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I have been on here for awhile now and it seems that once you have told the other person a little about yourself then they don"t seem to be interested. I have to be upfront when replying back, I tell the person that I am on disability and the type of disability that I have which is bi-polar disorder and that I live with family. and I leave it up to them to decide if they want to continue
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I have been on here for awhile now and it seems that once you have told the other person a little about yourself then they don"t seem to be interested. I have to be upfront when replying back, I tell the person that I am on disability and the type of disability that I have which is bipolar disorder and that I live with family. and I leave it up to them to decide if they want to continue What I'm about to say is not meant to be mean. I'm just being honest. Most times it's best to not let out your personal medical conditions right off the top to strangers. When you do, you will be thrown in the barrel of the undatable. People are judgemental. Especially when they don't know you. The smartest thing I can tell you to do, don't lie and don't try to hide. You are who you are. But at the same time, don't overwhelm potential dates by telling too much too soon. When you say"bipolar" to soon, A person gets spooked and they run. Give them a chance to get to know you a little. If you get a chance to, go out with them a time or two. See if you even like them. Or if they like you. After a date or two, tell them the truth. If they walk, let them walk. If this person does, he wasn't meant for you anyway. If you don't tell to much to soon, you stand a better chance of them hanging around for a while. Be ready for it if they don't. |
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I have been on here for awhile now and it seems that once you have told the other person a little about yourself then they don"t seem to be interested. I have to be upfront when replying back, I tell the person that I am on disability and the type of disability that I have which is bipolar disorder and that I live with family. and I leave it up to them to decide if they want to continue What I'm about to say is not meant to be mean. I'm just being honest. Most times it's best to not let out your personal medical conditions right off the top to strangers. When you do, you will be thrown in the barrel of the undatable. People are judgemental. Especially when they don't know you. The smartest thing I can tell you to do, don't lie and don't try to hide. You are who you are. But at the same time, don't overwhelm potential dates by telling too much too soon. When you say"bipolar" to soon, A person gets spooked and they run. Give them a chance to get to know you a little. If you get a chance to, go out with them a time or two. See if you even like them. Or if they like you. After a date or two, tell them the truth. If they walk, let them walk. If this person does, he wasn't meant for you anyway. If you don't tell to much to soon, you stand a better chance of them hanging around for a while. Be ready for it if they don't. I certain this  some human beings does not show compasion at all and this is so sad
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I have been on here for awhile now and it seems that once you have told the other person a little about yourself then they don"t seem to be interested. I have to be upfront when replying back, I tell the person that I am on disability and the type of disability that I have which is bipolar disorder and that I live with family. and I leave it up to them to decide if they want to continue What I'm about to say is not meant to be mean. I'm just being honest. Most times it's best to not let out your personal medical conditions right off the top to strangers. When you do, you will be thrown in the barrel of the undatable. People are judgemental. Especially when they don't know you. The smartest thing I can tell you to do, don't lie and don't try to hide. You are who you are. But at the same time, don't overwhelm potential dates by telling too much too soon. When you say"bipolar" to soon, A person gets spooked and they run. Give them a chance to get to know you a little. If you get a chance to, go out with them a time or two. See if you even like them. Or if they like you. After a date or two, tell them the truth. If they walk, let them walk. If this person does, he wasn't meant for you anyway. If you don't tell to much to soon, you stand a better chance of them hanging around for a while. Be ready for it if they don't. I certain this some human beings does not show compasion at all and this is so sad I also agree with Charles and Nofearinlove. Some may assume another’s medical issues would be problematic before they have a chance to know you. No one expects to know your whole story before they’ve even began to learn who you are. We all have complexities, but they are usually only a small part of who we are. It’s really none’s business until the time they’ve expressed an interest. After that, you will feel when the time to discuss your and their complexities. 
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I do that.
I put it all out there and wait for the one that can accept me as I am. It breaks a lot of connections but if they can't deal with my reality, why waste time? I'm not desperate and extremely decisive to the type of personality I seek. When I do find the right woman, she will be interesed in me despite my health issues. |
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I have been on here for awhile now and it seems that once you have told the other person a little about yourself then they don"t seem to be interested. I have to be upfront when replying back, I tell the person that I am on disability and the type of disability that I have which is bipolar disorder and that I live with family. and I leave it up to them to decide if they want to continue What I'm about to say is not meant to be mean. I'm just being honest. Most times it's best to not let out your personal medical conditions right off the top to strangers. When you do, you will be thrown in the barrel of the undatable. People are judgemental. Especially when they don't know you. The smartest thing I can tell you to do, don't lie and don't try to hide. You are who you are. But at the same time, don't overwhelm potential dates by telling too much too soon. When you say"bipolar" to soon, A person gets spooked and they run. Give them a chance to get to know you a little. If you get a chance to, go out with them a time or two. See if you even like them. Or if they like you. After a date or two, tell them the truth. If they walk, let them walk. If this person does, he wasn't meant for you anyway. If you don't tell to much to soon, you stand a better chance of them hanging around for a while. Be ready for it if they don't. I certain this some human beings does not show compasion at all and this is so sad I also agree with Charles and Nofearinlove. Some may assume another’s medical issues would be problematic before they have a chance to know you. No one expects to know your whole story before they’ve even began to learn who you are. We all have complexities, but they are usually only a small part of who we are. It’s really none’s business until the time they’ve expressed an interest. After that, you will feel when the time to discuss your and their complexities. Yes...this is good advice... |
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I do that. I put it all out there and wait for the one that can accept me as I am. It breaks a lot of connections but if they can't deal with my reality, why waste time? I'm not desperate and extremely decisive to the type of personality I seek. When I do find the right woman, she will be interesed in me despite my health issues. I agree with this rather than the rest of the comments so far. |
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I agree with Charles!
Well said. |
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I do that. I put it all out there and wait for the one that can accept me as I am. It breaks a lot of connections but if they can't deal with my reality, why waste time? I'm not desperate and extremely decisive to the type of personality I seek. When I do find the right woman, she will be interesed in me despite my health issues. Good Golly 'Ms Molly!' I too would lay it all out, truth will out in the end. And women get a LOT more indications of interest than men do, tis good to weed a little before sorting through them. You go MS MOLLY :-) |
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Able bodied men do not want a disabled woman. They want someone that can support themselves.....believe me when I tell you that not making an income killed my marriage....I was considered a freeloader. Best of luck to you!
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Those that accept you for how special you are , are the ones worth keeping. Good luck and blessings to you
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Hi
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Not true.
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