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Topic: Mature man looking for mature woman, why is it so difficult
ferenczhucker1957 Joined Mon 01/26/15 Posts: 19	Thu 05/31/18 02:32 AM
A little too unique I guess, being a mature single father is so hard on here, sadly the women who I’m into are mature and I find they don’t want the kids, they’ve been there, done that and want something a little different than what I have to offer I guess ?. Been on here for 4 years now and had no success in meeting that special someone, no false allusions, I’m not a stud, lol, but I’m no ugly duckling either, so, it’s back to my original thought, I’m a father to a young child, my curse as I’m seeing it, but I wouldn’t change it for the world, so do you here see this too, I value others opinions, thanks, Ferry.

eric22t Joined Wed 08/13/14 Posts: 27928	Mon 06/04/18 02:14 PM
breathe k breathe

greeneyes148 Joined Fri 12/25/15 Posts: 5830	Mon 06/04/18 02:20 PM
I feel for you, tough situation. I don't know how you do it at that age. Mine are grown and out. It was great and I wouldn't change it for the world.. but.. I would rather take header off a bridge then do it again

eric22t Joined Wed 08/13/14 Posts: 27928	Mon 06/04/18 02:20 PM
Apparently i have no imagination. I was gonna say youre a smidge short. i think it's the glasses he needs smexier ones op i would suggest more time in the real world doing stuffs with the light of your life and maybe bump into a like minded parent

Blondey111 Joined Sun 01/27/13 Posts: 8900	Mon 06/04/18 03:31 PM
Ferry .. it is difficult .. but dating is difficult for many .. with or without children .. don't despair .. stay positive .. increase your circle of friends ..find the time to have some alone time .. time just for you to indulge in what you enjoy .. often the best place to meet someone is through a shared interest . Your daughter is beautiful and I am sure she is a great joy for you

Easttowest72 Joined Tue 04/24/18 Posts: 2169	Mon 06/04/18 04:06 PM
She is a very beautiful girl. I have a 10 year old grandson

Two Joined Thu 06/02/16 Posts: 13917	Mon 06/04/18 04:53 PM
Just maybe it could be he and his wife were older when they got pregnant and she then passed away for some reason that is not known to us... Plenty of people in their 50's are having kids so this is not rare... Ferry, best of luck finding that special someone. You will find them someday.

TxsGal3333 Joined Tue 09/05/06 Posts: 76352	Tue 06/05/18 06:44 AM
We have deleted several post and edited some due to attacking. This forum is for giving advice for certain situations dealing with parenting. It is not to dish/attack/insult others.. Forum Admin Kristi

Tom4Uhere Joined Sat 12/17/16 Posts: 16240	Wed 09/12/18 06:29 PM
Hi Ferry, I can empathise with your problem because people are hard to please and some expect more than we can give. When you do find the right person, all the waiting will be in the past. The way I see it, there's only one woman I need to find. She may be here or she may not be but it will only take one. When you find her, the struggles you deal with looking for her will be gone. Hopefully we will both choose wisely and never have to look again. Keep looking and don't give up.

tessa68 Joined Sun 10/01/06 Posts: 1699	Mon 09/24/18 06:55 AM
I think AGE is just a number,not all older people act according to their age,hoping you will find someone with a good character.

Happyolegal Joined Thu 09/20/18 Posts: 123	Tue 09/25/18 11:35 AM
Wow your daughter is such a lil cutie. I'm thinking just keep spending time with her n the right lady will find you!

(1rin12 =line rinskie2 =Instagram Joined Wed 01/02/19 Posts: 140	Wed 01/23/19 07:00 AM
i guess everything happened for a reason.. be patient.. and waitfor right time comes

Pawan Joined Sat 01/12/19 Posts: 5	Thu 01/24/19 10:14 AM
yes

sandytrent4 Joined Fri 05/23/14 Posts: 2	Thu 01/31/19 01:46 AM
Breath

FeelYoung Joined Sat 08/25/18 Posts: 860	Thu 01/31/19 10:54 PM
I would take the child to places where you might meet single women with kids. Playgrounds, zoos, museums, historical sites, fast food places -but go inside to sit and eat. Ride a bike with her around your neighborhood. Does she have any friends with single moms? ask one of them to help you plan a spring party, birthday party, 4th of july party, anything to interact and let the kids have fun. My father was 45 and mom 40 when I was born. I never realized they were older than my friends parents because we did so many great things. Join a community garden and take your child with you to plant or weed, with an extra tool for a woman who might show up with questions. Go to an evening Bible study where children are in another room, might be a single mom in the study group. Try to be inventive. Maybe single women without children will not be keen on raising a child, but a blended family would work.

mtrfun Joined Mon 02/06/17 Posts: 3	Thu 05/09/19 12:12 PM
I agree with you

Liz Joined Fri 02/22/19 Posts: 124	Thu 05/09/19 02:09 PM
I doubt it is your daughter that's the issue. I'd guess most women would want a taller man.

princess2450 Joined Tue 09/20/16 Posts: 115	Fri 05/10/19 05:35 AM
I would take the child to places where you might meet single women with kids. Playgrounds, zoos, museums, historical sites, fast food places -but go inside to sit and eat. Ride a bike with her around your neighborhood. Does she have any friends with single moms? ask one of them to help you plan a spring party, birthday party, 4th of july party, anything to interact and let the kids have fun. My father was 45 and mom 40 when I was born. I never realized they were older than my friends parents because we did so many great things. Join a community garden and take your child with you to plant or weed, with an extra tool for a woman who might show up with questions. Go to an evening Bible study where children are in another room, might be a single mom in the study group. Try to be inventive. Maybe single women without children will not be keen on raising a child, but a blended family would work. All very valid and useful suggestions. Thank you.

ivegotthegirth Joined Fri 08/17/18 Posts: 6666	Fri 05/10/19 07:42 PM
I would take the child to places where you might meet single women with kids. Playgrounds, zoos, museums, historical sites, fast food places -but go inside to sit and eat. Ride a bike with her around your neighborhood. Does she have any friends with single moms? ask one of them to help you plan a spring party, birthday party, 4th of july party, anything to interact and let the kids have fun. My father was 45 and mom 40 when I was born. I never realized they were older than my friends parents because we did so many great things. Join a community garden and take your child with you to plant or weed, with an extra tool for a woman who might show up with questions. Go to an evening Bible study where children are in another room, might be a single mom in the study group. Try to be inventive. Maybe single women without children will not be keen on raising a child, but a blended family would work. All very valid and useful suggestions. Thank you. Yeah and get a few inches taller damn it!

guri Joined Mon 05/13/19 Posts: 1	Tue 05/14/19 12:08 AM
Ferry .. it is difficult .. but dating is difficult for many .. with or without children .. don't despair .. stay positive .. increase your circle of friends ..find the time to have some alone time .. time just for you to indulge in what you enjoy .. often the best place to meet someone is through a shared interest . Your daughter is beautiful and I am sure she is a great joy for you