Topic: What to do if shy ?
dhiman28's photo
Thu 11/08/12 03:37 PM
I myself a shy guy, does girls like shy men?

Cutiepieforyou's photo
Thu 11/08/12 04:09 PM
I am sure there is more to you than being shy. Join the forums here and get to know people!

no photo
Thu 11/08/12 04:33 PM
Learn how to overcome being shy. I used to be very shy when I was younger, but I realized that it won't get me anywhere, so I got past it. It's not always easy, but work on getting past it. Women like confident men.

Gossipmpm's photo
Thu 11/08/12 04:43 PM
i do not!

but im sure there are women that do

but i bet life is a lot better if your not shy...just saying:heart:

Riding_Dubz's photo
Thu 11/08/12 04:46 PM
more then one factor goes into if a girl is into you or not,..

where you slack make up for it in other areas

wux's photo
Thu 11/08/12 05:00 PM
Edited by wux on Thu 11/08/12 05:01 PM
Guys like shy girls, because the man figures she's less apt to go out and play around.

Women like a shy man, because he works hard and brings home the money to support his family's new-shoe-buying and coca-cola habits.

The only thing better for a woman than a shy man, is a shy man who is constantly in an Elvis imitation get-up. This tops the cake, nothing is better. My dad was going to become a priest, and mom married him because the priest uniform is the closest they got to Elvis get-ups in Hungary in the nineteen-thirties. (My parents were at the age that they could have become Elvis's parents, if they were positioning themselves a bit more judiciously. As they were, they got me.)

MariahsFantasy's photo
Thu 11/08/12 05:35 PM

I myself a shy guy, does girls like shy men?


Shy is just another word for not a complete douche quite yet. You should be fine.

Mirage4279's photo
Thu 11/08/12 05:43 PM
And there goes mariah explaining it all again...

MariahsFantasy's photo
Thu 11/08/12 06:04 PM

And there goes mariah explaining it all again...



waving :angel:

Mirage4279's photo
Thu 11/08/12 06:27 PM
Are we ready for my inner douche bag just yet????


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Fri 11/09/12 02:03 AM
I'm shy too. You're the only one who knows what you're truly like. Don't change who you are. Some people prefer shy. Just be you.

Muaness's photo
Fri 11/09/12 03:28 AM
putting a real dark if not black goggle would add some boldness when one is... so i think anyway

Goofball73's photo
Fri 11/09/12 08:04 AM
Online dating is a great tool for shy people. You can say the things you'd like to say (in the flesh) on a forum, chat room, message board, etc. And yeah, you can be someone different on the net as well (as in making up a fake azz profile and not being yourself). But for a shy person, you have the ability to show who you are. Maybe you are a creative writer, or musician, or you have great ideas but are scared to voice them in person. In the online world, you can write it out and let your voice be heard. So, even if you are a shy person, take advantage of the net my friend.

Now. When it comes to the real world, understand that you have to get over your own shyness for you. I am guessing you are afraid of rejection, or afraid of looking like an idiot when it comes to talking to women. Even if you bumble the words when you approach a woman, the mere fact you did approach her is what counts. You can't look at it as she would/could reject you. Look at it as the fact that you broke from your comfort zone and made it happen. You are gonna get shot down. We all do, and no matter how good looking a person is, rejection happens. Women like a confident man. But what they don't want is a man who thinks he is God's gift to women. There is a difference. It's fine being shy. It's who you are. Just find that balance where you aren't afraid to take some risks.

Toodygirl5's photo
Fri 11/09/12 09:16 AM
Edited by Toodygirl5 on Fri 11/09/12 09:17 AM

I myself a shy guy, does girls like shy men?


No! And, if you are on a datesite, it is not the best place for shy people.laugh

SimplicityAtItsBest's photo
Fri 11/09/12 12:24 PM
A little shyness is cute.
I just don't like being the one filling in all the gaps all the time.
Get my drift? Lol.

TexasScoundrel's photo
Fri 11/09/12 01:38 PM
What to do if shy?


Get over it!

There was a time I had this trouble. I actually spent a lot of money to take a class. It helped, but looking back, I really didn't need it.

Just go out and start talking to anyone. It doesn't matter if they think you're a freak because they won't remember you anyway. Just stand up tall, look them in the eye, remember to smile and don't fidget.

Tell them that you've been shy all your life and are trying very hard to get over it. Being social is a learned skill and you can learn it. And it won't take as long as you thought it would.

no photo
Sat 11/10/12 09:10 AM

Learn how to overcome being shy. I used to be very shy when I was younger, but I realized that it won't get me anywhere, so I got past it. It's not always easy, but work on getting past it. Women like confident men.


That sums up me being here...*SIGH*