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Topic: Relationship Choice
Toodygirl5's photo
Sat 08/18/18 10:07 AM
OCD is a serious health condition.
I f you had to choose a person that is a Sloppy housekeeper
Or a person with OCD , which would you choose to be in a Relationship with?
Why ?

Stu's photo
Sat 08/18/18 10:24 AM

OCD is a serious health condition.
I f you had to choose a person that is a Sloppy housekeeper
Or a person with OCD , which would you choose to be in a Relationship with?
Why ?



Ocd, because I am too.

Larsi666 😽's photo
Sat 08/18/18 10:29 AM
My ex wife was dang lazy and sloppy. Never again scared

Riverspirit1111's photo
Sat 08/18/18 12:18 PM

OCD is a serious health condition.
I f you had to choose a person that is a Sloppy housekeeper
Or a person with OCD , which would you choose to be in a Relationship with?
Why ?



Neither.. I prefer someone who appreciates a clean house but is okay with a house that's lived in... the coat doesn't always have to go on the hanger!

Toodygirl5's photo
Sat 08/18/18 12:27 PM
Edited by Toodygirl5 on Sat 08/18/18 12:33 PM
My one girl friend married man in 1996, she didn't realize he had OCD !

She is a neat clean person , but the husband has drove her nuts at times!


2% of general population 6.5 million in US know to have this condition


Time.com.4955582/what-is-ocd/anxiety





Toodygirl5's photo
Sat 08/18/18 12:58 PM
Edited by Toodygirl5 on Sat 08/18/18 12:59 PM


My one girl friend married man in 1996, she didn't realize he had OCD !

She is a neat clean person , but the husband has drove her nuts at times!


2% of general population 6.5 million in US know to have this condition


http://time.com/4955582/what-is-ocd-anxiety/





You quoted a source! Im s excited!



Lol people can always do their own research. Several places on the internet.



Tom4Uhere's photo
Sat 08/18/18 02:57 PM
Obsessive Compulsive Disorder (OCD) is not limited to tidy housekeeping.
People can be obsessively compulsive about anything, including disorder.
I've met people that were obsessively compulsive to a messy workstation, messy desk, messy garage. For those people, cleaning and organizing was madness.

The attribute that is scary about OCD is the "C" (Compulsion).
Compulsions tend to override common sense and practicality.
They cause a person's life to get out of control and out of focus.

Everyone has a certain compulsion for things and most of us keep them under control. Its when they become Obsessive it gets bad. By the time it is labeled as a Disorder, chances are only professional help can allow someone to get a handle on it.

Personally, I like organized and clean but I am not obsessive about it.

Datwasntme's photo
Sat 08/18/18 05:08 PM

OCD is a serious health condition.
I f you had to choose a person that is a Sloppy housekeeper
Or a person with OCD , which would you choose to be in a Relationship with?
Why ?



2 x g.f.'s ago
every saterday 8 + hours cleaning the small 3 bed room house

her house was cleaner then any hospital i have been in

i like a clean house , but yeah , that's a little over does for me

Blah's photo
Sat 08/18/18 05:21 PM
Depends on what her OCD condition is.

Some can be entertaining and even amusing.


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Sat 08/18/18 09:04 PM
I f you had to choose a person that is a Sloppy housekeeper
Or a person with OCD , which would you choose to be in a Relationship with?
Why ?

How sloppy are we talking?
Like underwear stuck to the walls, and living with rats?
And what kind of OCD? Just having OCD doesn't mean they aren't sloppy housekeepers.

Other than that, what else is communicated in the relationship?
I mean I would much rather live with someone that is a sloppy housekeeper that didn't complain when I demanded they spring clean, than an OCD person that constantly complained even when they were being all OCD with cleaning or whatever.


Otherwise, if I had to "choose," then I would go all polyamorous and marry both the slob and the OCD cleaner so they'd balance each other out.

Duttoneer's photo
Sun 08/19/18 04:37 AM

OCD is a serious health condition.
I f you had to choose a person that is a Sloppy housekeeper
Or a person with OCD , which would you choose to be in a Relationship with?
Why ?



Someone with OCD, because it's a health condition they have and it can be cured over time, a sloppy house keeper is self inflicted laziness and cannot be cured in my opinion.

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Sun 08/19/18 04:51 AM
Well, I like my house neat so she would have to live in a trailer in the driveway.

Basha's photo
Sun 08/19/18 05:16 AM
OCD ofc


I'm a sloppy guy......but I like to see home clean....just don't like to clean it~


Or


A sloppy home keeper and a 24/7 maid~

Toodygirl5's photo
Sun 08/19/18 05:27 AM
Edited by Toodygirl5 on Sun 08/19/18 05:31 AM

I f you had to choose a person that is a Sloppy housekeeper
Or a person with OCD , which would you choose to be in a Relationship with?
Why ?

How sloppy are we talking?
Like underwear stuck to the walls, and living with rats?
And what kind of OCD? Just having OCD doesn't mean they aren't sloppy housekeepers.

Other than that, what else is communicated in the relationship?
I mean I would much rather live with someone that is a sloppy housekeeper that didn't complain when I demanded they spring clean, than an OCD person that constantly complained even when they were being all OCD with cleaning or whatever.


Otherwise, if I had to "choose," then I would go all polyamorous and marry both the slob and the OCD cleaner so they'd balance each other out.


OCD here in topic, meaning extremely clean neat person. Someone who cannot stand any kind of Messes!

BTW everyone that lives with cats is not a Sloppy housekeeper ! tongue2

Toodygirl5's photo
Sun 08/19/18 05:28 AM

Well, I like my house neat so she would have to live in a trailer in the driveway.


AWww. laugh

Toodygirl5's photo
Sun 08/19/18 05:34 AM

Depends on what her OCD condition is.

Some can be entertaining and even amusing.






Extremely clean person, who follows you around and cleans up everything they think is messed are out of order. Like for instance drinking glasses, and cigarette ashes.

Blah's photo
Mon 08/20/18 08:37 PM


Depends on what her OCD condition is.

Some can be entertaining and even amusing.






Extremely clean person, who follows you around and cleans up everything they think is messed are out of order. Like for instance drinking glasses, and cigarette ashes.


My drinking glass, and ashtray?

No f'n way!
Some things are just off limits.


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Mon 08/20/18 08:48 PM

I f you had to choose a person that is a Sloppy housekeeper
Or a person with OCD , which would you choose to be in a Relationship with?
Why ?

How sloppy are we talking?
Like underwear stuck to the walls, and living with rats?
And what kind of OCD? Just having OCD doesn't mean they aren't sloppy housekeepers.

Other than that, what else is communicated in the relationship?
I mean I would much rather live with someone that is a sloppy housekeeper that didn't complain when I demanded they spring clean, than an OCD person that constantly complained even when they were being all OCD with cleaning or whatever.


Otherwise, if I had to "choose," then I would go all polyamorous and marry both the slob and the OCD cleaner so they'd balance each other out.



REALLY?
Why don't you do the spring cleaning? Demanding anyone to do it is pretty whacked.

no photo
Mon 08/20/18 09:43 PM
OCD is a chronic relapsing mental disorder often involving fear .. repetitive rituals/compulsions and control issues .. I would choose the sloppy person .. can always hire a livein housekeeper / manservant to follow him around the house laugh laugh

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Tue 08/21/18 12:26 AM
If I have to choose one as my partner,I would choose sloppy one.Becuase I can't endure the person with OCD.I am dilIgent,I can help my partner to do housework.I can wish her clothes and cook for supper.What she needs do is to do what she likes.

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