When dating someone, I use to give it a 3 month chance... Lately, I've been struggling to give it 3 weeks.

When do YOU call it quits?

((((((Johnn)))))


When they don't want me anymore.

Or if they find happiness elsewhere


No real time limit...


I think we know sometimes, we just keep trying

After the test drive if it doesn't drive good...

At least you have a date.

insane, you are planning to give-up on love, when it even did not start

relax, it all depends on your connection to the girl and vice-versa

it depends what you are looking for, only sex or a top girl you want to care about deeply

it's pretty obvious to me when women just want sex. then you go for drinks (no dinner, maybe some nachos/fries to share) then take her hand and see if she plays with yours...then you know it's game, kiss in the car and escalate as much as your LOGISTICS allow it

kids, it can't be simpler than that!!!! imagine if you were a woman....

MEN UP

When I receive the restraining order

Yep, you fit in here with the rest of us.

One date usually tells me all I have to know.
Nice to see you Pucker :-)

When the interest, conversation and chemistry is basically dead.

No set time I just usually know.

As soon as I know without any doubt that it wouldn't work no matter how hard we try/tried.

Every relationship has to have something productive happening to keep it moving in the right direction, and if the negatives overshadow the positives so that we're just spinning our wheels its a waste of time and energy.

I'm a gentleman, so what I do is to let them know how I'm feeling about how it's going and they will either take my feelings into consideration and we try to resolve the issue or they will think that I'm a control freak and dump me. Is this control freakery? I don't really think so because that, in my opinion, is making unreasonable demands and I don't do that but just expect them to be reasonable and we either resolve the situation and work the problem out in such a way that we will both be happy or we don't.

Hypothetical example: She wants to also date other people and I'm not happy with that. I saw this on a TV show about dating the other night. The guy that was presenting the show was seeing a girl that he really liked but wouldn't commit to and he wanted to date other women as well. Selfish. There was also a couple that weren't really on the same page and the bicurious girlfriend was saying, "Girls don't count". The guy said that he wanted her to be happy but if she was going to do that, he needed to get something out of it as well, like a threesome, or also being able to see other women. They both went out and while she was at some party for bicurious females, he kissed another woman in a bar. Then they talked about it and she was upset. I thought that it was a bit childish but it was the guy's way of letting her see how he felt because he really didn't agree that females don't count.

I'm with Athena on this

Deep down, we do know... but we/I stick around to make sure... days turn into weeks and months making sure...

When he starts asking me to go naked on webcam.

LOL I've driven Pintos and Ferraris, I stopped counting at 50 when I was 20yrs old... Now At 46, this is not longer a deciding factor for me some roll faster and need way more maintenance... get my drift?

Merci Blondey


I've done the 10 yr relationship... Was Horrible to end, I hear you loud & clear.

Dodo... Change your nicname, It may be wearing you down man

You're lucky or smart or both Soufie...Sometimes it's one date, sometimes it's more...I've heard if you have too many "it's more" it will cause liver damage....

Soufie

My puckin picker is broken, I'm sure about this lol