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Ummm ..dose sleeping over a lot !!
count as moving in..?..lol |
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without rings and contract BAD IDEA FOR THE GIRL....THE GIRL IS THE PRIZE NOT THE GUY....MAKE THE BOY EARN THE COOKIE......  I agree with these comments I believe in commitment and marriage personally |
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Depends on your age, how strong the connection and chemistry is and how well you have openly communicated with each other. I think if you have to ask this question you're not ready yet and need more time. Whatever you decide I wish you the best of luck and a happy ending. We all wish this for everyone, but it just does not happen to all |
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Ummm ..dose sleeping over a lot !! count as moving in..?..lol It does if you are using the bottom drawer of the dresser
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without rings and contract BAD IDEA FOR THE GIRL....THE GIRL IS THE PRIZE NOT THE GUY....MAKE THE BOY EARN THE COOKIE...... I agree with these comments I believe in commitment and marriage personally You are a good man... 
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without rings and contract BAD IDEA FOR THE GIRL....THE GIRL IS THE PRIZE NOT THE GUY....MAKE THE BOY EARN THE COOKIE...... Couldn't agree more
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Edited by
BHawkins
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Wed 04/13/16 09:55 PM
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Know what? If she loves you the right way then bringing up the subject should make her feel good that you'd want that, even if she's not quite ready to. So if you look at her and know her face is one you will never get tired of and you believe she feels the same way, just bring it up. Life's too short to overthink these unwritten rules and how it'll be viewed. Risk causes bad things to happen but the good ones won't happen without it either. Too many people let heartbreak change their outlook. Which is understandable but still unfortunate. I'll gladly take 1000 heartbreaks if it eventually leads to that 1 special person. If you're at all a risk taker like me then just speak your mind without hesitation or regret.
It could turn out bad but decades from now you guys could be that inseperable couple who has what people like me hope for. I say just speak your mind and if that doesn't feel right then you could wait on her and hope she's not doing the exact same thing. Either way, good luck and I hope it's the beginning of something rare. Neither of you are the prize, the prize will be what you share and who you are together ......just my opinion |
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I don't see there is a time limit. When it feels right for both then go for it.. Heck only knew my ex 3 months before we were married... So it just all depends how well you get along. [/quote And obviously this turned out well for her didn't it? |
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Ummm ..dose sleeping over a lot !! count as moving in..?..lol Only when you help with the shopping, cooking & cleaning and pay half of the bills. 
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Hi Sitka Rains, I was just saying were is SitkaRains? Hope you are well. Hey I am well thank you for missing me that brings a smile to my face. A girl always wants to be missed lol Of course you're being missed! But how can we let you know when you've deactivated 
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Know what? If she loves you the right way then bringing up the subject should make her feel good that you'd want that, even if she's not quite ready to. So if you look at her and know her face is one you will never get tired of and you believe she feels the same way, just bring it up. Life's too short to overthink these unwritten rules and how it'll be viewed. Risk causes bad things to happen but the good ones won't happen without it either. Too many people let heartbreak change their outlook. Which is understandable but still unfortunate. I'll gladly take 1000 heartbreaks if it eventually leads to that 1 special person. If you're at all a risk taker like me then just speak your mind without hesitation or regret. It could turn out bad but decades from now you guys could be that inseperable couple who has what people like me hope for. I say just speak your mind and if that doesn't feel right then you could wait on her and hope she's not doing the exact same thing. Either way, good luck and I hope it's the beginning of something rare. Neither of you are the prize, the prize will be what you share and who you are together ......just my opinion Thanks for sharing
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Hi Sitka Rains, I was just saying were is SitkaRains? Hope you are well. Hey I am well thank you for missing me that brings a smile to my face. A girl always wants to be missed lol Of course you're being missed! But how can we let you know when you've deactivated I am so sorry...rofl.. Back to topic at hand... Honestly there is no hard and fast rule. The time will feel right between the two people. No one else is in "that relationship" so everyone's opinion will be different. I personally am a slow mover. So for me it would take a lot to move in with someone ever again. At this point in my life I am not even sure if I want a relationship again. So my humble advice is to follow your gut. Talk to the woman you are thinking about moving in with, if you can't talk about this then you aren't ready |
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Hi Sitka Rains, I was just saying were is SitkaRains? Hope you are well. Hey I am well thank you for missing me that brings a smile to my face. A girl always wants to be missed lol Of course you're being missed! But how can we let you know when you've deactivated I am so sorry...rofl.. Back to topic at hand... Honestly there is no hard and fast rule. The time will feel right between the two people. No one else is in "that relationship" so everyone's opinion will be different. I personally am a slow mover. So for me it would take a lot to move in with someone ever again. At this point in my life I am not even sure if I want a relationship again. So my humble advice is to follow your gut. Talk to the woman you are thinking about moving in with, if you can't talk about this then you aren't ready Mutual conversation to me is the key. If it cannot be discussed neither one is ready. 
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