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Topic: how long should you wait before sleeping with a new love int
krissy55101 Joined Thu 12/01/16 Posts: 1163	Fri 03/03/17 01:07 PM
Thanks

soufiehere Joined Sat 10/24/09 Posts: 45325	Fri 03/03/17 01:12 PM
I am going to sound like an old fuddy duddy and a Bible thumper, but that is fine. I believe that premarital sex is wrong. This is just my opinion but I do respect the opinions of others even when they differ from mine. Please don't think less of me because of my beliefs. You are all very wonderful and kind people Silly girl, it is GOOD to have ideals, particularly when you are young, it gives focus to your life :-)

yellowrose10 Joined Tue 12/11/07 Posts: 52804	Fri 03/03/17 01:15 PM
There is no time frame. Do what you feel

no1phD Joined Tue 01/07/14 Posts: 27442	Fri 03/03/17 01:16 PM Edited by no1phD on Fri 03/03/17 01:17 PM
I am going to sound like an old fuddy duddy and a Bible thumper, but that is fine. I believe that premarital sex is wrong. This is just my opinion but I do respect the opinions of others even when they differ from mine. Please don't think less of me because of my beliefs. You are all very wonderful and kind people Silly girl, it is GOOD to have ideals, particularly when you are young, it gives focus to your life :-) .. yes it is so rare to find these days young ladies with ideas.. .hmm. for that matter of fact any young lady that can string two sentences together..lol.jk. I'm kidding seriously so many budding Amelia Earharts out there..lol

yellowrose10 Joined Tue 12/11/07 Posts: 52804	Fri 03/03/17 01:16 PM Edited by yellowrose10 on Fri 03/03/17 01:28 PM
I am going to sound like an old fuddy duddy and a Bible thumper, but that is fine. I believe that premarital sex is wrong. This is just my opinion but I do respect the opinions of others even when they differ from mine. Please don't think less of me because of my beliefs. You are all very wonderful and kind people Silly girl, it is GOOD to have ideals, particularly when you are young, it gives focus to your life :-) Why? I am 46 and see nothing wrong with it Regardless of religion...it's how people feel. I know many in all kinds of religions and age brackets that believe this

no1phD Joined Tue 01/07/14 Posts: 27442	Fri 03/03/17 01:19 PM
Oh great I feel a Bible Revival coming.on..lol... gather round children let's all hold hands and sing the virtues of absence.. keeping your white veil of virginity from being soiled before that fateful night... Can I get an amen..lol.jk.

SparklingCrystal 💖💎 Joined Mon 05/20/13 Posts: 33251	Fri 03/03/17 02:07 PM
Oh great I feel a Bible Revival coming.on..lol... gather round children let's all hold hands and sing the virtues of absence.. keeping your white veil of virginity from being soiled before that fateful night... Can I get an amen..lol.jk. Scary innit?

SparklingCrystal 💖💎 Joined Mon 05/20/13 Posts: 33251	Fri 03/03/17 02:08 PM
Wait till marriage? To each their own, but what if you aren't going to get married (anymore) for whatever reason? And even if you do, I'd still want to erm... test the ehm... well ya know beforehand. I need to know he can keep me happy, and that his passion & desire match mine The thought of finding out during your honeymoon you totally don't match in the sack, pffff... Straight to a divorce lawyer.

Goofball73 Joined Mon 11/05/07 Posts: 33913	Fri 03/03/17 02:16 PM
I have a five date rule. But I can make exceptions if she signs a consent form.

Ɔʎɹɐx Joined Mon 08/19/13 Posts: 4935	Fri 03/03/17 02:58 PM
I'm still single, and I'm ready to wait until the last day of my life...sex outside marriage!! oh, may Allah forgive you, I don't even shake hands with females who aren't among my 4 wives.... that's simply HARAM!

mikeyspace4691 Joined Tue 02/04/14 Posts: 1862	Fri 03/03/17 03:20 PM
I am going to sound like an old fuddy duddy and a Bible thumper, but that is fine. I believe that premarital sex is wrong. This is just my opinion but I do respect the opinions of others even when they differ from mine. Please don't think less of me because of my beliefs. You are all very wonderful and kind people I believe sex for pleasure is wrong.. Doggie is a sin too.. Morning sex without the intent of making babies, is the devils work.. Those spankins that women pretend to enjoy, are all wrong..

Adamsvila Joined Sun 08/17/14 Posts: 1	Fri 03/03/17 03:25 PM
I agree with you Krissy... most casual relationship ends after been intimate.

NotPay4Play Joined Fri 06/24/16 Posts: 5330	Fri 03/03/17 03:26 PM
There is no time frame. Do what you feel Just make sure to pay the tab at the bar first.

Ɔʎɹɐx Joined Mon 08/19/13 Posts: 4935	Fri 03/03/17 03:28 PM
I'm still single, and I'm ready to wait until the last day of my life...sex outside marriage!! oh, may Allah forgive you, I don't even shake hands with females who aren't among my 4 wives.... that's simply HARAM! Allah ..close your eyes for a minute .. oh... no... but that is forbidden... ohh... ohhh...

mikeyspace4691 Joined Tue 02/04/14 Posts: 1862	Fri 03/03/17 03:42 PM Edited by mikeyspace4691 on Fri 03/03/17 03:44 PM
I am going to sound like an old fuddy duddy and a Bible thumper, but that is fine. I believe that premarital sex is wrong. This is just my opinion but I do respect the opinions of others even when they differ from mine. Please don't think less of me because of my beliefs. You are all very wonderful and kind people I believe sex for pleasure is wrong.. Doggie is a sin too.. Morning sex without the intent of making babies, is the devils work.. Those spankins that women pretend to enjoy, are all wrong.. could you two be any cuter together looks like a match made in heaven I'm keepin my virgin.. Been dating her for a while..

no1phD Joined Tue 01/07/14 Posts: 27442	Fri 03/03/17 03:45 PM Edited by no1phD on Fri 03/03/17 03:53 PM
Always so comforting and relaxing talking about intimacy and the lack of it. Expecially When you're not getting any...nooooo.... okay boys and girls treat your partners right or you will find yourselves back here again..fml..

RustyKitty Joined Fri 05/15/15 Posts: 1601	Fri 03/03/17 05:23 PM
I am going to sound like an old fuddy duddy and a Bible thumper, but that is fine. I believe that premarital sex is wrong. This is just my opinion but I do respect the opinions of others even when they differ from mine. Please don't think less of me because of my beliefs. You are all very wonderful and kind people I believe sex for pleasure is wrong.. Doggie is a sin too.. Morning sex without the intent of making babies, is the devils work.. Those spankins that women pretend to enjoy, are all wrong.. OMG - where is the "just kidding" imoge??