you "do it" :thumbsup: smokin




hell yea!!!laugh laugh laugh laugh :heart:



well atleast you get it :tongue: :wink:


Because women who don't have children don't have sex. Keep telling yourself that. Just because a woman has a child doesn't mean they want the same sexual relationship they've had with other men either. Think with your big head instead of your small one dude. It's guys like you that give us a bad name. Might want to head over to adult friend finder if that's all you want.


whoa...lets back the judgement trolly up shall we?.since you don't know me,don't assume everything you said.ever think 90% of the things i say are just joking comments?because it is.you might want to read peoples posts and get to know them a little before you start assuming stuff....

amusicalweapon's photo
Tue 12/24/13 07:10 AM





well on the positive side,it shows you "do it" :thumbsup: smokin




hell yea!!!laugh laugh laugh laugh :heart:



well atleast you get it :tongue: :wink:


Because women who don't have children don't have sex. Keep telling yourself that. Just because a woman has a child doesn't mean they want the same sexual relationship they've had with other men either. Think with your big head instead of your small one dude. It's guys like you that give us a bad name. Might want to head over to adult friend finder if that's all you want.


whoa...lets back the judgement trolly up shall we?.since you don't know me,don't assume everything you said.ever think 90% of the things i say are just joking comments?because it is.you might want to read peoples posts and get to know them a little before you start assuming stuff....


Fair enough, but it's a pretty illogical joke.

Kays1k's photo
Tue 01/07/14 04:36 PM

I think they're people, pretty much like everyone else with the exception that their lives are substantially more difficult. Just be yourself, Mari, and welcome to Mingle.

:thumbsup:

Kays1k's photo
Tue 01/07/14 04:38 PM




well on the positive side,it shows you "do it" :thumbsup: smokin




hell yea!!!laugh laugh laugh laugh :heart:



well atleast you get it :tongue: :wink:


Because women who don't have children don't have sex. Keep telling yourself that. Just because a woman has a child doesn't mean they want the same sexual relationship they've had with other men either. Think with your big head instead of your small one dude. It's guys like you that give us a bad name. Might want to head over to adult friend finder if that's all you want.

:thumbsup: :thumbsup: :thumbsup:

izzyphoto1977's photo
Tue 01/07/14 04:45 PM
I think they are cannibals and not to be trusted. Wait. That's what I think of their kids. The mothers are fine. lol

no photo
Tue 01/07/14 08:10 PM

blushing :banana: flowerforyou I just want to know what is wrong with people on dating sites everyone looking for a companion to enjoy the rest of there life with whats wrong with just getting together for a weekend throw some goodies on the grill sit by a camp fire drink a few beers talk awhile go to bed have fun get up eat breakfast and start all over again it sounds good to me any takers i'm game in southeren ind (females only)



Im game except for the bed part.:smile:

no photo
Wed 01/08/14 02:24 PM


Single mothers married mothers are in most cases the very same"i think they are just unlucky to have met a man who cares only for himself,i have a few single mother friends and i have a wife who i help as much as i can,to ask what do you think of single mothers is not the question,the question is why do women choose to be alone and not not fight for fathers rights.


Why would we fight for fathers rights. They treat us like crap and beg for mutual custody to minimize their child support then cancel all their visits while throwing the mom under the bus in court. Eff fathers rights. If a man is abusive, cheats or leaves his wife then screw him! Especially when he doesn't pay his child support. Don't punish the child! :angry:

larsson, it's not because you as single father deserve respect too , that you have to treat a single mother mad at at a bad father's behavior as stupid.
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I find this unfair as if if it wasn't suffering for both of the situations.... but maybe I missed one was more suffering than the other??

Children' right is to see an be supported by both parents, and parents not only have rights but duties towards children, including some responsible behavior, whichever the gender, right?

msharmony's photo
Wed 01/08/14 02:43 PM
I am a female who grew up with brothers who are FATHERS to their children

in a home with a father myself

so I definitely support Fathers rights, remembering with rights come responsibilities,, and wish more people would trend an expectation for men to be responsible by supporting fathers rights,,,

women get in situations of raising children by themselves so often because of people who take the fathers role so lightly

madi006's photo
Wed 01/08/14 08:36 PM
sadness is sin. . Alaways be positive and hope for good. May u will be rewards.

2469nascar's photo
Thu 01/09/14 03:44 AM
wow.was thinking she wanted a mans out look on that.my mom was a singal mom and she did great!!! did i just enter the mens hater club

mattdel's photo
Sat 01/11/14 05:23 PM
I think it is very cool because I am a single dad with two lovely kids and they are the world to me and I wish I could find someone that is not in to games

strawberryonde's photo
Sun 01/12/14 04:28 PM
I am a single mother of a younger child. I had to actually dump a few people because they couldn't handle my child OR respect him. He was in their opinion "too hyper" or "too annoying." Well that is too bad. I don't mind being alone because of people like that. It has been hard because men seem great at first and accepting until the child becomes too much for them. I still have yet to meet someone who can handle this task. Then again, I have not tried dating a single dad even. Well hopefully things will be different. I have never joined a dating site before so this is my first.

But in all honesty it shouldn't matter what men think. If they like you for YOU and like your kids too... that is it right there.

Dodo_David's photo
Mon 01/13/14 05:15 AM
Shouldn't single mothers and single dads be treated the same way?

msharmony's photo
Mon 01/13/14 08:42 AM

Shouldn't single mothers and single dads be treated the same way?



of course, depending upon the definition,,lol

some people consider themselves SINGLE Parents because they are no longer married , and not because they are actually raising the child themselves

any person raising a child alone,, should be given credit,,,,,