Topic: Can you really meet your soul mate on line and over 50?
Katlin256's photo
Thu 06/19/14 11:30 AM
Hmmmm I don't know.I have had some strange expierences,i think for sure you have to meet up with each other me I just want a friend for the time being and for a man it seems almost impossible.I think woman to woman we get that better what a friendship means if people try to rush into something online and say they are looking for their true love and then you try to fit into that picture sometimes its a big disappointment.You are really beautifull so I hope u find the one just be carefull sweetie.Blessings

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Wed 06/25/14 02:44 AM

I would like to think so, I like the the idea of not being able to meet in person straight up. Most times we meet someone it is out drinking or something like that and before you know it your sleeping together, then one day you wake up and bang its like, who are you? I thought I knew you and now maybe I don't, and your on the way to splitsville.

But meeting online especially if your in another country you have know choice but to really, get to know each other and then months later if you meet up, well by then you should know each other very well without the complications of early sex to cloud your judgement.


absolutely right.......search with an open mind n without any conditions.

bcvegas4u's photo
Fri 06/27/14 05:54 PM
Of course, you can. Are you likely to? Probably not but it's always about being at the right place at the right time. I do not believe in coincidence. Everything happens in its own time and place. If you are going to meet someone, you will meet them. After that, the choice of where you go from there is up to you, whether you understand it at the time or not.

ALBYAK's photo
Sat 06/28/14 07:44 AM
Yes, the second I met online was perfect, took her to Alaska for the summer and it was the best love of my life. Only problem was money OOPS yes when she was told she needed to get at least a part time job to help like she had originally offered before I lent-gave her more, she bolted.

navygirl's photo
Tue 07/01/14 09:13 PM
I have a better chance of winning the lottery than I do of meeting a soul mate. laugh

ALBYAK's photo
Wed 07/02/14 10:39 AM

I have a better chance of winning the lottery than I do of meeting a soul mate. laugh

Maybe you are just on the wrong site, you have a nice profile and interests. DHU has a much better group and larger on the forums. As many posts as you have here this probably will not appeal to you, but you really should try something new. I have posted here a few times but find it an unfriendly place for the most part. Good Luck in your search! Alby

saltysailor1's photo
Thu 07/03/14 01:58 PM
I can relate to the boot or belt on the back side I was raised in the Adolph Hitler school of brotherly lovelaugh laugh I turned out Ok kids today could use some tough love

navygirl's photo
Thu 07/03/14 09:40 PM


I have a better chance of winning the lottery than I do of meeting a soul mate. laugh

Maybe you are just on the wrong site, you have a nice profile and interests. DHU has a much better group and larger on the forums. As many posts as you have here this probably will not appeal to you, but you really should try something new. I have posted here a few times but find it an unfriendly place for the most part. Good Luck in your search! Alby


The people on here are friendly enough so its not the site. It is me that is the problem and I freely admit. Its all good though and I am enjoying my life.

oldsage's photo
Fri 07/04/14 09:06 AM



I have a better chance of winning the lottery than I do of meeting a soul mate. laugh

Maybe you are just on the wrong site, you have a nice profile and interests. DHU has a much better group and larger on the forums. As many posts as you have here this probably will not appeal to you, but you really should try something new. I have posted here a few times but find it an unfriendly place for the most part. Good Luck in your search! Alby


The people on here are friendly enough so its not the site. It is me that is the problem and I freely admit. Its all good though and I am enjoying my life.


Navy, there is no problem with you. You are simply a strong willed person, know what you want/expect/demand. Some men may feel uncomfortable dealing with you because of that. I ADMIRE it. NEVER CHANGE. :wink: :thumbsup: waving

navygirl's photo
Sat 07/05/14 12:29 PM




I have a better chance of winning the lottery than I do of meeting a soul mate. laugh

Maybe you are just on the wrong site, you have a nice profile and interests. DHU has a much better group and larger on the forums. As many posts as you have here this probably will not appeal to you, but you really should try something new. I have posted here a few times but find it an unfriendly place for the most part. Good Luck in your search! Alby


The people on here are friendly enough so its not the site. It is me that is the problem and I freely admit. Its all good though and I am enjoying my life.


Navy, there is no problem with you. You are simply a strong willed person, know what you want/expect/demand. Some men may feel uncomfortable dealing with you because of that. I ADMIRE it. NEVER CHANGE. :wink: :thumbsup: waving


Thanks Oldsage. You always make my day. flowerforyou

graywolf55's photo
Mon 07/07/14 04:53 AM




I have a better chance of winning the lottery than I do of meeting a soul mate. laugh

Maybe you are just on the wrong site, you have a nice profile and interests. DHU has a much better group and larger on the forums. As many posts as you have here this probably will not appeal to you, but you really should try something new. I have posted here a few times but find it an unfriendly place for the most part. Good Luck in your search! Alby


The people on here are friendly enough so its not the site. It is me that is the problem and I freely admit. Its all good though and I am enjoying my life.


Navy, there is no problem with you. You are simply a strong willed person, know what you want/expect/demand. Some men may feel uncomfortable dealing with you because of that. I ADMIRE it. NEVER CHANGE. :wink: :thumbsup: waving
flowerforyou Same here, good to see you're as beautiful as ever. Don't change or try to change the other person (that's a losing combination for both)!!brokenheart I won't loose myself anymore devil Too hard to find my way back again!!tongue2

navygirl's photo
Wed 07/09/14 08:33 PM





I have a better chance of winning the lottery than I do of meeting a soul mate. laugh

Maybe you are just on the wrong site, you have a nice profile and interests. DHU has a much better group and larger on the forums. As many posts as you have here this probably will not appeal to you, but you really should try something new. I have posted here a few times but find it an unfriendly place for the most part. Good Luck in your search! Alby


The people on here are friendly enough so its not the site. It is me that is the problem and I freely admit. Its all good though and I am enjoying my life.


Navy, there is no problem with you. You are simply a strong willed person, know what you want/expect/demand. Some men may feel uncomfortable dealing with you because of that. I ADMIRE it. NEVER CHANGE. :wink: :thumbsup: waving
flowerforyou Same here, good to see you're as beautiful as ever. Don't change or try to change the other person (that's a losing combination for both)!!brokenheart I won't loose myself anymore devil Too hard to find my way back again!!tongue2


Thanks and I agree; I have no reason to change who I am as I am happy with myself.

noeleena's photo
Thu 08/21/14 06:02 AM
Hi,

For my self to find someone i have doubts that will happen , if your normal then for many its not an issue , i did not come on the dating forums with the view that i would find some one ,

so im not going to be disapointed , having friends would be nice and to go out in groups would as well though that wont happen because of distance to meet other,s any way ...

...noeleena...

metalwing's photo
Thu 08/21/14 08:08 AM






I have a better chance of winning the lottery than I do of meeting a soul mate. laugh

Maybe you are just on the wrong site, you have a nice profile and interests. DHU has a much better group and larger on the forums. As many posts as you have here this probably will not appeal to you, but you really should try something new. I have posted here a few times but find it an unfriendly place for the most part. Good Luck in your search! Alby


The people on here are friendly enough so its not the site. It is me that is the problem and I freely admit. Its all good though and I am enjoying my life.


Navy, there is no problem with you. You are simply a strong willed person, know what you want/expect/demand. Some men may feel uncomfortable dealing with you because of that. I ADMIRE it. NEVER CHANGE. :wink: :thumbsup: waving
flowerforyou Same here, good to see you're as beautiful as ever. Don't change or try to change the other person (that's a losing combination for both)!!brokenheart I won't loose myself anymore devil Too hard to find my way back again!!tongue2


Thanks and I agree; I have no reason to change who I am as I am happy with myself.


The answer to the OP is "Yes, you can meet your perfect match here!" Navygirl is a perfect example of an attractive, smart woman who needs a certain type of man to be the right match. The problem with Navygirl is that only so many possible men at any given website are within datable distance and work out logistically.

It's a numbers game. History has shown that marriage has happened to mingle members who have met here, but not in very large numbers (that we know of anyway!). The Forums are by far the best way to meet on Mingle because you get to see others interact in multiple ways. You also get to interact one on one in a public forum that leads to private emails at some point if you wish. It is a good way to meet. I have many friends here.

Some who have met here and actually lived far from each other are now together.

Rubicat's photo
Thu 08/21/14 10:43 AM
I agree with this would like to get to know the person before we meet.I want to feel like I am meeting a friend.

mrheartfelt's photo
Thu 08/21/14 04:41 PM
Meeting someone is an open book. You just have to find the page that will make you put the book down. It is tough to meet someone nowadays because life is in motion so fast.

Slowing down does not seem to be an option. But, it has to be done to see the possibilities as will as having an open mind.

It is possible to meet someone, but the conditions have to be right and the person has to be right also.

spookyshoes's photo
Thu 08/21/14 07:04 PM
Mingle 2 is not so bad.take it slow and everything will be ok. As for craigslist,wow, too demanding. many strange requests from woman.

georgemontour's photo
Fri 08/22/14 05:50 AM
hello nice meeting you ,I'm a caring and understanding person. i am glad to have you as my friend here,
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I can see you are of that type because you stated it in your advert the type of person of you want. I really know what love is and also the type who give his whole heart in a relationship. Relationships are built one day at a time; they take time, patience, honesty,I'm a caring and understanding person. I have a lot of love to share, I hope that someone comes along soon to share it with.God bless you.Montour

Bentkat51's photo
Fri 08/22/14 06:23 AM


I have a better chance of winning the lottery than I do of meeting a soul mate. laugh

Maybe you are just on the wrong site, you have a nice profile and interests. DHU has a much better group and larger on the forums. As many posts as you have here this probably will not appeal to you, but you really should try something new. I have posted here a few times but find it an unfriendly place for the most part. Good Luck in your search! Alby


Sorry you havent had a positive time here....i for one have met some amazing compassionate people....in the forums. As a dating site? Meh...but do stick around and chat...maybe you will change your mind.flowerforyou

wallis2404's photo
Sat 08/23/14 12:53 AM
I have joined many sites some just take you money and you hear no more, some are just full of fake profiles, some are full of scammers in general you wont meet anyone better off looking in the supermarket