Hello I'm currently looking for a relationship I can build on but these days and ages. Its really hard to find. Either she think you only want sex, or she only wants sex or money. Its like we forgot about the heart. Do love exist or is it really in fairy tales.

love seems to be turning into a commodity…

What I just learned is you need to question those notions right from the get-go. If you don't ask about something they will not volunteer information. Because I did not ask this guy if he had a girlfriend or if he was in any type of relationship, he did not reveal this information until the next day when he sends a message to my mailbox of his real status. This was a person who insisted on honesty...yeah right . I am in the same quandary when it comes to finding a true man. Still weeding the garden.

Remember we have entered a new age with social media and other new technologies.

Gone are the days where romance and courting was a part of life , and getting married and starting a family was the goal.

Marxist, leftist and 3rd wave feminists have indoctrinated society into thinking, marriage is archaic , sex should be done when ever you feel like it, if you want want to meet someone on the first date and go back to their place and bang all night its fine.

Today its all about me, me and me.

I feel sorry for the people who truly want to meet someone to settle down with because they have to weed through the players, headcases, those looking to bang every thing in sight.

I wish you the best of luck and have patience.

Hmmm.. A very complex issue.

While I ponder a correct solution, please forward over to me the names and contact info for the ones who just want sex.

Fairy tales can come true
It can happen to you if you're young at heart
For it's hard, you will find
To be narrow of mind if you're young at heart

... oops that's for elderly people like me

For women who think you only want sex.. well prove them wrong.
For women who want sex or money.. invest on condoms and tell them you don't have money. If they still want to have sex with you, your investment in condoms would come in handy.

Does love exist? Yes it does. So keep on looking.

my two cents

how much will you pay me?

i gots 2 nickels and a life saver

That's far more than some of the men I've met.

hang on i got's a bottle here with a worm at the bottom i'll share too

Rumi the poet says that “Your task is not to seek for love, but merely to seek and find all the barriers within yourself that you have built against it.” ...


So everyday that you remain single is another opportunity to work on you and your life physically,spiritually intellectually, emotionally, professionally, financially etc to attract the kind of woman you seek .

Ps: And don't forget the amount of love, joy and investment you give to yourself and your life in your bachelorhood, will be a blueprint for the quality of love you will attract from that lady you are hoping for.

Good luck!

I'm sure that's what got me into trouble with my tequila event. LOL

I'm a good bloke who wants to make a special woman smile x

It's been said before, but bears repeating. People haven't really changed, and the patterns of love haven't really changed overall.

What does seem to happen to everyone (who isn't born rich, or who get rich very early and easily), is that when we are young, all it takes is basic attraction, and a little bit of fun, to fall in love. All the romantic ideas about "making it work," and "love makes everything possible" seem to make sense, because no one really knows enough about the trials and travails of real life yet.

After we get run through the Realty Meat Grinder, most people start to make extra stipulations. Yeah, attraction is a given, we don't focus on that as something to talk about anymore, not because it ISN'T important, but because we wont even start to talk about anything else if that isn't there already.

I know at my age, that sexual compatibility is MUCH more important to figure out, not because I'm more sexual than I was as a kid, but because now I know (from experience) how tricky it is to find functional compatibility.

Many people just want a relationship FWB. Which is not really always a Real friendship. This is a norm for many the last decade or more.
Especially Online.
Meeting in person spending time together is dating, which could. Lead to a healthy. relationshipp.

How disappointing,no wonder you haven't contacted me,I thought you were looking for a man

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well, there's always tomorrow's relationship

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This is a fairy tale, you won't find here. Otherwise Love is real and exists.