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Topic: Honestly in a Relationship
Fabulous007's photo
Mon 10/26/15 03:34 PM
Do you believe Honesty is the best policy in a Relationship??

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Mon 10/26/15 03:38 PM
I'd say it applies to all walks of life

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Mon 10/26/15 03:58 PM
Edited by Cacutie59 on Mon 10/26/15 03:58 PM
Absolutely, honesty is very important .!

Datwasntme's photo
Mon 10/26/15 04:16 PM

Do you believe Honesty is the best policy in a Relationship??


yup yup yup

motowndowntown's photo
Mon 10/26/15 04:28 PM
Only if it's absolutely necessary.

Annierooroo's photo
Mon 10/26/15 04:31 PM
It is a must.

your lies do catch up with you sooner or later

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Mon 10/26/15 04:45 PM
no dear those jeans don't make your riiippppp

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Mon 10/26/15 04:47 PM
Do you believe Honesty is the best policy in a Relationship??

I don't know what you mean by "honesty."

It's far more complex an issue.

I mean there are many times when being honest is just being selfish, where it serves absolutely no purpose except to make you feel better, or confessing sins that really don't matter, to assuage personal guilt, or because you want your ego stroked, wanting brownie points for being honest.

I think "honesty" is the easiest and most simplistic policy in a relationship.

I think "honesty" is just one side of a bell curve with "compulsively lying" at the other end.

I think if you know someone and can figure out when they're being honest, when they're not, and why they're being either makes "honesty" as a policy pointless.


IgorFrankensteen's photo
Mon 10/26/15 06:40 PM
Ciretom points out well why I never sign up for any "blank check" scenarios like this question.

Something to watch out for in general: if you find yourself trying to find and cite a general rule of behavior, not to guide YOURSELF, but to try to use it to force other people to do what you want, it usually means you are on the wrong track entirely.

ardalaan's photo
Mon 10/26/15 09:41 PM
yes...if some one find honesty in today,s world..

katejose250's photo
Mon 10/26/15 10:01 PM
Hmmmmmmm don't know what to say,because no man having it again

graygentleman's photo
Mon 10/26/15 11:04 PM
I have had honesty save me in more than one tricky situation.

Actually had a boss stand up for me because I was always honest.

Be true to yourself, your word, and your work.

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Tue 10/27/15 06:29 AM
The truth and nothing but the truth, Yes.
The whole truth? No.

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Tue 10/27/15 03:11 PM

Do you believe Honesty is the best policy in a Relationship??


I can't believe anyone would even have to ask that question!

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Tue 10/27/15 03:16 PM
Is honesty the best policy in a relationship....Not if you care about sex it isn't..... honey how is the roast I made for you I know I overcooked it just a bit.....If you were to use honesty..
You might say something like this..
Overcooked it a bit.. is a understatement.. I've had Hockey pucks that were more tender..lol.
.. no sex for you..laugh :wink: ..

.. now same scenario but not being honest..
The roast was delicious my dear..
I like it slightly overcooked..
You take such good care of me baby..
Yep you're having sex..:wink: : :wink:

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Tue 10/27/15 03:21 PM
Guys lie to get sex???

Who knew???


tongue2

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Tue 10/27/15 03:38 PM
Sure.....honesty is always good. For instance.....

Man: "Honey.....I have this growth on my ballsac. Come take a look at it please."

Woman: "Ugh! Do I look like I am a Doctor or something?"

Man: "Well....she asked me to tell you everything dear! You know...that whole honesty thing".

Woman: "You are such an a-hole! Go to the Doctor".

Man: "Love you!"

Woman: "Love you!"

Ahhhhhhhh! Relationships!

no1phD's photo
Tue 10/27/15 03:41 PM

Guys lie to get sex???

Who knew???


tongue2
.. well to apply honesty to this..
I would have to say honestly I cannot speak for most guys out there..
But for myself most definitely so..
So I do not use honesty always in a relationship.. especially when I would like some sex... and if she was being honest she would not always say she has a headache when she probably doesn't... Haha..:wink: :wink: ..
But you probably already knew that!laugh

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Tue 10/27/15 09:42 PM
Message I am honest bec...I did not have any...G.f In My life....and I want to Make a gud Relesionship with a gud person..

1Marie63's photo
Tue 10/27/15 09:52 PM
Honesty is important in any relationship. There are tactful ways to give someone bad news. (and still be able to have sex)

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