Topic: is it safe to chat outside of mingle
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Thu 07/24/14 05:28 PM
im getting asked to go to gmail and other places to chat is this a safe thing to do

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Thu 07/24/14 05:30 PM
not really...most of the people that ask you to chat on email instaed of Skype, text and/or call is considered a SCAM!!!!! Be careful with them scammers

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Thu 07/24/14 05:34 PM
thank you for your feed back much appeciated

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Thu 07/24/14 05:40 PM
There are controls in place if you stay and chat on M2.
If you do not, it is out of the site's hands.

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Thu 07/24/14 05:45 PM
Noooooo!!!!noway scared

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Thu 07/24/14 05:51 PM
if someone has a genuine interest in getting to know you, they will stay and talk to you here on Mingle. when people say they are not here often enough, I just say sorry to hear that, and wish them the best.

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Thu 07/24/14 05:59 PM
thank you all i have joined this about 2 yrs ago and had trouble then i have recently dicided ti try it again and seem to get the same results its hard for genuine people to meet here i guess but thanks for all your advice

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Thu 07/24/14 06:06 PM
Edited by willing2 on Thu 07/24/14 06:05 PM
I call and talk to three women here.

It can be safely done. Just takes time getting to know them.

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Thu 07/24/14 06:08 PM
anytime my friend

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Thu 07/24/14 06:32 PM

im getting asked to go to gmail and other places to chat is this a safe thing to do


You don't need to go to gmail or other places for written communication unless either you or another person plans on leaving Mingle2.

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Thu 07/24/14 07:37 PM
Edited by sweetestgirl11 on Thu 07/24/14 07:39 PM

im getting asked to go to gmail and other places to chat is this a safe thing to do


not on here with someone you don;t know well because there is no reason you can't chat on here on this site. They are spammers, possibly scammers .... block & delete

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Thu 07/24/14 07:40 PM
it's ok to chat outside mingle if you want to chat with videocall on skype or yahoo messenger, if the person you want to chat with will also let you view his cam. If she/he will do then he/she is real.

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Thu 07/24/14 07:43 PM

it's ok to chat outside mingle if you want to chat with videocall on skype or yahoo messenger, if the person you want to chat with will also let you view his cam. If she/he will do then he/she is real.


I have some beach front property in Tibet for sale....cheap not many dollah


lol

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Thu 07/24/14 07:47 PM
only if you have a "chaperone "laugh

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Thu 07/24/14 07:50 PM
Edited by mikey5360 on Thu 07/24/14 07:52 PM
Dont go the gmail route, this site is perfectly alright for what you want.
Maybe a cam, I don't even have a cam.

Too make your experience better I think you need to add a bunch of pics...candid, formal, silly....shirt on bro, and just add more info in your profile.
I think the scammers that target men right now, are targeting heavily the profiles that have little or no info in them.

Join in the forums you will meet heaps of real, fun, interesting people. Have a say on what interests you and before you know it girls that like what you have to say will contact you. Even if they don't post, there is a huge amount of people that just read and observe.

Good on you for popping up, at least this place gives you a public viewing.

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Thu 07/24/14 08:04 PM
hi once again you people have been fantastic thank you so much for your input ill listen and watch these forums they are great thanks

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Fri 07/25/14 03:23 AM
Kind of. I don't trust easily. I'm very careful about who to let into my life. One day, some want to talk, the next, they're gone. Those kinds are just here to mess people around. Hard to tell if they're being genuine. Making friends in the forums is a good way to get to know people. Some just want instant gratification I'm afraid. Try keeping conversations flowing, to keep their interest.

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Fri 07/25/14 09:18 AM

if someone has a genuine interest in getting to know you, they will stay and talk to you here on Mingle. when people say they are not here often enough, I just say sorry to hear that, and wish them the best.


Totally agree and what I have resolved on the best method of actually meeting and talking to people!

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Fri 07/25/14 09:37 AM
It's up to you. If you have chatted and emailed for several months it maybe worth to not have to type and use video chat. Just be sure they are not scammers...