Topic: does sex makes relationship stronger?
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Sun 03/01/15 08:26 AM

does love exist without sex ?? most definitely to
many times we put more emphases on sex then the
exploration of the true value of a person , their heart
mind and soul which tome is a priceless treasure to
explore and discover for life . when you see a older
couple on a park bench holding hands and kissing is
it about sex ??? no !! but there journey in life
together , through all the diversity and trials of life
together . when we look out of selfish narcissistic
eyes view a woman or a man for more then a
sexual encounter you truly discover the person you
wish to fall in love with . many people are afraid to
make love because it demands involvement of the
heart and soul and a commitment of an unselfish
connection sex is all about release , making love is
about a joining of two souls discovering exploring
the inner most intimate parts of your passion and
libido few yet need to discover (erotic ) where the
satisfaction of each person is a true commitment
not just one. you wish to be disconnected , shallow
empty , and selfish ?? this is sex !! you wish for a
more full filling experience where it touch every
avenues of your heart and soul exploring not the
just the body but one's heart and soul , then make
love . "like tricks are for kids " so is sex !! when we
were teenagers exploring for our first time , when
you become a man and a woman its about its a
more rare and pleasurable experience taking one's
time with foreplay exploring the body all of it looking
into their eyes , a kiss that makes you explode from
within , a touch with fingers that drives your passion
out of control , one lips and tongue exploring your
endless libido !!! making love leaves a lasting
connection for weeks even months ,even years ,
sex is a heat of a moment !!then disappears !!! why
are we afraid of making love ??? it requires
exposure, being vulnerable , emptying of one's self ,
not a power thing or control , but a freedom without
limits or time your lost within that person why time
seems to stop when your truly making love to a
partner , and an endless lesson taught very time
you make love is a different
experience !! ...................


That's hot! Remember that you are preaching to a group of people here who have been raised with Western values. They don't appreciate your words and might even mock you. I am originally from Europe and in the country where I was born, virginity is valued. I lived between 2 worlds so I understand both sides.

sparkyae5's photo
Sun 03/01/15 08:27 AM

No..

People can fall deeply in love without it..if necessary


friendship without passion...........?smile2 :heart:

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Sun 03/01/15 08:30 AM
Edited by 2KidsMom on Sun 03/01/15 08:31 AM


No..

People can fall deeply in love without it..if necessary


friendship without passion...........?smile2 :heart:


An exclusive passionate friendship? :wink: happy without sex

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Sun 03/01/15 09:06 AM



No..

People can fall deeply in love without it..if necessary


friendship without passion...........?smile2 :heart:


An exclusive passionate friendship? :wink: happy without sex



its like having coffee with no sugar

SparklingCrystal 💖💎's photo
Sun 03/01/15 09:59 AM

Wow.. someone habla English real fast...

:laughing: :laughing: :laughing:
It was quite shocking to see that, wasn't it?!
I'm gonna do one a day... --> 1 sentence that is..

And run to the kitchen to add sugar to my coffee... Romeo, oh Romeo said that enhances your sex-life! Or was it sex-drive?
Oh who cares, sugar it is!!

no1phD's photo
Sun 03/01/15 10:27 AM
oh just running this up the flagpole..
. my college friend is coming to visit he's from.... West Africa.... super nice guy.... he stands about 6 1.. 210 /205 pounds... great sense of humor....
.. better looking than me if possible..lol..... but I was thinking. maybe the three of us could go out for dinner... some nice food couple bottles of wine.... and then later back to your place.... let the two of you get to know each other better..... and then every now and then I can join in on the very stimulating conversation... you two would be having.... you know just insert my point of view here and there..... and then once the creative conversation juices... start flowing... all three of us can have a nice... roundabout conversation.... anywho just... just thought I'd run it up the flagpole so to speak....... speaking of dinner I should go make a sandwich..... perhaps a double stuffed cookie for dessert........ I hope I'm still on topic somehow...:wink: :angel: ..

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Sun 03/01/15 11:00 AM

oh just running this up the flagpole..
. my college friend is coming to visit he's from.... West Africa.... super nice guy.... he stands about 6 1.. 210 /205 pounds... great sense of humor....
.. better looking than me if possible..lol..... but I was thinking. maybe the three of us could go out for dinner... some nice food couple bottles of wine.... and then later back to your place.... let the two of you get to know each other better..... and then every now and then I can join in on the very stimulating conversation... you two would be having.... you know just insert my point of view here and there..... and then once the creative conversation juices... start flowing... all three of us can have a nice... roundabout conversation.... anywho just... just thought I'd run it up the flagpole so to speak....... speaking of dinner I should go make a sandwich..... perhaps a double stuffed cookie for dessert........ I hope I'm still on topic somehow...:wink: :angel: ..


Ummm, any takers?

panchovanilla's photo
Sun 03/01/15 11:03 AM

oh just running this up the flagpole..
. my college friend is coming to visit he's from.... West Africa.... super nice guy.... he stands about 6 1.. 210 /205 pounds... great sense of humor....
.. better looking than me if possible..lol..... but I was thinking. maybe the three of us could go out for dinner... some nice food couple bottles of wine.... and then later back to your place.... let the two of you get to know each other better..... and then every now and then I can join in on the very stimulating conversation... you two would be having.... you know just insert my point of view here and there..... and then once the creative conversation juices... start flowing... all three of us can have a nice... roundabout conversation.... anywho just... just thought I'd run it up the flagpole so to speak....... speaking of dinner I should go make a sandwich..... perhaps a double stuffed cookie for dessert........ I hope I'm still on topic somehow...:wink: :angel: ..

Now I am officially concerned about you.surprised

no1phD's photo
Sun 03/01/15 11:06 AM
well I figured if sex with one person makes a relationship stronger.. then having sex with multiple people at a time.. would make the relationship superglue strong..lol..laugh

panchovanilla's photo
Sun 03/01/15 11:06 AM
Edited by panchovanilla on Sun 03/01/15 11:15 AM
Not having sex, can make a relationship weaker..eventually.
Like a year and a half later.
One of the many, many, mannnny reasons
my ex is my EX.

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Sun 03/01/15 11:11 AM
Edited by tealbreeze on Sun 03/01/15 11:12 AM

well I figured if sex with one person makes a relationship stronger.. then having sex with multiple people at a time.. would make the relationship superglue strong..lol..laugh


*hands no1 a bottle of superglue*

No, that is not astroglide. laugh

no1phD's photo
Sun 03/01/15 11:16 AM
Ohhh.nooooo.. now you tell me..lol

panchovanilla's photo
Sun 03/01/15 11:22 AM


well I figured if sex with one person makes a relationship stronger.. then having sex with multiple people at a time.. would make the relationship superglue strong..lol..laugh


*hands no1 a bottle of superglue*

No, that is not astroglide. laugh

That's even a better trick
Than preparation H...in the toothpaste.:laughing:

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Sun 03/01/15 11:29 AM



well I figured if sex with one person makes a relationship stronger.. then having sex with multiple people at a time.. would make the relationship superglue strong..lol..laugh


*hands no1 a bottle of superglue*

No, that is not astroglide. laugh

That's even a better trick
Than preparation H...in the toothpaste.:laughing:


laugh :wink:

I wouldn't do that to you though. blushing

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Sun 03/01/15 12:57 PM
slaphead

msharmony's photo
Sun 03/01/15 01:03 PM


does sex makes relationship stronger?


not if you are not connected to each other emotionaly in ways that

are meaningful to both...to get what you need you have to give your

other what they need, sex alone will not work.......men are raised


to handle there emotions differantly then women,, thats where the

focus needs to be for stronger relatioships.......good luck ....

most of the time the focus is on surface noise not the real issue,

it is in most cases beliefs about ourselves and others....



PERFECT ANSWER:banana:

HoneyFly's photo
Sun 03/01/15 01:21 PM
Its an added +

DadCat's photo
Mon 03/02/15 07:54 AM
I am fascinated by the responses here which appear to make a presumption about the question asked.

I reveals our individuality about our concept of the word 'relationship'. I have a broader definitions of the word to include any person with whom I share a connection with by any means of communication. That would include the people here in the forums.


Yes, like any type of intimacy, sexual intimacy makes a relationship stronger...


For this inquiry, I will presume we are talking about a relationship between two adults seeking to become partners. I would agree with Leigh's response as it resonated with me.

Love your response Leigh.

bye now...


Goofball73's photo
Mon 03/02/15 08:15 AM

does sex makes relationship stronger?


If you can't bust a nut then you'll hate her. Dude...blue balls ain't no joke. :tongue: laugh

Jackmackie10's photo
Mon 03/02/15 08:41 AM
Oops!! Love is not all about sex...