this is scary and i dont know if i can look for a person to share with like this.its very uncomfortable

You're scared and uncomfortable? You'll fit right in.

One wind whispers;
Another wind shouts.
Be yourself, like Torgo said; "You'll Fit Right in"

I think the trick is not to over think what you want to say.
like I'm doing right now.

If you have any questions ...

The Pig nose!

Then you shouldn't be on a date site to meet anyone.

One cannot experience the world from within a glass box or glass onion!

It doesn't make logical sense to be on here, if you don't feel comfortable about it. Saying that, you could be a member of MI5 or a secret spy for the government, which meant you were forced into being on here. Other than that, you could stay or go. It's your choice.

jus hop in..........n leave everything on us!!!!u wil feel d difference wit in 2 days

We are terribly sorry, but while you were stuck whispering in your fear and social uncomfort, your next life adventure has came and went; please await the next opportunity, it may be awhile, otherwise please speak up

Or she could be a member of the Alien Task Force assigned to find Melmacians.

I agree!

Just start posting in the forums, find a topic that interests you. If you see someone's profile that you find interesting, look to see if they've posted anything. If not, you could always e-mail them anyway and just say what you liked about them. It doesn't commit you to anything. TB Rich is right, you gotta take some chances even if they're kind of scary. If you get emailing someone and aren't sure how to proceed from there, post in the Dating forum about it and we'll give you advice!

Welcome!