Don't you hate it when somebody takes advantage of your good nature & basically taunts you, & you get tempted to getting a lil dirty from being messed about?
Same thing with me.
some individuals are messing with me in paying me after i worked my azz off & made their business boost simply coz i didnt want to be part of their pathetic business ethics anymore.
they know me well enough to know i'm a lil crazy & can get physical so why they doing This?
I'm maintaining my cool for now but it wont be for long.

What would you do?

a little crazy? I would just go out four wheeling and get dirty,,that will show them whos boss,,,

I would get physical...

i would get physical with you too

I so thought this topic would be about something else...
*Totally disappointed*
But with that in mind, I also suggest getting physical... it will reduce stress levels for sure, so you can face the situation with clear head.

I would 'suggest' you to ask that question to your very 'own' self (instead of soliciting the opinion of others) ONLY for the basic reason that your 'heart' will guide you (tell you what to do) in 'due' time. 'Trust' Me!

With all the people & women looking at me it got me shy & paranoid lmao i couldn't get physical but i did get what i went for

I don't really understand what this means.

Do I hate when people taunt me and I feel tempted to hit them?
Not really "hate" this. It's an easy temptation to avoid.

Or do I hate it that people taunt me and I feel like jumping in a mud puddle or throwing a tantrum and destroying things?
Not really. This is easy to avoid too since I'm no longer 6.
The only person that loses is me since I have to clean and iron my own clothes and if I break anything that isn't my own personal property will have significant negative consequences.


This matters.
This is easy to address.
Assuming you worked within the confines of legal employment.
If not, then it's your fault for not preparing for this outcome.


This doesn't matter at all and is simply an attempt to rationalize your desired behavior.
You will either "get dirty" and then feel justified, even if it doesn't lead to anything positive except an immediate emotional release on your part.
Or you will not "get dirty" and then feel like you're a "big man" for resisting such childish "temptations," leading to an inflated ego, sense of power, and righteousness.


If you don't know, and you can't figure it out, why would a bunch of strangers be able to?
At best they/we/I can offer speculation.
And even if strangers guess correctly, the other people may have their own unique perspective of the situation.

If you have no way to figure it out, then it doesn't matter, and you need to focus on what you are going to do about it and how to get to an outcome with the most positive benefits. Otherwise you are just hurting yourself.


Think and act like an adult?

This has to do with Business. When clients mess you around for a payment

Then I would get very serious about collection or drop them entirely. When someone gets a reputation for screwing over others in business it usually catches up with them and they end up out of business. Pays to check before you stick your neck out going out of your way for a new client. Someone that always wants that last pint of blood out of a business associate is someone to avoid because you will (1) Never collect (2) Waste more energy than it would take to get a better client, and (3) Never ruin your business reputation by resorting to violence because that will hurt you more than them.

This is so true...& i hate violence...it can tend to piss one off when you work like crazy & get a business to its top level & all your hard work is unappreciated

I am very very black and white in business. That is the main reason I don't do business with friends.. I keep it unemotional and above board when it turns ugly I usually ask to be bought out and I do the buying..

I recently went in on flipping a house.. When the house was ready to be put on the market.. The partners thought they were going to make all the decisions.. Nope not happening...Brought out trusty contract...

I agree with Crystal when stress gets to the level of driving you crazy gotta get physical...

ding dang it.. I was really hoping this was going to be, a different kind of topic..

I felt the same way when I saw it ... Come sit on the disappointment bench with me so we can hold hands and sob together? I swear ... swear, that if you kiss me ... we're both going to feel a whole lot better, haha

* OMG I can't believe I just effing said that. I'm actually blushing behind my PC *

can't i just offer you my hand?

Backs quietly away from the noisily occupied bench

See ... Stick Crystal and a Canadian in a topic - or a room - and you get instant heat.
I know, been there ... my first real love ... radiated so much heat we could've melted the polar caps