Topic: Playing hard to get
Dodo_David's photo
Thu 03/05/15 06:25 PM

why is it called 'playing hard to get' when people have to put in an effort and are unsuccessful?

doesn't seem like 'playing' should be included in that phrase,,,


msharmony, perhaps we can discuss that during our first date ... unless you are going to keep playing hard to get. :tongue:

msharmony's photo
Thu 03/05/15 06:31 PM
laugh laugh


that was clever,,,kudosdrinker

no photo
Thu 03/05/15 09:09 PM
The person who is playing hard to get is enjoying the chase, hence they are playing.

Dodo_David's photo
Thu 03/05/15 09:19 PM

The person who is playing hard to get is enjoying the chase, hence they are playing.


Oh, so that is msharmony's M.O. slaphead

MariahsFantasy's photo
Thu 03/05/15 09:53 PM
Women play hard to get? Sexually attractive? You? I'm shocked you get anyone that can stand to be around you longer than 5 minutes.

ridewytepony's photo
Thu 03/05/15 09:57 PM


It's frustrating because I know women find me sexually attractive but because they're so stubborn on the connection thing I keep being denied access. One thing I've learned during my time on dating sites is that women have no compassion when it comes to men's needs. I wouldn't have the heart to do that to them though. If I had a headache or a cold or something I'd still try to please her, even if all I can manage is a quicky.


quote:I keep being denied access

ya know, It's not a ATM machine LoL



??????? sure they are.
A woman is just like a bank:

You deposit;
you withdraw;

and before you know it...
your lossing interest

*I think Reds got it right


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Thu 03/05/15 09:57 PM
Do I detect a little venom in that statement? what

Smirnoff7605's photo
Fri 03/06/15 11:08 AM
Edited by Smirnoff7605 on Fri 03/06/15 12:02 PM
.-- life is so much funnier when you have a dirty mind..laugh :banana:

Dodo_David's photo
Fri 03/06/15 12:03 PM
Men are like.. PARKING SPOTS... All the good ones are taken, the rest are handicappedoops


Hey, I may be handicapped whenever I am wearing my mechanical "Human" suit, but I am still good, and I am not taken. grumble

DadCat's photo
Fri 03/06/15 12:35 PM

True, and some men are very feeling as well and like to connect and feel they are appreciated and loved fully before they want to give intimacy.


I am glad someone said it before I had to. Thank you. It's good to know men like myself who do understand the need for intimacy are recognized.

OP:
Intimacy != sex.

Intimacy is something much greater that the physical. Your words speak of a lack of understanding and arrogance.

'Give it up'
'hard to get'

You speak of not wanting to be used yet use these words which are not conducive to a meaningful relationship. I will make the effort because the reward is much greater and satisfying in the end to me.

bye now...

DadCat's photo
Fri 03/06/15 12:40 PM

.-- life is so much funnier when you have a dirty mind..


I absolutely believe that the mind is the most erotic part of the body. And there is nothing 'dirty' in erotic thoughts. The pleasure that can be had by pleasing your partner begins with a thought.

bye now...

no photo
Fri 03/06/15 01:17 PM
Response to mariacary. Five minutes is more than enough.

no1phD's photo
Fri 03/06/15 01:21 PM
I never play hard to get..
. however I am hard to tie down..
:angel:

SparklingCrystal 💖💎's photo
Fri 03/06/15 01:28 PM

I never play hard to get..
. however I am hard to tie down..
:angel:

Nah... stainless steel handcuffs should do the trick ... and a ball-gag if you're noisy

valtheponytail35's photo
Fri 03/06/15 02:00 PM
OP is a virgin.
And not in his prime.

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Fri 03/06/15 02:17 PM
The mileage isn't important, it's the make.

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Fri 03/06/15 02:30 PM
Anyway Mr. Know-it-all, how would you know I'm not in my prime. Have you been checking me out in stealth mode?

no photo
Fri 03/06/15 02:43 PM
Red, Red, Red...Ya gotta stop watching "Quest for Fire"...times have changed...

Dodo_David's photo
Fri 03/06/15 06:18 PM
The mileage isn't important, it's the make.

... and misty's make is a Yugo. :tongue:

DjFlo's photo
Fri 03/06/15 06:54 PM
i still think it depends on whose got the highest sex drive, the male or female. However, women enjoys sex more than men!