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Topic: WHY MEN ARE AFRAID OF COMMITMENT(Women,take note)
Candiapples Joined Thu 07/18/13 Posts: 1941	Fri 02/28/14 06:56 PM
Mmmmmmmm, Spot on, we already have one boss, don't need two!!! OK and who's de boss? Sweet u don't know the boss?? enlighten me furball, no I don;t Ur enlightened!!! Go do meditation and dont cheat on that!!!! Be a good devotee!!! When you do that you will see the boss!!! Its Almighty God sweet!!! will he clean my kitchen? He can do anything!! If he wants then you need not move a finger n all is done!!

sweetestgirl11 Joined Fri 09/12/08 Posts: 30087	Fri 02/28/14 06:58 PM
Guys who are afraid of commitment aren't men..... well said

buttons Joined Mon 11/06/06 Posts: 25783	Fri 02/28/14 07:42 PM
im not sure they are afraid I think it takes really a right person and the right timing for them as well. Perhaps along with losing some they never realized they really cared about.

TxsGal3333 Joined Tue 09/05/06 Posts: 76377	Fri 02/28/14 07:42 PM
Guys who are afraid of commitment aren't men..... Men/Women that are afraid of commitment are not ready to move on. Instead they need to learn to live alone and learn to put the past behind them and move on.... If a man is always looking for another more beautiful as in the OP statement he/she is nothing but a player and deserves to be left behind... Either love the one your with or move on....

buttons Joined Mon 11/06/06 Posts: 25783	Fri 02/28/14 07:50 PM
Guys who are afraid of commitment aren't men..... Men/Women that are afraid of commitment are not ready to move on. Instead they need to learn to live alone and learn to put the past behind them and move on.... If a man is always looking for another more beautiful as in the OP statement he/she is nothing but a player and deserves to be left behind... Either love the one your with or move on.... I agree and sometimes they think they really are. i also agree with the second statement!!

Fracus16 Joined Tue 12/31/13 Posts: 104	Fri 02/28/14 08:03 PM
Dang, I'm working here and I miss an excellent thread!!! I didnt finish, too late. Nut from waaaaay earlier, who's the boss? Tony Danza of course!

panchovanilla Joined Tue 01/07/14 Posts: 5396	Fri 02/28/14 08:13 PM Edited by panchovanilla on Fri 02/28/14 08:14 PM
Some people are actually happy being alone or single. This site is called Mingle. Some seem to think it's ' Get Married Now'!!!! Each to their own.

uche9aa Joined Mon 08/15/11 Posts: 1986	Sat 03/01/14 10:09 AM
Those same reasons could also be applied to a woman. Just a few edits here and there. The only problem I see is if someone is hanging onto the past, or the what could be, then they really never started a relationship fresh. Which I think should be a no brainer. You can't hold an entire gender responsible for the actions of one bad apple. The bad apples are many,not one

uche9aa Joined Mon 08/15/11 Posts: 1986	Sat 03/01/14 10:14 AM
This must be for the boys club, Men don't think like this....Hogwash! A man always takes responsibility period A man learns from his past mistakes and tries not to do a repeat and move on The woman I am with becomes the most beautiful to me High rate of divorce is true, maybe don't get married, or not right away? live, learn, and quit bit chin... We need reality,not sounding good

uche9aa Joined Mon 08/15/11 Posts: 1986	Sun 03/02/14 12:17 AM
this is news? A lot of women are afraid of commitment - I think usually because of past hurts, or being taken advantage of in the past. In fact men remarry at a much higher rate than women do. you guys'll have to clean your own kitchens...lol there is very little in the OP that I agree with outright At least you agreed

uche9aa Joined Mon 08/15/11 Posts: 1986	Sun 03/02/14 12:20 AM
Mmmmmmmm, Spot on, we already have one boss, don't need two!!! God of Abraham,Issac and Jacob is the boss

uche9aa Joined Mon 08/15/11 Posts: 1986	Sun 03/02/14 12:22 AM
I agree with 3 Especially if they are online dating sites Delusional And its not just men Thanks for agreeing with the truth

uche9aa Joined Mon 08/15/11 Posts: 1986	Sun 03/02/14 12:23 AM
Guys who are afraid of commitment aren't men..... They are girls?

indignus Joined Sat 07/14/12 Posts: 327	Sun 03/02/14 12:31 AM
Single ladies,here are the reasons why some men aint ready to commit.(1)FEAR OF TAKING RESPONSIBILITY:Men know that when they commit,they must be ready to take on responsibility such as bringing money home to take care of the family's needs,maintaining & protecting the family.It will interest you to know that some men just dont like to think about the kinds of responsibility that come with getting married to a woman and having children.(2)PAST HURTFUL EXPERIENCES:Some men will like to commit to women,but they find it difficult because they have either been dumped or cheated on by someone they really loved.(3)FEAR OF MISSING OUT ON THE MOST BEAUTIFUL WOMEN:Somen men will not commit because they dont want to miss out on the most beautiful woman that is yet to show up.You may be a nice person & beautiful in your own way,but something still tells him that there is someone out there who is more beautiful,nicer & sexier than you.(4)HIGH RATE OF DIVORCE:You all know how women like single motherhood these days. Seems to me that women avoid commitment for the same reasons, that or he doesn't make enough to provide the lifestyle she wants...

sweetestgirl11 Joined Fri 09/12/08 Posts: 30087	Sun 03/02/14 06:54 AM Edited by sweetestgirl11 on Sun 03/02/14 06:55 AM
Dang, I'm working here and I miss an excellent thread!!! I didnt finish, too late. Nut from waaaaay earlier, who's the boss? Tony Danza of course! TA DAAAAA (drum roll) I am assuming I am the correct nut. Coincidentally comments like that prevent many women from entering a relationship

aquohxiiMhai Joined Sat 03/01/14 Posts: 92	Sun 03/02/14 06:56 AM
ugh.. i hate men like that.

Fracus16 Joined Tue 12/31/13 Posts: 104	Sun 03/02/14 07:02 AM
Yes sweetest, you are the correct nut. LOL I like you already. I'm ready to commit. Want to meet in Vegas next weekend?

Zero_Effected Joined Sat 12/02/06 Posts: 18395	Sun 03/02/14 07:03 AM
This must be for the boys club, Men don't think like this....Hogwash! A man always takes responsibility period A man learns from his past mistakes and tries not to do a repeat and move on The woman I am with becomes the most beautiful to me High rate of divorce is true, maybe don't get married, or not right away? live, learn, and quit bit chin... not ALL men.. only GOOD one's happy belated b-day by the way

Zero_Effected Joined Sat 12/02/06 Posts: 18395	Sun 03/02/14 07:05 AM
Guys who are afraid of commitment aren't men..... Men/Women that are afraid of commitment are not ready to move on. Instead they need to learn to live alone and learn to put the past behind them and move on.... If a man is always looking for another more beautiful as in the OP statement he/she is nothing but a player and deserves to be left behind... Either love the one your with or move on.... per usual.. words of wisdom my dear.. so VERY true!!

sweetestgirl11 Joined Fri 09/12/08 Posts: 30087	Sun 03/02/14 07:09 AM Edited by sweetestgirl11 on Sun 03/02/14 08:03 AM
Yes sweetest, you are the correct nut. LOL I like you already. I'm ready to commit. Want to meet in Vegas next weekend? no I would not date a man who called me a nut, particularly on a public forum, not now not ever. don;t ask again, please (almost forgot my manners)