Topic: Just because he's hot
DaySinner's photo
Mon 02/18/13 12:36 AM
Edited by DaySinner on Mon 02/18/13 12:54 AM
Yes, I care. Looks and great sex are only a starting point.

I can tell the difference. The relationship feels limited. As if we don't really belong together.


RainbowTrout's photo
Mon 02/18/13 12:58 AM

Do men care if a woman only likes you for your looks?
can men tell if she's settling for him and all he's about just because he's hot and great in the sack?


Some women I feel want a deeper connection and not a superficial relationship. Especially one who had settled for less before. She might even dump the guy so that he wouldn't have to settle himself. She might even intuitively know that the relationship isn't going to work for both of them.

TawtStrat's photo
Mon 02/18/13 06:48 AM
I have settled for women that were with me because I'm hot and good in bed. Well, they said that they liked other things about me as well but not enough apparently to commit to a proper relationship and yeah, that did bother me.

Of course I can tell what a woman wants me for. I'm not stupid.

msharmony's photo
Mon 02/18/13 06:54 AM

Do men care if a woman only likes you for your looks?
can men tell if she's settling for him and all he's about just because he's hot and great in the sack?


I am sure it depends upon what the man is looking for.

IF its something nice to look at and rub against until he comes,, I guess not.

If its companionship, respect, and intimacy beyond the bed,, than I guess so.

mountainwatergirl's photo
Mon 02/18/13 09:30 AM
Let's say that we are talking about men that ARE wanting a relationship. I already know men don't care about details when they are just out for a fling.

s1owhand's photo
Mon 02/18/13 10:00 AM
Story of my life...

ohwell

Kennee77's photo
Mon 02/18/13 10:08 AM

Do men care if a woman only likes you for your looks?
can men tell if she's settling for him and all he's about just because he's hot and great in the sack?


Yes, Men Can tell, cos Women Can't Hide dat Particular Feeling. And Yes, Men Care a lot about dat. In fact, dat's One of d Top Reasons a Good Looking Man wants his Woman 2 Love him for

TawtStrat's photo
Mon 02/18/13 11:22 AM

Let's say that we are talking about men that ARE wanting a relationship. I already know men don't care about details when they are just out for a fling.



I believe that I already answered this but okay, let's say that I meet a woman and she really fancies me and we have great sex but apart from that she isn't all that interested in me or my life. Well, what you are describing is just what's known as a casual relationship and I've tried that and it has something to be said for it because you get the fun without the hassles but ultimately even casual relationships have hassles and one minute they are telling you that they "don't want to get involved" and the next minute they are ringing you all the bloody time or emailing asking what's up with you and why you aren't calling them etc.

A casual relationship is just a way to play somebody and mess with their heads as far as I'm concerned.

mountainwatergirl's photo
Mon 02/18/13 01:17 PM


Let's say that we are talking about men that ARE wanting a relationship. I already know men don't care about details when they are just out for a fling.



I believe that I already answered this but okay, let's say that I meet a woman and she really fancies me and we have great sex but apart from that she isn't all that interested in me or my life. Well, what you are describing is just what's known as a casual relationship and I've tried that and it has something to be said for it because you get the fun without the hassles but ultimately even casual relationships have hassles and one minute they are telling you that they "don't want to get involved" and the next minute they are ringing you all the bloody time or emailing asking what's up with you and why you aren't calling them etc.

A casual relationship is just a way to play somebody and mess with their heads as far as I'm concerned.


No offense Tawt, but your answers are somewhat convoluted for me to find the yes or no answer I was looking for.

TBRich's photo
Mon 02/18/13 01:23 PM
I never had this problem, but I have had women only interested in my wallet. It gets old real fast

no photo
Mon 02/18/13 01:40 PM

Story of my life...

ohwell
damit...I was gonna say that :angry: ......laugh

no photo
Mon 02/18/13 02:39 PM

Do men care if a woman only likes you for your looks?
can men tell if she's settling for him and all he's about just because he's hot and great in the sack?
Never had that problem. :cry:

But I think most poeple do like eye candy to dream about.

TawtStrat's photo
Mon 02/18/13 03:42 PM



Let's say that we are talking about men that ARE wanting a relationship. I already know men don't care about details when they are just out for a fling.



I believe that I already answered this but okay, let's say that I meet a woman and she really fancies me and we have great sex but apart from that she isn't all that interested in me or my life. Well, what you are describing is just what's known as a casual relationship and I've tried that and it has something to be said for it because you get the fun without the hassles but ultimately even casual relationships have hassles and one minute they are telling you that they "don't want to get involved" and the next minute they are ringing you all the bloody time or emailing asking what's up with you and why you aren't calling them etc.

A casual relationship is just a way to play somebody and mess with their heads as far as I'm concerned.


No offense Tawt, but your answers are somewhat convoluted for me to find the yes or no answer I was looking for.


Well, maybe that's because I think your question is hopelessly simplistic. Maybe there is such a thing as a woman that wants a relationship with a man that she only wants for his looks and ability to please her in bed but I never met one. They always want to talk at the very least, even if they don't want to go out with you or cook and clean and start acting like they are your mother trying to tell you what to do and how you need to change. They want friendship as well as sex and if they don't like you as a person they still want to talk and say that to you. You end up getting a casual relationship with someone that is either a pain in the backside that puts you down all the time or someone that just talks about themselves all the time and shows no interest in you and your problems. The idea of a woman that just keeps her mouth shut and gives you sex on tap is a myth believed in by foolish people that know nothing about women or it's a hypothetical posed by women that want to ask silly questions about what men want.

Toodygirl5's photo
Mon 02/18/13 03:51 PM


Do men care if a woman only likes you for your looks?
can men tell if she's settling for him and all he's about just because he's hot and great in the sack?


I am sure it depends upon what the man is looking for.

IF its something nice to look at and rub against until he comes,, I guess not.



This is what Many HOT men want. So that is why I said they wouldn't care.

Goofball73's photo
Mon 02/18/13 06:30 PM
Love me for my dorkiness....cause my sex appeal ain't all that. :tongue: laugh

Trulove123's photo
Mon 02/18/13 06:49 PM
True

msharmony's photo
Mon 02/18/13 07:54 PM

I never had this problem, but I have had women only interested in my wallet. It gets old real fast


your wallet?

does it snap or zip or both?
what color is it?

lol

msharmony's photo
Mon 02/18/13 07:56 PM



Do men care if a woman only likes you for your looks?
can men tell if she's settling for him and all he's about just because he's hot and great in the sack?


I am sure it depends upon what the man is looking for.

IF its something nice to look at and rub against until he comes,, I guess not.



This is what Many HOT men want. So that is why I said they wouldn't care.


probably most men arent gonna complain about someone giving it up for the sake of giving it up


until they find someone they want to do more than give it up to,,,

no photo
Tue 02/19/13 04:03 AM
No one can predict men...but few men are exceptional

mountainwatergirl's photo
Tue 02/19/13 02:47 PM

I never had this problem, but I have had women only interested in my wallet. It gets old real fast



Yes...this is big time bs for women to do...they give us all a bad name, and I'm sick of it.....however, I like to see both spending on each other when the time comes.