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Topic: Demisexuality and dating
vervain_annwn's photo
Mon 05/23/16 09:12 AM
Does anyone else identify themselves as demisexual? Why isn't there any spasific dating sites for it? Any advice for dating as one or for anyone who is dating a demi?

RustyKitty's photo
Mon 05/23/16 09:16 AM

Does anyone else identify themselves as demisexual? Why isn't there any spasific dating sites for it? Any advice for dating as one or for anyone who is dating a demi?

I had to google the term
I don't identify that way myself
I guess its friends first with that..

soufiehere's photo
Mon 05/23/16 09:19 AM
Had to look it up also.
I guess I am one.
No advice, seems like a good thing, to
base sex on emotional attraction :-)

mightymoe's photo
Mon 05/23/16 09:20 AM

Does anyone else identify themselves as demisexual? Why isn't there any spasific dating sites for it? Any advice for dating as one or for anyone who is dating a demi?


more new words being made up now? i don't know what that is supposed to mean, but i like women... that won't change, no matter what new words are being made up...

RustyKitty's photo
Mon 05/23/16 09:27 AM


Does anyone else identify themselves as demisexual? Why isn't there any spasific dating sites for it? Any advice for dating as one or for anyone who is dating a demi?


more new words being made up now? i don't know what that is supposed to mean, but i like women... that won't change, no matter what new words are being made up...

i know... thank goodness for that 'urban dictionary'... i would be so clueless.

mightymoe's photo
Mon 05/23/16 09:28 AM



Does anyone else identify themselves as demisexual? Why isn't there any spasific dating sites for it? Any advice for dating as one or for anyone who is dating a demi?


more new words being made up now? i don't know what that is supposed to mean, but i like women... that won't change, no matter what new words are being made up...

i know... thank goodness for that 'urban dictionary'... i would be so clueless.


i didn't even bother to look it up, i'm sure i'm not whatever it means...

sparkyae5's photo
Mon 05/23/16 09:35 AM

Does anyone else identify themselves as demisexual? Why isn't there any spasific dating sites for it? Any advice for dating as one or for anyone who is dating a demi?



I CAN UNDERSTAND THAT..FOR A LOT OF WOMEN THE ONLY TIME THEY ARE INTERESTED IN

SEX IS WHEN THEY ARE DOING IT.....AND BY THE WAY ITS NORMAL FOR THE

GALS....:heart: .

Robxbox73's photo
Mon 05/23/16 09:52 AM
Another silly term for the generation that is glued to the phone.

sparkyae5's photo
Mon 05/23/16 10:49 AM

Another silly term for the generation that is glued to the phone.




in cases like that i just walk away.....

Sher_Tenn's photo
Mon 05/23/16 11:09 AM
From what I gathered from the definition.. I wouldn't view it as even needing its own term.. since it seems a normal outlook to want an emotional connection to a partner..

I guess it would depend on how 'deep' a connection you needed..

Advice..? Nothing other than 'friends first'..

yellowrose10's photo
Mon 05/23/16 11:24 AM
Demisexual: Demisexuality is a sexual orientation in which someone feels sexual attraction only to people with whom they have an emotional bond. Most demisexuals feel sexual attraction rarely compared to the general population, and some have little to no interest in sexual activity

Robxbox73's photo
Mon 05/23/16 11:31 AM

Demisexual: Demisexuality is a sexual orientation in which someone feels sexual attraction only to people with whom they have an emotional bond. Most demisexuals feel sexual attraction rarely compared to the general population, and some have little to no interest in sexual activity


No offence, but isn't that just a hipster duffus way of saying frigid as old folk used to say? I mean, what's next? Pizzapanoptic- a made up term for the feeling you get, when you want to grab the last slice of pizza but don't want to look like a hog... Not an actual word, just made up on social media, and expected to be used in place of Bogart.

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Mon 05/23/16 11:32 AM
Edited by yellowrose10 on Mon 05/23/16 11:33 AM


Demisexual: Demisexuality is a sexual orientation in which someone feels sexual attraction only to people with whom they have an emotional bond. Most demisexuals feel sexual attraction rarely compared to the general population, and some have little to no interest in sexual activity


No offence, but isn't that just a hipster duffus way of saying frigid as old folk used to say? I mean, what's next? Pizzapanoptic- a made up term for the feeling you get, when you want to grab the last slice of pizza but don't want to look like a hog... Not an actual word, just made up on social media, and expected to be used in place of Bogart.


IDK lol. I gave up a long time ago with new terms. I just posted the definition because no one (including me) seemed to know what it is

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Mon 05/23/16 11:35 AM

Demisexual: Demisexuality is a sexual orientation in which someone feels sexual attraction only to people with whom they have an emotional bond. Most demisexuals feel sexual attraction rarely compared to the general population, and some have little to no interest in sexual activity
Well whodathunkit....I figured it was someone who would only bang democrats laugh

UrMissingLib's photo
Mon 05/23/16 11:40 AM
Demi what? Human beings never cease to surprise me. Very innovative as the days go by....

Robxbox73's photo
Mon 05/23/16 12:22 PM



Demisexual: Demisexuality is a sexual orientation in which someone feels sexual attraction only to people with whom they have an emotional bond. Most demisexuals feel sexual attraction rarely compared to the general population, and some have little to no interest in sexual activity


No offence, but isn't that just a hipster duffus way of saying frigid as old folk used to say? I mean, what's next? Pizzapanoptic- a made up term for the feeling you get, when you want to grab the last slice of pizza but don't want to look like a hog... Not an actual word, just made up on social media, and expected to be used in place of Bogart.


IDK lol. I gave up a long time ago with new terms. I just posted the definition because no one (including me) seemed to know what it is


Lol not aimed at you my YellowRose. More at social media, trying to change our language without checking with Webster's first!

TMommy's photo
Mon 05/23/16 12:24 PM
that's interesting..ya I just refer to that as morals

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Mon 05/23/16 12:50 PM
Does anyone else identify themselves as demisexual?

Probably.
But not many.

Why isn't there any spasific dating sites for it?

Because dating sites are only as successful as the number of members they have so they can be sold to advertisers as a potential market, or the number of members willing to pay.
If you're too niche it's not going to be able to keep itself afloat as sites cost money to run.

Why don't you start one?
That's pretty much how all of them started in the first place.
Someone just decided to create a webpage for it.
Although, you might be more successful building a mobile app than a dating website, since that seems to be the current trend.

Any advice for dating as one or for anyone who is dating a demi?

Nothing helpful that you can't figure out yourself with common sense and a desire to think.


TxsGal3333's photo
Mon 05/23/16 12:56 PM
Another new term for me....

Okay emotional bond but not interested really in the sex.

I guess if it is what one wants kuddos to them..

I'm old I want the emotional bond with the sex included, without the sex forget it. noway

I have my dog if all I want is a companion.... And friends I hang out with when I want to be around people..biggrin

TMommy's photo
Mon 05/23/16 12:58 PM
it's emotional bond without sex? ooooooooh ya that's friend zone

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