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Topic: i don't believe in the ONE
Stan4life's photo
Thu 08/15/13 12:14 AM
i'm just saying, so many people believe the ONE is out there and that there is just one special person out there for everyone. But i think there are many ONES out there that can make you happy and vice versa, sometimes we just choose people thats not right for us and we get burned by it. Thats why we should always remain hopeful cos there are people out there that are compatible and not just ONE person for each one. I'm not saying we must have more that one person, i'm just saying we have to be hopeful.

jaded72's photo
Thu 08/15/13 01:56 AM
I think there are many people we can be compatible with. It can be misleading to focus on The One, because you might miss out on someone if they don't meet your idealized criteria. On the other hand, when you just click with someone, it sure is magic!

Stan4life's photo
Thu 08/15/13 02:23 AM
i think you understand exactly what im trying to say...we can't see life through "romantic movie" eyes....but i'm sure it can be better

navygirl's photo
Thu 08/15/13 04:46 PM
I don't believe there is someone for everyone. Some of us weren't meant to be coupled up and its just how life works.

ridewytepony's photo
Thu 08/15/13 05:09 PM

I don't believe there is someone for everyone. Some of us weren't meant to be coupled up and its just how life works.
Debbie Downer:cry: ok ok ..you figured it out..we should quit:laughing: i do see what your saying though....some people it may hold true but there is merit on both sides waving

Goofball73's photo
Thu 08/15/13 06:33 PM
I am sure Keanu would have issues with this non-belief in "The One". noway laugh

teebee79's photo
Fri 08/16/13 01:05 PM

i'm just saying, so many people believe the ONE is out there and that there is just one special person out there for everyone. But i think there are many ONES out there that can make you happy and vice versa, sometimes we just choose people thats not right for us and we get burned by it. Thats why we should always remain hopeful cos there are people out there that are compatible and not just ONE person for each one. I'm not saying we must have more that one person, i'm just saying we have to be hopeful.


I agree! I think " THE ONE" is a myth and harmful to us.
There could be many " someones' who can make you smile, make you happy to be around them, and physically stimulate you.

If you've decided to see one person exclusively and forsake others than THAT makes them the one.
Just not the only possible ONE in the universe!

whattheheywastaken's photo
Fri 08/16/13 01:13 PM
It's simple math. There are over 7 BILLION humans on the planet.
You'd have a better chance playing the lotto.

1Cynderella's photo
Fri 08/16/13 01:37 PM
I think choosing someone to be with is just like anything else in our lives, a choice...a decision. I believe it's one of the biggest we can make, but it's still just a choice.

I have no doubt passed up a couple of offers that would have been very nice fits for me and I would have been satisfied in a forever relationship with them.

But there is something telling me there is more and I don't believe there is just one of those either. flowerforyou

Then again....it could just be gas. slaphead :laughing:

Simonedemidova's photo
Fri 08/16/13 01:39 PM
There are many "ones" out there it's just finding the "right" one!

oldhippie1952's photo
Fri 08/16/13 01:42 PM
I found the "right" one for me. bigsmile

no photo
Fri 08/16/13 01:46 PM
Jet Li believes in The One.

no photo
Fri 08/16/13 01:47 PM
I believe in the "One" your heart desires...

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no photo
Fri 08/16/13 01:52 PM
meh...I dont believe in the One anymore..ohwell

but just in case anybody thinks they are My One...please run at me with a big bell ringing.:heart: laugh and a big assZ sign saying Im the One.:laughing:

Simonedemidova's photo
Fri 08/16/13 01:53 PM

I found the "right" one for me. bigsmile


flowerforyou congrats

Simonedemidova's photo
Fri 08/16/13 01:54 PM

meh...I dont believe in the One anymore..ohwell

but just in case anybody thinks they are My One...please run at me with a big bell ringing.:heart: laugh and a big assZ sign saying Im the One.:laughing:


Right, at what age do games stop and people just say, YOU'RE THE ONE FOR ME!

Goofball73's photo
Fri 08/16/13 02:19 PM

I think choosing someone to be with is just like anything else in our lives, a choice...a decision. I believe it's one of the biggest we can make, but it's still just a choice.

I have no doubt passed up a couple of offers that would have been very nice fits for me and I would have been satisfied in a forever relationship with them.

But there is something telling me there is more and I don't believe there is just one of those either. flowerforyou

Then again....it could just be gas. slaphead :laughing:


Do you need me to burp ya? :tongue: laugh

ridewytepony's photo
Fri 08/16/13 07:32 PM

I think choosing someone to be with is just like anything else in our lives, a choice...a decision. I believe it's one of the biggest we can make, but it's still just a choice.

I have no doubt passed up a couple of offers that would have been very nice fits for me and I would have been satisfied in a forever relationship with them.

But there is something telling me there is more and I don't believe there is just one of those either. flowerforyou

Then again....it could just be gas. slaphead :laughing:
you didn't learn you lesson from the 5 story descend down the outer metal stairway in high heels at the Husband mart that day...come on, these guys "fit" you!:laughing: waving

no photo
Fri 08/16/13 07:34 PM

I am sure Keanu would have issues with this non-belief in "The One". noway laugh


did someone say keanu????drool think :heart: love

1Cynderella's photo
Fri 08/16/13 09:50 PM


I think choosing someone to be with is just like anything else in our lives, a choice...a decision. I believe it's one of the biggest we can make, but it's still just a choice.

I have no doubt passed up a couple of offers that would have been very nice fits for me and I would have been satisfied in a forever relationship with them.

But there is something telling me there is more and I don't believe there is just one of those either. flowerforyou

Then again....it could just be gas. slaphead :laughing:


Do you need me to burp ya? :tongue: laugh


I like this offer best when I take off my glasses after, "Do you need me..." drool smitten tongue2

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