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Topic: How do you know he is the right one
scepticalsoulmate Joined Wed 08/24/16 Posts: 9737	Fri 03/30/18 04:38 PM
Men who immediately want to chat out from the site and asks you about your job and the ones who are widows and in the military or professionals but doesn’t chat that way... these people are not real. Well from my experience. Good luck Sorry I answered the opposite didn’t realise till now you will never know on line if he’s the right one or not. Heck even if you meet personally you can never be too sure too. The ultimate tool is time and I guess the rings on both your fingers in front of an officiating person? But then even that does not guarantee him to be the right one. We have to be the right person ourselves first

Tom4Uhere Joined Sat 12/17/16 Posts: 16240	Fri 03/30/18 09:12 PM
How do you know he is the right one When he recognizes, acknowledges and respects you being you. And...He still wants to be with you...

Piscesmoon02 Joined Wed 11/02/16 Posts: 56490	Sat 03/31/18 02:56 AM
How do you know he is the right one When he recognizes, acknowledges and respects you being you. And...He still wants to be with you... Good answer! And vice versa!

Serchin4MyRedWine Joined Thu 02/22/07 Posts: 3483	Sat 03/31/18 03:54 AM
Well first the person asking this question has to be real and not a scammer LOL

Gs2Awesome Joined Wed 07/01/15 Posts: 85	Sat 03/31/18 01:54 PM
You'll never know. It's about taking a risk and seeing how it plays out.

Piscesmoon02 Joined Wed 11/02/16 Posts: 56490	Sat 03/31/18 02:37 PM
Well first the person asking this question has to be real and not a scammer LOL Exactly, LOL!

DaveakaDavid Joined Fri 03/03/17 Posts: 76	Sat 03/31/18 02:51 PM
Men who immediately want to chat out from the site and asks you about your job and the ones who are widows and in the military or professionals but doesn’t chat that way... these people are not real. Well from my experience. Good luck Sorry I answered the opposite didn’t realise till now you will never know on line if he’s the right one or not. Heck even if you meet personally you can never be too sure too. The ultimate tool is time and I guess the rings on both your fingers in front of an officiating person? But then even that does not guarantee him to be the right one. We have to be the right person ourselves first Yes it takes time to know.

Toodygirl5 Joined Fri 10/26/12 Posts: 14437	Sat 03/31/18 03:03 PM
When I say he is!!!

shengyou Joined Sun 02/18/18 Posts: 1	Sat 03/31/18 11:39 PM
helloo

Lammmm2017 Joined Fri 06/16/17 Posts: 4	Sat 05/05/18 07:16 AM
if they only ask for FUN, its not right

AngelHappiness Joined Sat 11/11/17 Posts: 1109	Sat 05/05/18 07:37 AM
You will know through constant chat.. if he's respecting you.. if he's making an effort to be closer to you.. if he's giving you time despite of his busy sched... If you meet him in real and your feelings still don't change :)... if he's investing time to know you.. if he's showing care and concern.. if you're jiving.. if there's chemistry... Hehe lots of if... :D good luck to your search :) :) :) time will tell and your heart will also tell if he's the right one

MrBeeKeeper Joined Mon 05/02/16 Posts: 6906	Sat 05/05/18 12:24 PM
Guess OP doesn't want to know .. she's DEACTIVATED!

AngelHappiness Joined Sat 11/11/17 Posts: 1109	Sun 05/06/18 03:43 AM
Guess OP doesn't want to know .. she's DEACTIVATED! Omg

mysticalview21 Joined Sat 06/28/14 Posts: 5462	Sun 05/06/18 06:57 AM
I think if you have Chemistry for the Man and he is who makes you smile and he stands out as someone you want to spend time with, then he is the one. However, a woman can feel this way about More than one man online. Key is, meet in Person and date. That is when you know. meet in Person and date. That is when you know.... and if they do not want this ... it is a red flag ... their telling you B/S ....

Awatersign Joined Wed 01/22/14 Posts: 3185	Sun 05/06/18 06:56 PM
sometimes it makes me go crazy,seeing all these guys,i mean a lot of them,telling me a particular thing while in conversation with me.How am i suppose to know who is real not. Confused I honestly don't think you ever know,some people be involve with more than one person and tell um all the same things,you may be sure in your own mind it's the right one,only to find out 10-15 years or more they been cheating on you,I think you just have to take a chance with someone you feel comfortable with and try build something,and be willing to go through the good and the bad,and make sure there are things like respect,communication,ect present,and trust is a funny thing,be careful putting all your trust in them,because the more trust you put in them,the more it's going to hurt if they cheat or whatever!

UmerRoy Joined Sun 05/13/18 Posts: 1	Mon 05/14/18 02:28 AM
I’m okay with you

princess2450 Joined Tue 09/20/16 Posts: 115	Mon 05/14/18 04:20 AM
You are soooo right, that is exactly how that game is played..... I have been down that road a few times, so sad.... Unfortunately it is rampant here....

Easttowest72 Joined Tue 04/24/18 Posts: 2169	Mon 05/14/18 08:11 AM
Time will tell. You have to see someone in different situations to know who they are truly.

undrboss Joined Tue 04/24/18 Posts: 522	Mon 05/14/18 08:17 AM
sometimes it makes me go crazy,seeing all these guys,i mean a lot of them,telling me a particular thing while in conversation with me.How am i suppose to know who is real not. Confused spending time with them is a start, actions dictate, I dont place value in what a person says compared to what they do.

SacritanII Joined Sat 04/28/18 Posts: 126	Mon 05/14/18 06:48 PM
Darned if I know. I just figured that one day you would know or break up.