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Topic: Ooooooooooo jealousy...
tanyaann Joined Mon 12/03/07 Posts: 32220	Sat 01/17/15 06:04 PM
Is jealousy a normal part of a relationship? What does it look like?

mightymoe Joined Sun 11/19/06 Posts: 37362	Sat 01/17/15 06:06 PM
Is jealousy a normal part of a relationship? What does it look like? i guess it depends on "normal"... i would say no, but some seem to thrive on it...

Goofball73 Joined Mon 11/05/07 Posts: 33913	Sat 01/17/15 06:18 PM
Is jealousy a normal part of a relationship? What does it look like? Look at me. LOOK AT ME!!!

dreamerana Joined Sat 09/21/13 Posts: 21544	Sat 01/17/15 06:21 PM
Is jealousy a normal part of a relationship? What does it look like? it's not normal in a healthy relationship. if there are doubts, however unfounded it shows instability and lack of trust

avamari2 Joined Sat 01/17/15 Posts: 86	Sat 01/17/15 06:22 PM
To a degree, I think it is. But if you can't control it and start acting crazy, it becomes a problem. I've been in serious relationships where i felt a little twinge of jealousy when i see him with another girl, but ultimately, i trusted him, so i brushed it off and let it go.

tanyaann Joined Mon 12/03/07 Posts: 32220	Sat 01/17/15 06:25 PM
Is jealousy a normal part of a relationship? What does it look like? i guess it depends on "normal"... i would say no, but some seem to thrive on it...

tanyaann Joined Mon 12/03/07 Posts: 32220	Sat 01/17/15 06:26 PM
Is jealousy a normal part of a relationship? What does it look like? Look at me. LOOK AT ME!!! Need a emoticon pole dancer!

tanyaann Joined Mon 12/03/07 Posts: 32220	Sat 01/17/15 06:27 PM
Like a gals said jealousy is an emotion but it's how you act on it!

Maxisu Joined Wed 07/16/14 Posts: 1212	Sat 01/17/15 06:29 PM
Is jealousy a normal part of a relationship? What does it look like? Look at me. LOOK AT ME!!! Need a emoticon pole dancer! Yesss...!!!

tanyaann Joined Mon 12/03/07 Posts: 32220	Sat 01/17/15 06:30 PM


kc0003 Joined Fri 05/11/07 Posts: 26382	Sat 01/17/15 11:12 PM
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kc0003 Joined Fri 05/11/07 Posts: 26382	Sat 01/17/15 11:13 PM
you're welcome!

jacktrades Joined Tue 09/11/12 Posts: 4395	Sat 01/17/15 11:17 PM
I think to a certain extent everyone gets a little jealous but if it consumes the relationship its a major problem.

girlie_tazmania Joined Fri 11/09/12 Posts: 258	Sun 01/18/15 12:31 AM
It's quite normal, as long as not too over reacting, at least in my opinion. :D

Pansytilly Joined Mon 06/09/14 Posts: 11310	Sun 01/18/15 12:57 AM
Can't control the feeling of jealousy, but you can hold back what you may say or do because of it...

Duttoneer Joined Sun 07/01/12 Posts: 4665	Sun 01/18/15 01:02 AM
Is jealousy a normal part of a relationship? What does it look like? it's not normal in a healthy relationship. if there are doubts, however unfounded it shows instability and lack of trust I agree with this entirely, and would like to add that I think it shows possessiveness of your partner/spouse, it cannot be a good thing in a relationship in my opinion.

messi_is_a_tim_1888 Joined Fri 11/28/14 Posts: 3309	Sun 01/18/15 01:42 AM
Is jealousy a normal part of a relationship? What does it look like? Why would you want jealousy, as a normal part of your relationship? It's jealousy and paranoia that break a lot of couples up. Not for me thank you!

avamari2 Joined Sat 01/17/15 Posts: 86	Sun 01/18/15 02:15 AM
I don't think it does much good to villainize (sp?) a trait that is largely instinctual. We are, as humans, animals. In our history, women tended the children, men hunted. Without men, we sacrificed shelter/protection, food, etc. Without women, men couldn't procreate. So a twinge of 'possessiveness,' while not likely to conjure up pleasant perspectives in current times, is understandable. Thankfully, we've evolved intellectually enough to be able to recognize it as irrational and not act on those feelings.

rubymoonheart Joined Fri 09/13/13 Posts: 36	Sun 01/18/15 02:17 AM
Jealousy,possessiveness and clinginess are bad traits to have in a relationship.In a way a form of control not healthy at all.A bit of jealousy is normal all depends on the context and how far they take it.You should be able to live your life as you like the right person would appreciate this and you must be able to do the same for them .As long as trust ,loyalty and faithfulness are there then shouldn't be a problem

tanyaann Joined Mon 12/03/07 Posts: 32220	Sun 01/18/15 02:27 AM
you're welcome! But I wanted it to be a smiley in a thong!