Topic: Young blood vs older blood
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Sun 10/15/17 07:35 PM
Research has shown that time & again, as the days go by, younger men tend to be more attracted to older ladies.

I personally feel that way too, because unlike our age mates, most of maturer people know what they want & don't have the time to beat around the bush.

Younger women nowadays think carrying politicized views into a relationship is gonna help with it. Lol, no. It won't. Neither will airing a relationship's dirty laundry on social media. Which seems to be a rising trend.

It's not an attack on younger ladies. Most of us witness a rising number in people cheating, with social media dictating the terms of their relationships...no man wants that. Maybe there are anyways. (This goes both ways. Men, ladies)

A sense of traditional values, but with a flair of modernity makes a perfect match.

Just my opinion. Don't come too hard at me:wink:

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Sun 10/15/17 07:45 PM
Thanks for sharing. I will meditate on this. smokin

motowndowntown's photo
Sun 10/15/17 08:19 PM
Geez, young guy looking for older lady to, uh, share mutual, uh, interests with. That's a subject we hardly ever see around here.

IgorFrankensteen's photo
Mon 10/16/17 04:16 AM
It's a challenging conundrum to try to see with perspective, from a point of inexperience and youth.

Some things seem very clear, but it may be that the view is only unobstructed, because there isn't very much territory behind you to look back on and draw conclusions from.

Dodo_David's photo
Mon 10/16/17 04:33 AM

Research has shown that time & again, as the days go by, younger men tend to be more attracted to older ladies.


I would like to know the source of this so-called "research".

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Mon 10/16/17 04:06 PM

Thanks for sharing. I will meditate on this. smokin

rofl rofl rofl

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Sun 11/05/17 12:39 AM
I certainly find myself attracted to older women however older women seem reluctant to date younger men. The reason is understandable that two people can be at different stages and most people prefer someone at a similar age but for some it can work out.

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Sun 11/05/17 01:41 AM
Edited by angelflow on Sun 11/05/17 01:44 AM

Research has shown that time & again, as the days go by, younger men tend to be more attracted to older ladies.

I personally feel that way too, because unlike our age mates, most of maturer people know what they want & don't have the time to beat around the bush.

Younger women nowadays think carrying politicized views into a relationship is gonna help with it. Lol, no. It won't. Neither will airing a relationship's dirty laundry on social media. Which seems to be a rising trend.

It's not an attack on younger ladies. Most of us witness a rising number in people cheating, with social media dictating the terms of their relationships...no man wants that. Maybe there are anyways. (This goes both ways. Men, ladies)

A sense of traditional values, but with a flair of modernity makes a perfect match.

Just my opinion. Don't come too hard at me:wink:


As an "older lady" who keeps getting messaged by men way too young, like even in their late teens and early 20's, I have always been very curious about this, and openly mistrustful and skeptical. One thing I often ask these guys is why on earth are they interested in someone so old. I never believe their answer. I tell them to go find some young, pretty girl in their own age.

I find it hard enough to trust men in my own age group and older, never mind a young guy who would probably dump me the second a pretty young thing walked by. I find it very hard to believe that men in their 20's and into their 30's would never have any serious intentions with me and I've been through too much hell to waste a lot of time getting toyed with, whether due to a guy who just hasn't lived enough life to know himself, or because he is just consciously messing around.

As for research, I don't need research. All the proof I need has been coming in my inbox on a vast array of different social sites for the past five years. I get more messages from young guys than from men in my own age group.

SparklingCrystal 💖💎's photo
Sun 11/05/17 02:22 AM
Edited by SparklingCrystal 💖💎 on Sun 11/05/17 02:23 AM


Research has shown that time & again, as the days go by, younger men tend to be more attracted to older ladies.

I personally feel that way too, because unlike our age mates, most of maturer people know what they want & don't have the time to beat around the bush.

Younger women nowadays think carrying politicized views into a relationship is gonna help with it. Lol, no. It won't. Neither will airing a relationship's dirty laundry on social media. Which seems to be a rising trend.

It's not an attack on younger ladies. Most of us witness a rising number in people cheating, with social media dictating the terms of their relationships...no man wants that. Maybe there are anyways. (This goes both ways. Men, ladies)

A sense of traditional values, but with a flair of modernity makes a perfect match.

Just my opinion. Don't come too hard at me:wink:


As an "older lady" who keeps getting messaged by men way too young, like even in their late teens and early 20's, I have always been very curious about this, and openly mistrustful and skeptical. One thing I often ask these guys is why on earth are they interested in someone so old. I never believe their answer. I tell them to go find some young, pretty girl in their own age.

I find it hard enough to trust men in my own age group and older, never mind a young guy who would probably dump me the second a pretty young thing walked by. I find it very hard to believe that men in their 20's and into their 30's would never have any serious intentions with me and I've been through too much hell to waste a lot of time getting toyed with, whether due to a guy who just hasn't lived enough life to know himself, or because he is just consciously messing around.

As for research, I don't need research. All the proof I need has been coming in my inbox on a vast array of different social sites for the past five years. I get more messages from young guys than from men in my own age group.

I doubt they see 'older' women as relationship material. Did you know most young guys' bucket-list states:
- Sex with older woman

It's just another box they want tick on their list. Why it strokes their ego, I haven't a clue. I wouldn't have thought it to be something to boast about. Although it must be quite the ego boost to hear and notice that they perform so much better than their older counterparts. Cos let's be honest, men over 40-45 lack in that area.
The only reason I can see for an 'older' woman to get involved with a younger man is his still fully functional penis.
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Sun 11/05/17 02:43 AM


I doubt they see 'older' women as relationship material. Did you know most young guys' bucket-list states:
- Sex with older woman

It's just another box they want tick on their list. Why it strokes their ego, I haven't a clue. I wouldn't have thought it to be something to boast about. Although it must be quite the ego boost to hear and notice that they perform so much better than their older counterparts. Cos let's be honest, men over 40-45 lack in that area.
The only reason I can see for an 'older' woman to get involved with a younger man is his still fully functional penis.


Well, I didn't know that about the bucket-list. I just assume from the get-go all any guy wants from me is sex, since I have so little evidence to the contrary. I would say that as far as guys online, maybe 99% of them who contact me (and I answer) invariably try to veer the conversation in that direction, either from the first message, or after a short attempt at an introduction, and then vanish when they realize I won't

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Sun 11/05/17 03:38 AM
You are only looking at the positives. What about the negatives. Older women have cats and are crazy.

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Sun 11/05/17 03:42 AM

You are only looking at the positives. What about the negatives. Older women have cats and are crazy.


rofl rofl

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Sun 11/05/17 06:54 AM
Edited by angelflow on Sun 11/05/17 06:56 AM

You are only looking at the positives. What about the negatives. Older women have cats and are crazy.


Pffft! I don't have cats! ;-)

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Sun 11/05/17 07:02 AM
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