| Topic: thinking of going celibate | |
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      When I wasn't getting any I was obsessed with women.  Sex was the be-all-and-end-all for me.  And seeing them prancing about strutting their stuff was torturous.  Even the plain janes had me drooling.  
 So I joined dating sites hoping to get some but then I found out it wasn't as easy as that. It takes more than just a pretty face believe me. I thought all I had to do was upload a picture and ask them if they wanted some action. But they just ignored me, or replied back with spiteful messages. I'm very stubbon so it took me a long time to change tactics. So I went the long way round and got some dates. Some didn't go according to plan but most did. This last one was a bit of a nympho though and I've kind of gone off sex a little bit. | |
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      Welcome back man...   Just do it....   We all wanna see your pain and angst....       | |
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|  Whatever gets you through the night. Did they boot you off Date Hook Up? Or Ashley Madison or where ever?   | |
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      At least you can get dates, I have barely gotten a single response to my emails and the one woman I was talking to did exactly what I thought she was going to do, talk to me for a week, want to get to know me and then ask me for money. I work hard and believe in helping people but I do not agree with talking to someone for 2 weeks and saying "oh I love you" I need you help please send me money. Why do people have to be so shallow and selfish. I just want to find someone to spend my time with. Maybe it will just be better to go hide in a hole somewhere like I have been for the last few years.
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| So I went the long way round and got some dates. So, red6mist finally visited the produce section of a supermarket.   | |
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        Mon 12/28/15 08:05 PM
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      My man RED, back in the saddle again. Where you been brother? A wolf dressed up in sheep's clothing taking the long way around, Sounds like a plan  Happy Holidays RED. | |
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      For Red, going celibate is like going on a stay-cation.
 You don't have to travel because you are already there.   | |
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|  thinking of going celibateYour boyfriends are going to be disappointed to hear that.... | |
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| When I wasn't getting any I was obsessed with women. Sex was the be-all-and-end-all for me. And seeing them prancing about strutting their stuff was torturous. Even the plain janes had me drooling. So I joined dating sites hoping to get some but then I found out it wasn't as easy as that. It takes more than just a pretty face believe me. I thought all I had to do was upload a picture and ask them if they wanted some action. But they just ignored me, or replied back with spiteful messages. I'm very stubbon so it took me a long time to change tactics. So I went the long way round and got some dates. Some didn't go according to plan but most did. This last one was a bit of a nympho though and I've kind of gone off sex a little bit. Welcome back.   Right Said Fred - I'm Too Sexy (Original Mix) http://youtu.be/P5mtclwloEQ/ | |
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| At least you can get dates, I have barely gotten a single response to my emails and the one woman I was talking to did exactly what I thought she was going to do, talk to me for a week, want to get to know me and then ask me for money. I work hard and believe in helping people but I do not agree with talking to someone for 2 weeks and saying "oh I love you" I need you help please send me money. Why do people have to be so shallow and selfish. I just want to find someone to spend my time with. Maybe it will just be better to go hide in a hole somewhere like I have been for the last few years. Don't give up man   | |
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      Hey Misty..good seeing you.
 Sounds like you're just bored. Throw away your inflateable wench. Go with a silicone girl. They cost a few quid more, but you won't regret it. | |
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      So you came here because you are off sex.
 This makes enormous sense. What have you done with the real redmist? | |
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      Let me be honest you don't miss it. 
 You realise there's more to the person than physical appearances | |
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      NOW. Are we talking like in no sex at all.?. Like not even with ourselves..
 Nooooooo. ..  nice to see you back up on the horse again   | |
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| NOW. Are we talking like in no sex at all.?. Like not even with ourselves.. Nooooooo. ..  nice to see you back up on the horse again   Could you handle it? | |
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      no no I think it's can you NOT 'handle' it    | |
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| no no I think it's can you NOT 'handle' it    a very good point.  At the moment I am doing pretty good.  I don't think of man as a sexual being. Is that weird? | |
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      PS can I add I don't look at females like that either. 
 I like men but don't googly eye them like I need them to fill in something. Sorry I don't know how to explain it any other way | |
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| no no I think it's can you NOT 'handle' it    a very good point.  At the moment I am doing pretty good.  I don't think of man as a sexual being. Is that weird? Dunno if it's weird, but I can't. Whenever I think being around the man for me, how I'd feel with him etc., it automatically gets sensual, flirty and sexual. If I don't get a sexual vibe from a man, he becomes sorta androgynous to me. I'm not necessarily talking about getting turned on, I'm talking about the natural attraction/sexual tension between men and women. So in a way to me it's the other way round: if I don't see them as a sexual being, I don't think of them as a man, but more as an androgynous being, lol | |
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| This last one was a bit of a nympho though and I've kind of gone off sex a little bit. Red I'm so disappointed in this statement.   You were da' man Hopefully it'll just be one of those phases   | |
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