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| Topic: When a guy only send texts and not bother to call | |
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what if its the other way around? talking over the phone everyday for three straight weeks? what can you say about the guy then?  Clingy Bored No life.. Needs to get a job and or a hobby.  of course its all after office/working hours...the conversations i mean lol. You think clingy and bored would still be the description? Um yup ... Most guys don't have that much to talk about. Lol.
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It could be the guy doesn't hear on the phone very well. I know I gave trouble with soft voices.
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I hate talking on the phone. I would much rather text.
The only time I talk on the phone is if someone calls me. Or if I need information from the other person urgently. Of if it is something important or meaningful, and it can't wait until we see each other in person. Texting was invented for people like me. |
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Hi, I recently ended a potential great relationship because he would only send texts and not bother to call. (We use Viber). I took it as a sign that he was not really into me based on my experience with other interested guys I met in dating site who were persistent to ask for my number so they could hear my voice.He told me that he used to call his ex EVERY DAY and would even travel 7 hours just to see her.  What is one-minute call versus 7 hours of travel?Dating and romance blogs also mention that when a man does not call, he simply is not into you.Your thoughts? he aint into you |
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Sorry to hear that..he is just not into you. he is just not ready.
Stop clingy, text or call him. Leaned back, careless, meditate, keep busy, date others, build rotations and take care/focus on yourself. |
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When I told him that I felt that he is not into me by not calling, he replied by saying that I should have told him that I need him to call me...OUCH! i have been through this..i know how you feel
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I couldn't have said this better myself...slowly, the conversations that make us bond is been wiped out cos we take texting to a whole new level....
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When I told him that I felt that he is not into me by not calling, he replied by saying that I should have told him that I need him to call me...OUCH! I think you should have too... How else can he know? Men can be much simpler than women, maybe he was glad you weren't as clingy as his ex, not needing him to phone all the time. YOu can just tell a guy what you need and how you feel, and he'll be okay with that, as long as you don't make a big to-do out of it. He might even have liked it, had you told him ... |
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Hi Maxsterx, thanks for your time in sharing your thoughts. I, however, would like to assure you that there is no way I will send money to a man just to see me. I think it is pathetic for any woman to do that. I don't believe you would be the type to send money. I do wonder though if you're not talking to a scammer. Have you ever spoke with him on the phone? Did he call after you actually ask him about why he didn't call? If you have not ever heard his voice I'd say its more a scam or maybe he is hiding something. Either way you're not getting what you need even after blatantly telling him its best you did end it. JMO and best wishes. |
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You did the right thing! Showing effort is key
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This gets me annoyed a lot. So if I don't see quality. I don't show it either. Delete block goodbye. NEXT! ...
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agree with you
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Edited by
Mslina376
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Thu 11/24/16 01:00 PM
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Hi Maxsterx, thanks for your time in sharing your thoughts. I, however, would like to assure you that there is no way I will send money to a man just to see me. I think it is pathetic for any woman to do that. wow..way too much leaning forward. too much put energy/invest in him. If he doesn't invest or interested in you, find someone else who make effort for you. and move on. |
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Hmm.. so much nicer to receive a phone call.. then a text message....
Text messages are convenient and nice but sometimes you need to hear the person's voice in your ear..mmmm..aahhaaa..mmmhhmmm..yessss....lol |
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if a man does not want to take the time to actually call you?
he does not deserve the time to date you |
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I think that's true, TMommy.
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Hlw
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Hlw
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It's a messed up world.
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