Topic: "What is your idea of what a "bad Girl" is?
Real Tx Girl's photo
Mon 10/15/18 08:16 PM

"What is your idea of what a "bad Girl" is?

The only time I've ever used the term "bad girl" was towards a dog.

And it's usually when she's done something that forces or threatens to make me do something I don't want to.
Like crap on the floor or gets into the garbage and I have to smell it and clean it up.
Or nips or growls at someone and I have to worry about lawsuits and scaring kids and such.
Or rips up the couch or shoes or clothes and then I have to buy a new couch or shoes or clothes.
Or runs away even though I call her and I have to go find her.

would you want to date such a woman"?

No. I'm not really into bestiality.
Although I've met more than one woman who was. I really need to hang out in better places.

"What is your idea of what a "bad girl" is and would you want to date such a woman"?

If you're just referring to the common term "bad boy" and trying to be gender neutral with the term "bad girl," then no, I wouldn't date a woman that acted like a man, or treated me like a "bad boy" treats a woman, or a woman that treated me like a woman.




You know you like being someones pet.:wink:

motowndowntown's photo
Mon 10/15/18 08:20 PM
One who wants to "have a conversation" when the game is on the telly.

Real Tx Girl's photo
Mon 10/15/18 08:50 PM
Motown

Learn to multitask you have more fun that way. slaphead

Mike6615's photo
Mon 10/15/18 08:52 PM
Edited by Mike6615 on Mon 10/15/18 08:55 PM


good question. Id say a bad girl or guy is pretty much anyone who disregards rules or laws to do what they want and get what they want., anyone who disregards decency and politeness to say and do whatever they want. IF a person is polite and decent in how they treat others, basically to me, they are not a 'bad' person.


This is pretty much the way I see a "bad" girl or guy.

No I would not date one... I prefer someone who likes to lounge back on his chair after a hard day's work while I cook him dinner biggrin

Now if he has a little devilish behavior in him and wants to chase me around the house while doing dishes... bigsmile blushing


Somehow I visualize him with the dishsoap and washrag chasing you, saying, "Please...let ME do the dishes!"

Real Tx Girl's photo
Mon 10/15/18 08:53 PM
rofl rofl rofl rofl rofl

Tom4Uhere's photo
Tue 10/16/18 08:28 AM
I don't classify people as good or bad.
Very few people are 'bad' but many do bad things for many different reasons.

A truly bad person is the type that hurts others on purpose as a personality standard.
These types of people usually hate everything about life and are dead set to make everyone they encounter suffer because of it.
They're just filled with hatred.

While I have met people like this, I never got close enough to them for their personalities to affect me.

I'm very aware of others alignments.
I steer clear of people that are aligned to evil.
For clarity, here is the evil alignment qualities of characters.
While these alignments are written for character development for role playing games, there is overlap to real personalities in the people we meet. He and She interchange easily.
SOURCE: http://easydamus.com/alignment.html

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Lawful Evil, "Dominator"

A lawful evil villain methodically takes what he(she) wants within the limits of his(her) code of conduct without regard for whom it hurts.
He(she) cares about tradition, loyalty, and order but not about freedom, dignity, or life.
He(She) plays by the rules but without mercy or compassion.
He(She) is comfortable in a hierarchy and would like to rule, but is willing to serve.
He(She) condemns others not according to their actions but according to race, religion, homeland, or social rank.
He(She) is loath to break laws or promises.

This reluctance comes partly from his(her) nature and partly because he(she) depends on order to protect himself(herself) from those who oppose him(her) on moral grounds.
Some lawful evil villains have particular taboos, such as not killing in cold blood (but having underlings do it) or not letting children come to harm (if it can be helped).
They imagine that these compunctions put them above unprincipled villains.

Some lawful evil people and creatures commit themselves to evil with a zeal like that of a crusader committed to good.
Beyond being willing to hurt others for their own ends, they take pleasure in spreading evil as an end unto itself.
They may also see doing evil as part of a duty to an evil deity or master.

Lawful evil is sometimes called "diabolical," because devils are the epitome of lawful evil.

Lawful evil creatures consider their alignment to be the best because it combines honor with a dedicated self-interest.

Lawful evil is the most dangerous alignment because it represents methodical, intentional, and frequently successful evil.


Neutral Evil, "Malefactor"

A neutral evil villain does whatever he(she) can get away with.
He(She) is out for himself(herself), pure and simple.
He(She) sheds no tears for those he(she) kills, whether for profit, sport, or convenience.
He(She) has no love of order and holds no illusion that following laws, traditions, or codes would make him(her) any better or more noble.
On the other hand, he(she) doesn't have the restless nature or love of conflict that a chaotic evil villain has.

Some neutral evil villains hold up evil as an ideal, committing evil for its own sake.
Most often, such villains are devoted to evil deities or secret societies.

Neutral evil beings consider their alignment to be the best because they can advance themselves without regard for others.

Neutral evil is the most dangerous alignment because it represents pure evil without honor and without variation.


Chaotic Evil, "Destroyer"

A chaotic evil character does whatever his(her) greed, hatred, and lust for destruction drive him(her) to do.
He(She) is hot-tempered, vicious, arbitrarily violent, and unpredictable.
If he(she) is simply out for whatever he(she) can get, he(she) is ruthless and brutal.
If he(she) is committed to the spread of evil and chaos, he(she) is even worse.
Thankfully, his(her) plans are haphazard, and any groups he(she) joins or forms are poorly organized.
Typically, chaotic evil people can be made to work together only by force, and their leader lasts only as long as he(she) can thwart attempts to topple or assassinate him(her).

Chaotic evil is sometimes called "demonic" because demons are the epitome of chaotic evil.

Chaotic evil beings believe their alignment is the best because it combines self-interest and pure freedom.

Chaotic evil is the most dangerous alignment because it represents the destruction not only of beauty and life but also of the order on which beauty and life depend.

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The thing about people is most that are classified by others as 'Bad' merely do or have done bad things.
Sometimes without thinking or thru poor choices.
The idea of bad is very subjective and often relative to the assessor's classification of bad.

Sometimes just merely not doing what someone expects you to do can classify you as bad.
The thing is, I have yet to meet anyone on this planet, in my entire lifetime, that is alive to live up to my expectations.
On the other hand, I have met many people during my life that expect me to live to their expectations.
I spent much of my youth trying to do just that but I finally gained wisdom.
I can be classified as a 'bad boy' because I no longer try to live up to anyone else's expectation of who they think I should be.

Real Tx Girl's photo
Tue 10/16/18 08:37 AM


The thing about people is most that are classified by others as 'Bad' merely do or have done bad things.
Sometimes without thinking or thru poor choices.
The idea of bad is very subjective and often relative to the assessor's classification of bad.

Sometimes just merely not doing what someone expects you to do can classify you as bad.
The thing is, I have yet to meet anyone on this planet, in my entire lifetime, that is alive to live up to my expectations.
On the other hand, I have met many people during my life that expect me to live to their expectations.
I spent much of my youth trying to do just that but I finally gained wisdom.
I can be classified as a 'bad boy' because I no longer try to live up to anyone else's expectation of who they think I should be.


You should never try to live up to some ones idea of what you should be. You should be you and let the chips fall where they may. If they like you great if they don't then you don't need them anyway.
Live life to be happy within yourself.

Good, Bad or indifferent to others.

Riverspirit1111's photo
Tue 10/16/18 08:49 AM



good question. Id say a bad girl or guy is pretty much anyone who disregards rules or laws to do what they want and get what they want., anyone who disregards decency and politeness to say and do whatever they want. IF a person is polite and decent in how they treat others, basically to me, they are not a 'bad' person.


This is pretty much the way I see a "bad" girl or guy.

No I would not date one... I prefer someone who likes to lounge back on his chair after a hard day's work while I cook him dinner biggrin

Now if he has a little devilish behavior in him and wants to chase me around the house while doing dishes... bigsmile blushing


Somehow I visualize him with the dishsoap and washrag chasing you, saying, "Please...let ME do the dishes!"


laugh Now that would be most welcoming, lol. waving

Tom4Uhere's photo
Tue 10/16/18 08:53 AM



The thing about people is most that are classified by others as 'Bad' merely do or have done bad things.
Sometimes without thinking or thru poor choices.
The idea of bad is very subjective and often relative to the assessor's classification of bad.

Sometimes just merely not doing what someone expects you to do can classify you as bad.
The thing is, I have yet to meet anyone on this planet, in my entire lifetime, that is alive to live up to my expectations.
On the other hand, I have met many people during my life that expect me to live to their expectations.
I spent much of my youth trying to do just that but I finally gained wisdom.
I can be classified as a 'bad boy' because I no longer try to live up to anyone else's expectation of who they think I should be.


You should never try to live up to some ones idea of what you should be. You should be you and let the chips fall where they may. If they like you great if they don't then you don't need them anyway.
Live life to be happy within yourself.

Good, Bad or indifferent to others.

I agree but it was a wisdom I had to find out for myself.
I'm glad I did, too.

Goofball73's photo
Tue 10/16/18 07:28 PM

"What is your idea of what a "bad girl" is and would you want to date such a woman"?


I dated a bad girl about ten years ago....best year and half of sex I ever had....but the relationship part was like on bipolar steroids.

muni28's photo
Tue 10/16/18 07:52 PM
Bad girls : she cheats. and I would date her because , I will not not have any expectations on her as I knew her that she cheats. so I will just have fun and enjoy

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Thu 11/01/18 10:24 PM
Should be good in bed

Totage's photo
Thu 11/01/18 11:29 PM

"What is your idea of what a "bad girl" is and would you want to date such a woman"?


I don't date girls. A bad girl is a child of the female gender who misbehaves.

I don't want to date an untamed woman, if that's what you call a bad girl. I need a mature woman, who is tame, is happy with her and knows who she is. I don't need some one who is still trying to figure who she is and what she wants.

They say women mature faster than men, but it seems that men find themselves and figure out what they want out of life quicker than women. IDK, just something I've kinda noticed.

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Fri 11/02/18 04:11 AM
A healthy measure of bad is good. Bear in mind, my idea of bad is wild and naughty not psychotic.

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Fri 11/02/18 07:10 AM
A nice girl goes out and back home to bed.

A good girl goes to bed, then back home.


bigsmile

IgorFrankensteen's photo
Fri 11/02/18 07:39 AM
In my experience, there are two main definitions for "bad girl" or "bad boy."

The most common ones, are simultaneously considered positive and negative at the same time.

The first one is the simple and obvious: "functionally damaging to others." As in criminals, killers, thieves, and so on.

The more common use of the labels, is for people who are found to be extremely desirable, in spite of as well as because they don't behave the way that "officially good" people behave.

Now. Again, from personal experience, I have seen that some people who are said to be "bad" in this way, are the way they are, in ways that are compatible with being in a committed relationship, and some are not. Just as is so with "good girls" and "good boys."

I'm very interested in the ones who are. I have no interest in the ones who are not, save as friends and acquaintances.

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Fri 11/02/18 08:25 AM
I have a totally different idea of a bad girl.

She rides a motorcycle, wears leather, doesn’t care what anyone thinks about her. She’s sarcastic and curses with the best of them.

She’s not a bad person, she just lives her life the way she wants. She’s sexy and flirts all the time. She can drink with the best of them but still keeps her cool.

Wow, I want to be her lol.

:wink:

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Fri 11/02/18 08:30 AM
Edited by Queenie on Fri 11/02/18 08:32 AM

I have a totally different idea of a bad girl.

She rides a motorcycle, wears leather, doesn’t care what anyone thinks about her. She’s sarcastic and curses with the best of them.

She’s not a bad person, she just lives her life the way she wants. She’s sexy and flirts all the time. She can drink with the best of them but still keeps her cool.

Wow, I want to be her lol.

:wink:


This with or without the motorcycle


Wait I think that's me!

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Fri 11/02/18 08:37 AM
Amen Queenie!

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Tue 11/06/18 03:55 AM
The bad girl who is dishonest and always cheat others. She lies to friends and I think no one want to date them.