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Topic: Qualities of a man..
TMommy's photo
Wed 07/19/17 06:19 AM
come on now
tis only fair and fitting
is it not?

so ladies
what are you looking for in a man?
short? tall?
thin? muscular?
you like your man to ride a bike?
drive a sports car?
what floats your boat?
should he be masculine? caring?
kind? daring?

ya know you got it
that laundry list in your head
of what you are looking for
in a man

Tom4Uhere's photo
Wed 07/19/17 07:15 AM
ME, Pick Me, oh, please, Pick Me
Me, Me, Me
Pick Me!

LeeFranklin's photo
Wed 07/19/17 07:15 AM
I'm out!

SparklingCrystal 💖💎's photo
Wed 07/19/17 07:40 AM
I want him to be masculine, yes.
A few of the masculine/Yang qualities:
active, focus, direction, giving, stable, logic, supporting etc.

What I'm looking for is those things, and confidence, respect, inner balance.
Also able to commit, and has the natural masculine 'provide & protect' trait.

I think those are most important to me, without going into detail as to how why and what.

drowdeylf's photo
Wed 07/19/17 08:13 AM
Lord Have Mercy on Us

We real Men are going to take a proverbial Beating on this one LOL
For IF we ever do have the things "MOST" woman want. They Usually do their Best to DESTROY the relationship.

Yet The FEW whom do not. Are forever Happy.


SO Lets see the ""LAUNDRY"" List that has nothing to do with NATURE and "OUR" True Happiness Ladies!~! The "WE" Couples, of the World, always get a Good chuckle.
Yet what do I know, :flowers;

SparklingCrystal 💖💎's photo
Wed 07/19/17 08:22 AM

Lord Have Mercy on Us

We real Men are going to take a proverbial Beating on this one LOL
For IF we ever do have the things "MOST" woman want. They Usually do their Best to DESTROY the relationship.

Yet The FEW whom do not. Are forever Happy.


SO Lets see the ""LAUNDRY"" List that has nothing to do with NATURE and "OUR" True Happiness Ladies!~! The "WE" Couples, of the World, always get a Good chuckle.
Yet what do I know, :flowers;

From your negative viewpoint, not much tongue2

yellowrose10's photo
Wed 07/19/17 11:41 AM

Lord Have Mercy on Us

We real Men are going to take a proverbial Beating on this one LOL
For IF we ever do have the things "MOST" woman want. They Usually do their Best to DESTROY the relationship.

Yet The FEW whom do not. Are forever Happy.


SO Lets see the ""LAUNDRY"" List that has nothing to do with NATURE and "OUR" True Happiness Ladies!~! The "WE" Couples, of the World, always get a Good chuckle.
Yet what do I know, :flowers;


Hmmmm maybe you missed the topic, started before this, for women.

mysticalview21's photo
Wed 07/19/17 12:34 PM
Edited by mysticalview21 on Wed 07/19/17 12:41 PM
I would say caring to start ... I know this may sound weird ...
but I am looking for someone that is different... haven't put my finger on it yet ... just hope I will know ...
when the time is right for me ... must be a align ... I guess laugh
the humorist kind ...



yellowrose10's photo
Wed 07/19/17 12:36 PM
Going to the OP. I want someone that is honest

TMommy's photo
Wed 07/19/17 01:41 PM
Edited by TMommy on Wed 07/19/17 01:43 PM

Lord Have Mercy on Us

We real Men are going to take a proverbial Beating on this one LOL
For IF we ever do have the things "MOST" woman want. They Usually do their Best to DESTROY the relationship.

Yet The FEW whom do not. Are forever Happy.


SO Lets see the ""LAUNDRY"" List that has nothing to do with NATURE and "OUR" True Happiness Ladies!~! The "WE" Couples, of the World, always get a Good chuckle.
Yet what do I know, :flowers;
if you consider yourself one of the truly happy ones in a relationship that is a 'we' then not sure why you felt need to come into this thread with such derision and hostility


as for my list...mmmmmm..
sense of humor would be a good thing
and certain amount of intelligence
ya he would have to be a good guy

denner38's photo
Wed 07/19/17 01:50 PM
you've got a good taste I must confess

denner38's photo
Wed 07/19/17 01:50 PM
honesty is the best and transparency

peggy122's photo
Thu 07/20/17 07:36 AM
We are all works in progress , including myself so I am hoping to find someone, who is striving to cultivate the following traits as I do the same.

1. Principled including the principle of honesty
2. Great conversation skills
3. not too extreme in the handling of stress and conflict eg It would be really hard to work through relationship issues with someone who shuts down , or turns to unhealthy vices like drugs or gambling as a way out of stress
4 sense of humor
5 self awareness
6 a relatively healthy ego eg confidence
7 relative consistency in mood and behavior
8 zest for their individual goals , dreams, life
9 general acceptance of other's differences
10flexibility ie not too rigid in expectations as life is unpredictable

I wish my list was shorter, but Im learning that if both the person and I dont have or develop these traits, that the relationship is not likely to last or thrive





finding17's photo
Thu 07/20/17 09:32 AM
I want someone who will be my best friend,is honest and has a sense of humor.

IgorFrankensteen's photo
Thu 07/20/17 09:52 AM
I continue to be amused, that despite millions of years on this planet together, and at least thousands of those years with shared spoken and written languages, that men and women still to this day, have entirely different SENSIBILITIES as to what concepts such as "masculine" and "feminine" mean, especially in detail.

no photo
Thu 07/20/17 03:36 PM
Edited by Unknow on Thu 07/20/17 03:36 PM
USDA Grade E: Not for commercial or public use.

peggy122's photo
Thu 07/20/17 04:20 PM
Regarding this particular topic, it just occurred to me that the things that we are looking for in the opposite sex that excite us the most, are not always the qualities that help a relationship thrive in the longterm...

... but in the moment it can make you feel so enraptured love

no1phD's photo
Thu 07/20/17 04:24 PM
Well speaking strictly for myself as a man of the ages... I can think of one or two or three qualities.. one big quality comes to mind for myself....lol... wait a minute!!.. runs to the bathroom looks at his behind in the mirror..ok.. make that two good qualities. Come to mine...lol....

no1phD's photo
Thu 07/20/17 04:42 PM
Oh yeah I almost forgot we're pretty handy at opening stuck jars.... Mighty Mouse )))))))Mighty Mouse)))))) to the rescue))))))))

Lol

no1phD's photo
Thu 07/20/17 04:43 PM
But I must say when she hands me this stuck jar.. I always say quietly to myself..
Please dear God!! give me the strength to open this jar ..so I don't look like a weakling in front of my woman...lmao..

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