nobody's answering me back or messaging me back what am I doing wrong

Perhaps nothing. Perhaps everything.

The one thing to keep in mind, is that no one is required to respond. That, and people have lives, so they might not have seen your message if they haven't been back on since you sent a message.

Listen to scoob!
Also might want to lose the sunglasses in your main profile pic.
Ladies prefer to see your eyes. Those glasses make people think you're hiding something.

To look at your profile you've made the classic mistake in most all of your pictures. For most of the women, sunglasses and no shirt are an instant turnoff.

Plus, very little said about yourself. All of this = no response.

Show them your abs,... drives them crazy.

Well it kind of looks like you're wearing lipstick in that pic

if so, may I suggest a darker rouge?

Ok, I didn't see the sun glass picture. You look so serious now. You have on your profile wanting an activity partner to hangout with and do whatever but who cares. What girl wants that? Change that.

I agree with cat... add more about yourself and what you're looking for in an activity partner.

I usually get responses from Men I email here on Mingle2 . They live cross country from me. Many profiles are not active! Look see when they were last online.


I love activity partners they are the best ! However, I do not meet them online.

I prefer to meet Men in my city. There is no explanation just being friends and enjoy outings.

Toody, you have good advice. You are looking for an activity partner. Are you looking for someone who lives near you? do you want to travel to find someone?

It's more likely that you have a kid. Your profile is fine.

Women don't answer back on Mingle2. Personally I think the whole online dating scene is broken. You'd do better trying to talk to a girl at your local store than getting anything out of online dating. It's just a huge waste of time. Online dating sites are just stringing you a long with pretty pictures of pretty girls.

Ok, Sherrif of Nottingham....perhaps a picture of you would help?

Imho just be genuine and brutally honest. The best relationships are formed when 2 misfit minds collide their souls. Honesty and transparency are the byproduct of this collision.

Spoken like a true American I suppose. The British seem almost ashamed to wear their heart on their sleeves. And, by the way, Americans DO understand irony. Lol.

Good luck brother!

Well, first of all your profile pics looks like you are absolutely shocked.. stunned at what you are seeing... what is it?

Thaks Cat ! I have an activity partner here In my city! ALl my dates have Traveled here. I go for older gentlemen wanting a serious Relationship.

My dates were from Paid sites.

I think that you seem a little uptight on that profile pic. In my perspective I wouldnt give the following a second look and this is JUST ME...

1.PICTURE (PROFILE) has be someone that is smiling..(enjoys to be alive)
2.Pictures need to have a shirt one (Most)
3.You really didnt write anything about ANYTHING really. (I actually READ all profiles that send me a message).
4.I also look at the username (Sorry for me some are just a NO NO)
5.I WILL ABSOLUTELY not message anyone with the following pictures in their profile....Weapons...DRUGS..Being in the shower, Holding himself. ANY RUDE, DEMEANING OR SEXUAL INNUENDOS.

Those like I said is JUST HOW I LOOK at ALL ...Hopefully you can better understand a female perspective..at least my POV. :)

Oh I almost forgot: People have lives give them a little time to respond. If no response after maybe 1 or 2 weeks then just forget that person and just keep searching. Maybe closer to you would be the better fit because you want an activity partner.

Good LUCK ! :)

Essentially your looking for apples in a banana tree. Maybe try and look elsewhere