Community > Dating & Relationships

Previous 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 Next

Topic: The Real Truth Why Men Cheat
uche9aa Joined Mon 08/15/11 Posts: 1986	Mon 03/30/15 02:44 AM
I wanted to know what drives men to cheat.If a man truly loves his woman then why cheat on her? So I asked Google and I was shocked by my findings. www.webmd.com\men\...\why-men-ch.. 48% of men rated emotional dissatisfaction as primary reason they cheat.So much for the myth that for men,cheating is all about sex.Only 8% of men said that sexual dissatisfaction was the main factor in their infidelity. "Our culture tells us that all men need to be happy is sex" Neumen says.These results mean that both partners are guilty and not just the man who cheated.I would like us to discuss this issue in a mature manner. My question is, If you 've experienced being a cheat or cheated on,why did you do it or were you willing to work on your relationship? This is of course if both parties love each other. Pls no insults or drailing

MariahsFantasy Joined Mon 11/28/11 Posts: 6593	Mon 03/30/15 10:25 AM
Loss of self-value. He sensed you were gonna wait till he's asleep to cut it off.

no1phD Joined Tue 01/07/14 Posts: 27442	Mon 03/30/15 11:39 AM
same reason everybody cheats.. . you are not getting are you are lacking something in the relationship.. .... and when you confront your partner.... and they can't or they are simply unwilling.. to give you what you need..... it is human nature to seek it elsewhere..... and the universe plays a role in this as well...... when you're a happy couple.. you like to think the universe brought you together... you hear this all the time.. .. and for the most part it's probably true...... so the same applies for breaking up.. the universe put that person you cheat with in front of you... ...... you don't always get what you want but sometimes just sometimes you get what you need.....

mightymoe Joined Sun 11/19/06 Posts: 37362	Mon 03/30/15 11:43 AM
women are why men cheat...

2469nascar Joined Fri 11/22/13 Posts: 5231	Mon 03/30/15 11:46 AM
women are why men cheat... LOL ,,that and were so week when it comes to a woman in camo,,

Pansytilly Joined Mon 06/09/14 Posts: 11310	Mon 03/30/15 11:46 AM
women are why men cheat... or men..

mightymoe Joined Sun 11/19/06 Posts: 37362	Mon 03/30/15 11:47 AM
women are why men cheat... or men.. different sides of the same coin, huh...

Duttoneer Joined Sun 07/01/12 Posts: 4698	Mon 03/30/15 12:30 PM
I wanted to know what drives men to cheat.If a man truly loves his woman then why cheat on her? So I asked Google and I was shocked by my findings. www.webmd.com\men\...\why-men-ch.. 48% of men rated emotional dissatisfaction as primary reason they cheat.So much for the myth that for men,cheating is all about sex.Only 8% of men said that sexual dissatisfaction was the main factor in their infidelity. "Our culture tells us that all men need to be happy is sex" Neumen says.These results mean that both partners are guilty and not just the man who cheated.I would like us to discuss this issue in a mature manner. My question is, If you 've experienced being a cheat or cheated on,why did you do it or were you willing to work on your relationship? This is of course if both parties love each other. Pls no insults or drailing Any guy in love with his partner does not cheat, he cares too much for her and it will never happen. These guys you refer to are giving excuses as to why they cheated, they are no longer in love with their partners if truth be known, this is just my opinion.

Estelle79 Joined Thu 09/11/14 Posts: 1452	Mon 03/30/15 01:04 PM
Men cheat because they were taught that their needs are all that matter and if they're not being met they don't feel responsible for the other person's feelings. Also, a man's needs are simple, they want sex then food then eventually they need some clean underwear. Any woman can take care of a man's simple needs. All the media is selling women for sex to men.

mightymoe Joined Sun 11/19/06 Posts: 37362	Mon 03/30/15 01:05 PM
Men cheat because they were taught that their needs are all that matter and if they're not being met they don't feel responsible for the other person's feelings. Also, a man's needs are simple, they want sex then food then eventually they need some clean underwear. Any woman can take care of a man's simple needs. All the media is selling women for sex to men. yep. thats it... the only reason...

esebulldog Joined Wed 08/05/09 Posts: 22342	Mon 03/30/15 01:09 PM
Men cheat because they were taught that their needs are all that matter and if they're not being met they don't feel responsible for the other person's feelings. Also, a man's needs are simple, they want sex then food then eventually they need some clean underwear. Any woman can take care of a man's simple needs. All the media is selling women for sex to men. yep. thats it... the only reason... she forgot to put beer in the mix. a woman that can piss beer has my heart

mightymoe Joined Sun 11/19/06 Posts: 37362	Mon 03/30/15 01:14 PM
Men cheat because they were taught that their needs are all that matter and if they're not being met they don't feel responsible for the other person's feelings. Also, a man's needs are simple, they want sex then food then eventually they need some clean underwear. Any woman can take care of a man's simple needs. All the media is selling women for sex to men. yep. thats it... the only reason... she forgot to put beer in the mix. a woman that can piss beer has my heart that and washing my underwear... KEEPER!

Estelle79 Joined Thu 09/11/14 Posts: 1452	Mon 03/30/15 01:34 PM
I guess they do it for entertainment. Cheating is a hobby.

mightymoe Joined Sun 11/19/06 Posts: 37362	Mon 03/30/15 01:43 PM
I guess they do it for entertainment. Cheating is a hobby. wow, your on fire today, you have all the right answers!... we men have to keep up our hobbies, ya know...

yellowrose10 Joined Tue 12/11/07 Posts: 52804	Mon 03/30/15 01:44 PM
I guess they do it for entertainment. Cheating is a hobby. So why do some women cheat then?

yellowrose10 Joined Tue 12/11/07 Posts: 52804	Mon 03/30/15 01:48 PM
These results mean that both partners are guilty and not just the man who cheated. I disagree. Cheating is an act of a coward IMO. If someone is unhappy in the relationship, work on the problem or leave the relationship. My last ex cheated. I tried to work on it but trust was lost.

esebulldog Joined Wed 08/05/09 Posts: 22342	Mon 03/30/15 01:49 PM
I guess they do it for entertainment. Cheating is a hobby. So why do some women cheat then? because men offer them free candy

yellowrose10 Joined Tue 12/11/07 Posts: 52804	Mon 03/30/15 01:50 PM
Or the guy expects them to wash their underwear

Pinkbunny43 Joined Sun 05/12/13 Posts: 26547	Mon 03/30/15 01:53 PM
Men cheat because they were taught that their needs are all that matter and if they're not being met they don't feel responsible for the other person's feelings. Also, a man's needs are simple, they want sex then food then eventually they need some clean underwear. Any woman can take care of a man's simple needs. All the media is selling women for sex to men. Holy crap!!...What is wrong with you??...get over yourself....what makes you so perfect that you can pass such harsh judgement on others!!...grow up and accept you made mistakes in your life. The last I heard a relationship takes two people and you know what it's not always the man who cheats or makes mistakes sometimes women do too!!!

joethebricky Joined Sat 08/04/12 Posts: 12740	Mon 03/30/15 01:55 PM
Or the guy expects them to wash their underwear I don't, but I do like my socks to be folded in matching pairs.