If I was a homosexual my life would be so much better. My sex life would be great. The amount of men I have turned down must be in the hundreds. I have often heard it said that homosexuals have a difficult time coming to terms with their sexuality. Well boo hoo. They don't know what it's like to go without. Women tell lies and enjoy teasing. Whereas men are much more straight forward and honest.

First you post about wishing you were a woman so you could get sex from strangers every night. Now you want to be gay. Dude, I think you have a serious identity crisis going on. I'm guessing you want to be anybody but who you are. Can't say I blame ya there though, as you don't seem very positive about anything. Did ya ever think maybe it's your attitude that's dooming you to a life of sexless solitude and not the fact that you're a man???

Just trying to be straight forward and honest with ya, pal.

If my Auntie....................................

just by the experience I have had around homosexuals, Id say if sex is all that's important , you can find that in any lifestyle

but , from my observation anyhow, the homosexual lifestyle is often pretty empty and shallow,, I wouldn't want it,,,

Morning((Law)) whats up? Happy two-fer Tuesday.

How about being bisexual? Best of both worlds. Comes with risks though, as you could then be turned down by heterosexuals, homosexuals and bisexuals. Thrice the rejection ...

Crystal, If I was a homosexual I could get laid this very night. All I would need to do is go to certain public houses. And as soon as I walk in I would have men buying me drinks and all sorts. That is how easy it would be for me. But it just so happens that I only like women; and what a curse that has been!

how sad... there is more to life than getting laid.

Panda, that's because you probably get it on a regular basis. Go without as long as I have and then you will realize that sex really is the be all and end all.

This right here is the problem......If you hold sex on a 'be all and end all' that view is going to come across to woman, at best they think all you value is sex and they don't mean anything, at worst they think that they can never match up to your expectations in the bed either way you go home alone.

Try not focusing to much on the sex part, and enjoy having fun, trust me if people are having fun around you, there is a higher chance of that fun spilling over into the bedroom

Issac. Good advise. And thankyou very much. I will definitely take on board what you said here today.

Just because I'm gay doesn't mean my morals are lesser than yours. Seriously you are a prime example of why I don't date men any more. I'm posting here, because I have nothing to hide. I stay true to myself, and don't go around compering myself to others. I have a little something called self espect.

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I don't think anyone wants to be gay, they are just born that way. I think if sex is so important to you...go and pay for it. You act like being gay would make your life so much easier, I hate to tell you that you are so wrong. I know a few people that are gay..there lives are not so great. People judge you when you are gay and I can't believe that you think just because you are gay, you get laid all the time. You have to use your head and use safe sex when you are gay!
I think that maybe you do not know what you are, maybe you need to look deep into your soul and figure out who you really are? Good luck with that!!!

Poor soufie

wtf most men i've dated are compulsive liers thats y they are history dude

I suggest buying a blow up doll if ya that desperate atleast then no-onez feelings would get hurt and you can get laid 10 times a day if u want