Why do men allow women to use them so much? I dated a lady four 4.5 years and she stays in contact with all her exes and relies on them quite often for money , all they ask for is sexual photos or sex . These men move her to Alaska and put her up in there homes while she dating other men. Where are the morals anymore! I find it discusting!
Please give feed back.

love is blind

i talk to most of my ex's , but don't ask them for anything
they are human and i will all ways love them
but uhm yeah , i wouldn't do that

i don't ask for sexual photo's and have never slept with someone that i was not dating / married to

takes all kinds to make a world i guess

<shrug>

Not sure what all her Relationships with her exs are about. But doesn't sound like she has much time for any New Man.

Often times people are better dating an ex than being married to them!!

Shouldn't the title of this post be "using men" or "women who use men"?

the thing with morals is they are based on what an individual values .. if men see sex as just a primal act .. they are not likely to feel they are being used .. in this scenario doesn't seem like her ex partners are being used . They can decline .. ..

As for your ex . She seems to be reliant on men for financial support ., sounds like a travelling prostutue . If she contacts you in the future . .. be sure to say no thank you

I got a sister in law that is lot like this..
moves in with couples to educated them on her version of spirituality
then by time they figure out she is off her nut
she has lived with them for months
ate their food, they have paid her
let her use their cars then
she moves on and does this again to the next unsuspecting shuck

back when she lived in town
guy across street who was married
used to mow her lawn for her

another guy fixed her washing machine
towed her car to get fixed

Well if you dated her 4.5 years ago and all up in her bisiness, you must be one she is in contact with. So why do you do it?

I see she is a winner
all men are idiots including me

And who exactly is using whom here? It sounds like it goes both ways.

So you dated a woman who did -this according to you- for 4,5 years and you ask US why men allow this? Why not answer this yourself, you allowed it, so you should know.

We can also ask why women allow men to us them so much. I wonder what happens more often...
In any case I guess the answer is pretty much the same: low self-esteem, fear of being alone, fear of the pain of ending something.
But you should know as you done it for 4,5 yrs. Why?

George Carlin
Females are insane and men are idiots

why are females insane , cause men are idiots

: )

I have an ex boyfriend who lives near me. I'm single and he is single. Every so often he asks me if I need help with anything and I always decline. I actually need help with a lot of things, but I'm not asking him. We're friendly with each other but I know when he gets a girlfriend, I won't be on his mind at all. That's how it should be.

One, the other or both are either desperate or hoez....

And you went along with this for 4.5 years????

Men always obsessed with sex,they are born to explore sexual activities.While women usually prefer beautiful dress and expensive jewelry as well as cosmetic,females need lots of money to pay for them.So,I get a conclusion,man needs sex while woman needs money and they do a business deal.The issue you are talking about is all determined by gender.

I don't need dresses or expensive jewelry.

Yes I may have the title wrong.
I’m sure these men my ex keeps in her life are using her just as much, I am wired differently I , I fell in love with her and I allowed her to keep coming back after she would go be with others . I just don’t see how people can confess there love for someone and just to hurt and use them?
I went to Alaska in 2015 asked if she was sleeping with the guy she was staying with she said no( he was out of town at the time) so I spent A bunch of money on her and her daughter we took 2 weeks and she showed me around Alaska, we had an amazing time . I fell in love with her even more and asked her to marry me she said yes,well just days after I left Alaska she had sex with this guy she was staying with, I put a ring on her finger it meant nothing obviously! She said the guy raped her and at the same time she said she felt obligated to **** him for payment of staying there. Of course she it was just sex and meant nothing as her heart belong to me .
What kind of crazy **** is she?? Why do men fall for this **** ???

Yes I may have the title wrong.
I’m sure these men my ex keeps in her life are using her just as much, I am wired differently I , I fell in love with her and I allowed her to keep coming back after she would go be with others . I just don’t see how people can confess there love for someone and just to hurt and use them?
I went to Alaska in 2015 asked if she was sleeping with the guy she was staying with she said no( he was out of town at the time) so I spent A bunch of money on her and her daughter we took 2 weeks and she showed me around Alaska, we had an amazing time . I fell in love with her even more and asked her to marry me she said yes,well just days after I left Alaska she had sex with this guy she was staying with, I put a ring on her finger it meant nothing obviously! She said the guy raped her and at the same time she said she felt obligated to **** him for payment of staying there. Of course she it was just sex and meant nothing as her heart belong to me .
What kind of crazy **** is she?? Why do men fall for this **** ???

All men are not like that,some have morals.
All these men she keeps in her life know she’s messed up, I guess there just pigs . She really not qualified to be married. It just hurts that I gave her the best of me and a lot of money for 4 1/2 years and it meant nothing . I let her ruin my life and reputation in our communities. Why are people so destructive in society today??