A good friend stated, "Don't say you miss someone, when you're the reason their gone in the first place. "

Lately, I'm beginning to see old flames attempting to seek a second chance with me. Do you feel everyone deserves a second chance?

Lady, I just wish that I could have a first chance with you.

Is that so dodo_david?

Wouldn't any straight male want a chance with a hot-looking woman?

I would think so.

That is why your old flames want a second chance with you.

I feel that they thought the grass was greener on the other. Once they ventured out and realized it wasnt as cracked up as they thought it would be...they want to come crying back to me...

They thought that the grass was greener in comparison to you?

If I were you..before I took back anyone - I would really take a look out why the break up happened in the first place. Were they what you really wanted? Usually, you are better off leaving the past in the past. There are a lot of great guys waiting for an awesome girl like you!

People can change. All that I would say is that if you don't resolve whatever issues that you had with someone, it will just be the same all over again.

You're getting the flattery here about being a hot looking woman but that's superficial and I suspect that if these guys did think that they could find "greener grass", they weren't just looking for somebody better looking. They would have been looking for someone that they would get on better with. Been there myself and yeah, I haven't met a girlfriend that was easier to get on with since I finished with my ex and I did miss her.

.. I don't believe in that old adage.. leopards don't change their spots... everyone deserves a second chance.. just remember they still have sharp claws.

I like your first paragraph Destiny.
I will go to the ends of the earth to make something work, if I see some hope, but when it's over..it's over.

Here is the deal: one person in particular did not have what is have. Meaning both parents, STILL married. A chance to see how real families functions. This person never wants to put in any hard work to be successful, hence looking for the easy road. SHE never had anyone be genuinely supportive without a motive. So the gentleman who made the comment about the pretty face and attractive ness, yes I am that. However, I am a lady with class that holds three degrees. I don't need her for anything. I can bring something to the table. Have you ever dated someone that envies you? Wish they had your happiness? Some ppl enjoy whipping the smiles of the faces of others...

old flames are just that - "old flames"
a rekindled fire never burns as fierce as a rekindled one.
Besides, who wants to go through the same drama as before which caused you to call it quits in the 1st. place?
Let bygone's be bygone's and look forward to possibly the right partnership for you.

Amen, Oral

Onwards and upwards as they say ;)

no, not everyone does. history is filled with examples of people that couldn't handle even a first chance.

You are so write. I can't seem to get rid of this person. Smh.

I'm with the belief, there's a reason why their an ex.

I agree scoober!