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Topic: Dating sites
michael802am's photo
Thu 06/15/17 12:27 AM
Why does it seem that on all of these dating sites it doesn't go any further than a like or a match?

Duttoneer's photo
Fri 06/16/17 12:23 AM

Why does it seem that on all of these dating sites it doesn't go any further than a like or a match?


It could be distance, try more people closer to your home town since most are not wanting someone too far away from where they live.

Funzy65's photo
Fri 06/16/17 01:31 AM
Edited by Funzy65 on Fri 06/16/17 01:33 AM
But wait ...There is more :tongue:
Never expect miracles..Make it your own :wink:
Forums is a way to go waving


rofl rofl rofl

Dodo_David's photo
Fri 06/16/17 06:10 AM

But wait ...There is more :tongue:
Never expect miracles..Make it your own :wink:
Forums is a way to go waving


rofl rofl rofl



Funzy65, you are in my side of the confessional again. :angry:

Funzy65's photo
Sat 06/17/17 10:29 PM
Edited by Funzy65 on Sat 06/17/17 10:36 PM


But wait ...There is more :tongue:
Never expect miracles..Make it your own :wink:
Forums is a way to go waving


rofl rofl rofl



Funzy65, you are in my side of the confessional again. :angry:

*****************************************************

Between you and me Dave, That's my CONFESSION while I'm drinking OKAY ??
I have been here since 2013 or 2014 in silence :wink:
I have seen SINNER/S and CONFESSIONS, ANGELS and EVILS, YOU NAME IT.
I think I have been on a long road but most of all UNSEEN :wink:
And that's NO BULL laugh
Kind Regards from Pepinofruit ?? I THINK :wink:

Pepinofruit's photo
Sat 06/17/17 10:49 PM
Edited by Pepinofruit on Sat 06/17/17 11:46 PM
YUP....This is proof profesor :wink:
CONFESSION IS GOOD 4 DA SOUL laugh
Oh, the guy above is my twin brother :wink:
Don't mind much him, he is harmless laugh
waving ...LOVE YOU ALL..I MEAN SOME ??:wink:
Now !! ...please, don't hit me hard :tongue:


no photo
Sat 06/17/17 11:22 PM
I think you have to actually message people.

Toodygirl5's photo
Tue 12/26/17 03:10 PM

Why does it seem that on all of these dating sites it doesn't go any further than a like or a match?


I've met men from miles away, they travel. Depends on the date site where serious people seek relationships!!!

thebushcutter's photo
Wed 01/03/18 02:10 PM
most sites are CRAP.

Too many men after/trying to message too few women, most women have a far far far greater choice of men to choose from than men to women.

I have found every site the same over the years.

women online-message them-they dont reply or reply weeks later.

can get VERY boring indeed for lots of men, 99% of women will get contacted on their first day whereas 99% of men wont.

i was on POF years ago for 3 years, in that 3 years i was first contacted by WOMEN about 8 times, thats 8 times in 3 years. Most women ive spoke/chatted to get more than that in a day !!!!

AngelHappiness's photo
Wed 01/03/18 03:59 PM

Why does it seem that on all of these dating sites it doesn't go any further than a like or a match?



What's meant to be will always be.. :wink: If your ms right is from a dating site, you will meet her.. if not, maybe she's from the other place (maybe there.. just nearby)... sometimes that right girl comes when you least expect it... so enjoy! :blush::blush::blush:

Toodygirl5's photo
Thu 01/04/18 04:32 PM

Why does it seem that on all of these dating sites it doesn't go any further than a like or a match?



About one third of relationships start online!

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Thu 01/04/18 05:19 PM

Why does it seem that on all of these dating sites it doesn't go any further than a like or a match?


I don't know... are you boring them Mike?

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Fri 01/05/18 03:30 AM

Why does it seem that on all of these dating sites it doesn't go any further than a like or a match?


You need to actually make a move, like messaging/chatting! Start a conversation!

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Fri 01/05/18 07:49 PM
Edited by Charles1962150 on Fri 01/05/18 07:55 PM
I don't mean to sound like I'm bragging. But I've never had a problem getting dates online. There are different ways that I've tried that works. But first, let me say this. There is a part of me that just doesn't care. If I decide to message a woman and she doesn't answer, I don't care. I don't let it bother me either way.

Desperation stinks. And women can smell it a mile away. You will hear a lot of women say that they don't need a man. Do you want to turn them for a flip? When you are just dating, let them think you don't need them. Let them know you can get another one. I've seen a lot of women that like to play the "There are more of you than there are of me" card. And it may be true. But, it doesn't work with me. Don't let it work with you. Don't be cocky. Just confident in your ability to get a woman.

They can "smell" that just as well as they "smell" desperation. The scent of confidence on a man is attractive for every man.

When dating, having a sorta don't care attitude and confidence in yourself, I don't know why, but they just seem to gravitate towards it. Don't misunderstand, when your relationship has turned into something long-term and you love each other, it's different then. You treat her like a queen. You treat her like she is the only one in the world and the best thing that ever happened to you. As long as you are just dating, never let them think they have a hook in you.

Sometimes I sit back and let them come to me. But at the same time, I'm not one bit afraid to strike up a conversation with a woman. In person or on a dating site. I've noticed that many men come to dating sites and seem to think that all they have to do is sit back and wait for the messages to come flooding in. It doesn't always work that way. Some effort on your part is required.

And one last thing that I've seen. And it's a big deal with a lot of women. If you are a little weak on your spelling and grammar, get this, https://www.grammarly.com/ It can help you write better messages. I'm not saying that all women are this way. But many are. If you are a little weak in your spelling and grammar and don't try to do anything to help yourself, it comes off like you don't care if they are able to read what you write or not.

I've seen hundreds of messages that men have written. No woman worth her salt expects a man to be perfect in his writing. Or anything else really. But, with some of the jibberish I've seen, no wonder so many men get ignored when they write.

Mike6615's photo
Fri 01/05/18 07:55 PM
Please do use this and any other dating sites as only ONE source of meeting people. Plenty of outside places you can go to meet. You can start with your interests. Good luck.

mysticalview21's photo
Sat 01/06/18 07:32 AM
Edited by mysticalview21 on Sat 01/06/18 07:33 AM
That's right blame the site op ...not you ... laugh

it is a preference for others to return your message ...

I would not make it all about 1 thing like sites like this ... they may want to get you to pay for more in this site ...


but as long as they have the forums and the cool people ...
in it ... I am good ... no expectations ... there is life besides the web ... maybe get a balance between the two ...

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Sun 01/07/18 06:20 AM
Edited by TxsGal3333 on Sun 01/07/18 06:21 AM

Why does it seem that on all of these dating sites it doesn't go any further than a like or a match?


Hummm cause they both are waiting for the other person to respond. slaphead Or at times they are not really looking..

Can't blame the sites they just put out a platform if the members do not use what is before them then it goes no fartherwhoa

This site is a Social/Dating site so not all are looking... If one site does not do what you expect then there are plenty others out there to try... spock

mnemosyneis's photo
Thu 01/18/18 10:08 AM
It's true - most people chase after the same handful of people (I think some of these are actually fake profiles) over and over. The rest of us, available and willing to communicate are by-passed for lack of whatever.
*sigh*
The advice men like to give to women about being more open to different types, looks, and so on they should take that into consideration themselves.

To OP: people who don't want to meet aren't really available for whatever reason. Might not have anything to do with you.
Nice to see someone around who still believes in face to face communication.
:wink::thumbsup:

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Thu 01/18/18 05:37 PM
Hey,I completely agree..am from Belize by the way..would like to tlk more.

Lebrawn2019's photo
Thu 01/18/18 05:39 PM
Hey,I completely agree..am from Belize by the way..would like to tlk more.

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