Topic: cougar/ cubs
Jay_915's photo
Mon 03/19/18 01:07 AM
is it bad that im into older women and im a senoir in highschool ?

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Mon 03/19/18 06:42 AM
No

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Mon 03/19/18 07:04 AM
It isn't "bad" but it isn't good for you either.
You're only complicating your life by wanting an older woman. Life is already complicated as it is as to want to take on more needless complications.
And consider this. An older woman who would accept you, as young as you are, as a companion/lover must already have serious psychological issues to deal with and wanting to go out with someone who can be her son may only be the tip of her skewed psychology and values.
Those who say "Age is just a number" wouldn't consider dating someone much much older or younger than themselves. They just don't care what you do with your life and prefer to give you platitudes than an answer born out of reason and decency. Don't listen to them, they are full of it.
Examine your own reasons for wanting to go out with an older woman and talk to your father, brother, sister about it. If you don't want to talk about it to your family then it's proof that deep down inside you know that sort of thing isn't to be seriously considered.
On the other hand, it's your life and you can waste it anywhich way you like.
Good luck to you, young man.

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Mon 03/19/18 07:16 AM
Edited by JanDarling on Mon 03/19/18 07:16 AM
I agree with Rooster in that asking about it probably tells you you’re not really confident with your own thoughts about it.

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Mon 03/19/18 07:17 AM
Humm honestly most likely you have been told to find a cougar to be with...Honestly they find you if they are interested....

Truth is don't go with a woman that you would not take home to your mom/dad......

But then if you are attracted to older women that could be your mom's age that is up to you..

But don't listen to all the hoopla that older women will teach you all you want to know... Sure some will but...there are down sides to what things will be like...

Never follow the masses take away the M and yea your following the wrong crowds advice~~~whoa slaphead

Good luck in what ever you choose... my advice to you is finish school get into your trade and enjoy life with those you enjoy spending time with and will take around your family/friends....

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Mon 03/19/18 07:18 AM
Not at all, just think of the benefits......none come to mind at the moment though

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Mon 03/19/18 09:40 AM

is it bad that im into older women and im a senoir in highschool ?


It's a young boys fantasy. You'll grow out of it when you mature.
Now turn off the computer and go and do your English homework.

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Mon 03/19/18 09:49 AM
Edited by yellowrose10 on Mon 03/19/18 09:49 AM
Depends on age (legality)

Also, an older woman doesn't always equal mature. Hell I am 47 and feel like I am still in high school with people my age. Years doesn't equal maturity or even experience

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Mon 03/19/18 09:58 AM

is it bad that im into older women and im a senoir in highschool ?


I was the same like you at high school, it's not a phase as you will find you like the mature ones even when you leave high school even when you are 40. However I would not ignore opportunities of a good relationship with a woman within your own age range even though you like older women as it is difficult enough to find someone that matches to your liking in personality.

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Mon 03/19/18 06:13 PM
Edited by Toodygirl5 on Mon 03/19/18 06:15 PM
shocked maybe 1 or 2,yrs older