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Topic: Dumping Intimate 'pleasures' or not?
SparklingCrystal 💖💎's photo
Mon 04/18/16 11:43 AM
Since it came up as an example of comparison elsewhere it made me think...
I realize it's a bit of a cheeky question for this forum, and considering the PG13, we don't need details ... but, do you dump your intimate pleasure items and intimate pleasure outfit collection when a relationship ends, and start a new collection?

Logic would dictate that if there's hygiene issues, you'd chuck it. But if that's not the case, would you get rid of it because of the memories?
Neither lingerie nor intimate pleasure items come cheap, so I'm curious if memories would outweigh the cost factor.

soufiehere's photo
Mon 04/18/16 12:08 PM
Never had any, er, paraphernalia to chuck :-)

TxsGal3333's photo
Mon 04/18/16 12:10 PM
Have never thrown out stuff due to a relationship as far as intimate clothing~~~~Humm as long as it can be washed and cleaned it is kept..whoa


SparklingCrystal 💖💎's photo
Mon 04/18/16 12:10 PM

Never had any, er, paraphernalia to chuck :-)

Paraphernalia? rofl rofl rofl rofl rofl

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Mon 04/18/16 12:12 PM
I do, because there's no point in me thinking about sex, until I'm in another relationship. What I mean is, my mind will torture me about it, so out of sight, out of mind. Especially when it comes to sex. I just see no point in keeping that stuff around, if I end up single again.

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Mon 04/18/16 12:44 PM
This thread is getting interesting.

no photo
Mon 04/18/16 12:46 PM
For me ,everything must go.
And start over.
I don't think it is fair to myself or the new guy to keep anything around.

Not that type of thing anyway.
Jewelry....now that is another story.
:wink:

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Mon 04/18/16 12:50 PM
Nothing to see here, actually. Unless you have a one foot and a bit ruler. Never bothered with fake poles cause I could never find one as long as mine, so I never saw the point.
As for keeping clothes? I never wore any. As for the chicks wearing leather and such? They always just peeled it off and kept it off whenever I was in the room. No sovenirs to keep here, I'm afraid, unless of course you count the oversized ruler.
Been a slice,

no1phD's photo
Mon 04/18/16 01:07 PM
Ummm.. do condoms count?

SitkaRains's photo
Mon 04/18/16 01:12 PM
Edited by SitkaRains on Mon 04/18/16 01:55 PM
Ummmm.... I keep my lingerie it is expensive..
But the other stuff don't' own any and have no desire to... I much prefer to use my imagination.blushing

Now if it is a special thing I bought specifically for him.. It is gone..

But honestly I don't usually do that.. If I am wanting to make that kind of statement. I must prefer to snag one of his dress shirts...And wear that with buttons ummm.. unbuttoned except for a couple..

Beachfarmer's photo
Mon 04/18/16 01:30 PM
laugh

Seems to me several items of "accoutrement" might come in even MORE handy SPECIFICALLY when single.

:wink:

SparklingCrystal 💖💎's photo
Mon 04/18/16 01:54 PM

laugh

Seems to me several items of "accoutrement" might come in even MORE handy SPECIFICALLY when single.

:wink:

laugh laugh laugh
Bloody good point! :thumbsup:

SparklingCrystal 💖💎's photo
Mon 04/18/16 02:04 PM
After my marriage ended, I threw the whole lot out. I didn't ever want to see it again.
Later on talked to some friends about it and they basically asked me if I was nuts, lol.
After my 2nd LTR I didn't throw anything away. I never been much of a toy collector blushing :angel: so it was mostly outfits. And I bought them because they suited me. So why chuck them?
Must admit they've been sitting in the wardrobe, collecting dust.
But like TxsGal said, if I can wash and/or clean it, I'm keeping it.

no1phD's photo
Mon 04/18/16 02:10 PM
Edited by no1phD on Mon 04/18/16 02:11 PM
Just another example of a throwaway Society..my god.. throwing away perfectly good lingerie and vibrators plus sex toys.... right now there's some African woman standing in a grass Hut right now somewhere shaking her head at you ...lol

SparklingCrystal 💖💎's photo
Mon 04/18/16 02:19 PM
Edited by SparklingCrystal 💖💎 on Mon 04/18/16 02:19 PM

Just another example of a throwaway Society..my god.. throwing away perfectly good lingerie and vibrators plus sex toys.... right now there's some African woman standing in a grass Hut right now somewhere shaking her head at you ...lol

rofl rofl rofl rofl rofl rofl rofl rofl rofl rofl rofl
So is she shaking her head as she just obtained a secondhand toy and she's shocked at the size compared to an African man ...
Or shaking her head as she wished she had herself a (secondhand) toy?
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SparklingCrystal 💖💎's photo
Mon 04/18/16 02:20 PM

Ummmm.... I keep my lingerie it is expensive..
But the other stuff don't' own any and have no desire to... I much prefer to use my imagination.blushing

Now if it is a special thing I bought specifically for him.. It is gone..

But honestly I don't usually do that.. If I am wanting to make that kind of statement. I must prefer to snag one of his dress shirts...And wear that with buttons ummm.. unbuttoned except for a couple..

:thumbsup: waving

RustyKitty's photo
Mon 04/18/16 05:02 PM
hmmm..any lingerie I now have should be replaced, unless shabby chic is in..lol
as for toys - I bought for me, so NO, they/it don't get thrown away..

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Mon 04/18/16 05:07 PM
I usually try to keep her panties, to muffle the sounds of next woman that takes her place.smile2

TMommy's photo
Mon 04/18/16 05:12 PM

hmmm..any lingerie I now have should be replaced, unless shabby chic is in..lol
as for toys - I bought for me, so NO, they/it don't get thrown away..

:thumbsup:

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Mon 04/18/16 09:11 PM

Toys for me .. I would keep .. Toys for him I would find another use For .. For instance Did you know **** beads are great for checking the amount of oil in your lawnmower.. Lmao

Butt plugs make great door stops

Penis pumps .. Can be used to unclog drains :-)

Just use your imagination and a ton of bleach :-)

rofl:laughing:rofl Martha Stewart says to carve those butt plugs out of hard salami, to snack on, afterwards.

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