Cavier or sandwiches, big difference. If she wants your bank card..time to move on.

heaven forbid she actually do so for herself as that would mean she is self sufficient and we all know women are weak and helpless creatures that need men to provide for them as its a big cruel world and that is just too much work LOL

You worded it wrong by saying "Offered". You dont "Offer" money for affection of a woman. You secure your person for your family. You sacrifice for your family to make the next generation better then you.

See the difference?

Money means nothing in a relationship as a whole. Your mate should understand that wells do run dry. You cannot allow this to happen. You have to look at the overall picture if you have a family. Money does not buy love or make love...It makes life more oomfy, nothing more. YOU live and work to PASS your legacy, not to have it taken away on materialism.

I care less about wearing Polo,,,if you know what a good stitch in a shirt is you can get one at half the price.

Get it?

So should your partner in life.

ofcourse.. financial stability is one of the basis nowadays,its not only seeking for a guy u dream about but looking forward in the future if he can provide on the table,

remember choosing your partner in life is choosing your future.

Actually some women do lol

Hummm... and maybe it is not your lack of money keeping them away~~~ just saying~~

Well, I'm by no means a bum, but I'm not financially stable. SSI isn't much to live on, and if you can't work you're totally limited to just that. I would hope, and I have hopes, that there is someone out there that will accept me for who I am with all my flaws and limitations and not for the size of my bank account. I'm starting to wonder.

I have never looked for financial comforts from a man, but I really need him to be capable of taking care of himself at least.

Due to several legitimate circumstances however, some women do need financial assistance from their mates to survive so their financial standing would matter in the relationship

I have no problem taking care of myself at the moment, if I had to pay rent by myself I'd be screwed. But in my current situation I'm doing OK for myself.

All I can say is.... show me the money.
Let me !help you!! help me!!..lol

Alot of people get assistance in some way to pay their mortgage or rent Stuball. You are definitely not alone there . Its the times we live in

...and the stability of the relationship you could ever provide as well.No one and nobody in the right mind wants a douchebag persona.#justsaying#

Thanks peggy, but it's not who I am..I really don't like it. I've worked since I was 15, actually before that if you count lawn mowing, and worked hard jobs too, it took its toll. I didn't have a choice but to file for disability. After being out of work 6 years and no one would hire me because of my limitations and I was to big of a liability. Still, I don't like it.

i would and i don c why a girl wouldnt. at the end everything boils down to one's preferences, priorities, and plans. acting out of pure emotion, aka love , would be the weakest way to decide what to do in the future.

For me yes!! Don't want a poor man and with much debt.

When I got married ( at 18) We had.. nothing.. but we did love each other very much. We built our life and with that came money.. from hard work... both of us.

But today, I think more emphasis is put on financial security first. I know women who will ask a guy what his credit score is??.. unheard of back then

I didn't even know what a credit score was.. because I had no credit Lol.