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Topic: What's your Preferences ?
Toodygirl5 Joined Fri 10/26/12 Posts: 14437	Thu 10/18/18 05:13 PM Edited by Toodygirl5 on Thu 10/18/18 05:16 PM
I can drive and have for years! I had a man to say he's looking for a woman for a relationship, who can drive. I told him, what makes him think I don't want a Man that can drive. He is a man of interest Not on Mingle. Men have so many Preferences in a woman for relationship. What makes them think, Women don't have Preferences too! Can he drive , cook, give massage, good kisser, clean house, wash dishes, do yard work ? What ??

Rock Joined Thu 10/09/08 Posts: 21249	Thu 10/18/18 06:28 PM
Okay... While I'm driving, cooking, giving massages, cleaning house, washing dishes, doing yardwork, AND, maintaining full time employment... What exactly, is the woman doing? :raised eyebrow emoji:

Goofball73 Joined Mon 11/05/07 Posts: 33913	Thu 10/18/18 07:01 PM
I make a mean Mac N' Cheese.

Totage Joined Sat 10/13/07 Posts: 24210	Thu 10/18/18 07:23 PM
Okay... While I'm driving, cooking, giving massages, cleaning house, washing dishes, doing yardwork, AND, maintaining full time employment... What exactly, is the woman doing? :raised eyebrow emoji: She's busy complaining about how she wishes you were a better man and spent more time with her.

lilwmn Joined Thu 04/26/18 Posts: 388	Thu 10/18/18 07:27 PM
Okay... While I'm driving, cooking, giving massages, cleaning house, washing dishes, doing yardwork, AND, maintaining full time employment... What exactly, is the woman doing? :raised eyebrow emoji: I'd guess she's doing the same things

actionlynx Joined Wed 08/18/10 Posts: 5448	Thu 10/18/18 08:03 PM
Preferences? No younger than 35 No older than 49 Not a couch potato Not an incessant complainer Not an angry rebel Willing to share in the cleaning Has at least average intelligence Possesses empathy and compassion Hopefully possesses some creative spark The list is incomplete, but I never remember the whole thing which is why I tend to just wing it these days. It's much easier than just being fussy. Why these things? Because I already fit most of them. If a woman can't match certain traits that I already possess, then we just aren't going to be compatible. Period. Of course, age is subjective. It changes all the time with me. There will always be exceptions to the rule. And as I age, I tend to raise the upper limit further above my own age. So who knows what it will actually be 2 years from now.

Totage Joined Sat 10/13/07 Posts: 24210	Thu 10/18/18 08:17 PM
Some preferences that I'm not strict on are: Brunette, dark hair Dark skin complexion Average height No children ... Some things that I'm more strict on any more are: Since I'm a smoker and am not going to quit, she should also be a smoker. She must at least want children, as I already have children, but I don't want any more, unless she already has children. She must be older than me at least by one year, but not more than ten. She must have happiness with herself and not expect me to provide her happiness. ... Just a few things, not a complete list.

Real Tx Girl Joined Tue 08/14/18 Posts: 720	Thu 10/18/18 08:47 PM Edited by Real Tx Girl on Thu 10/18/18 08:52 PM
Preferences? No younger than 35 No older than 49 Not a couch potato Not an incessant complainer Not an angry rebel Willing to share in the cleaning Has at least average intelligence Possesses empathy and compassion Hopefully possesses some creative spark The list is incomplete, but I never remember the whole thing which is why I tend to just wing it these days. It's much easier than just being fussy. Why these things? Because I already fit most of them. If a woman can't match certain traits that I already possess, then we just aren't going to be compatible. Period. Of course, age is subjective. It changes all the time with me. There will always be exceptions to the rule. And as I age, I tend to raise the upper limit further above my own age. So who knows what it will actually be 2 years from now. No you know you just broke some women,s hearts likes us old gals that look like where in our mid fourty's instead of mid fifty's

Real Tx Girl Joined Tue 08/14/18 Posts: 720	Thu 10/18/18 08:48 PM
I make a mean Mac N' Cheese. Where's mine

MK2 Joined Sat 07/05/14 Posts: 1540	Thu 10/18/18 09:29 PM
My references are simple Decent hearted LADY, simple & sweet If she can drive big rig is huge plus

darkowl1 Joined Sat 01/12/08 Posts: 13060	Thu 10/18/18 09:34 PM
I have an IQ of 2 and a half. I lick windows while I drive the short bus slowly and out of alignment, up hill, both ways, in the snow, in 150 degree heat, 100 miles around a single block and the neighbors are concerned, but not worried... What possible preferences could I possibly have......?

actionlynx Joined Wed 08/18/10 Posts: 5448	Thu 10/18/18 09:35 PM
No you know you just broke some women,s hearts likes us old gals that look like where in our mid fourty's instead of mid fifty's I know. It was bound to happen sooner or later, unfortunately. Oddly enough, I've always gotten along better with people who are older than me. I never fully understood whether it was me or just them. On the other hand, I used to have my age maximum at 5 years younger than me....because I still wanted kids. But now I'm getting a bit old to be thinking of starting a family. So I'm beginning to gravitate towards the 45 - 50 mark. I only have 35 as the minimum because I don't want to sell myself short by being too rigid.

Real Tx Girl Joined Tue 08/14/18 Posts: 720	Thu 10/18/18 09:42 PM
My references are simple Decent hearted LADY, simple & sweet If she can drive big rig is huge plus I can but, only when the guys at work leave it parked on my way. ️️

Real Tx Girl Joined Tue 08/14/18 Posts: 720	Thu 10/18/18 09:46 PM
No you know you just broke some women,s hearts likes us old gals that look like where in our mid fourty's instead of mid fifty's I know. It was bound to happen sooner or later, unfortunately. Oddly enough, I've always gotten along better with people who are older than me. I never fully understood whether it was me or just them. On the other hand, I used to have my age maximum at 5 years younger than me....because I still wanted kids. But now I'm getting a bit old to be thinking of starting a family. So I'm beginning to gravitate towards the 45 - 50 mark. I only have 35 as the minimum because I don't want to sell myself short by being too rigid. You Rigid no way.️️

MK2 Joined Sat 07/05/14 Posts: 1540	Thu 10/18/18 10:26 PM
My references are simple Decent hearted LADY, simple & sweet If she can drive big rig is huge plus I can but, only when the guys at work leave it parked on my way. ️️ Is that mean you have enough space for big rig to park in front of your house? SOLD

Duttoneer Joined Sun 07/01/12 Posts: 4664	Fri 10/19/18 05:02 AM
What's your Preferences ? Someone like Wonder Woman Lynda Carter would be nice. (Well I can dream can't I)

Riverspirit1111 Joined Wed 06/27/18 Posts: 100738	Fri 10/19/18 05:09 AM Edited by Riverspirit1111 on Fri 10/19/18 05:11 AM
I can drive and have for years! I had a man to say he's looking for a woman for a relationship, who can drive. I told him, what makes him think I don't want a Man that can drive. He is a man of interest Not on Mingle. Men have so many Preferences in a woman for relationship. What makes them think, Women don't have Preferences too! Can he drive , cook, give massage, good kisser, clean house, wash dishes, do yard work ? What ?? I'm more of a compromise kind of gal... If he can give a good massage, I'll wash the dishes If he's a good kisser, I'll drive and he can check out the scenery If he does the yard work, I'll clean the house And hopefully we'll both be doing the cookin'

Toodygirl5 Joined Fri 10/26/12 Posts: 14437	Fri 10/19/18 05:52 AM
I make a mean Mac N' Cheese. one point for You !

Toodygirl5 Joined Fri 10/26/12 Posts: 14437	Fri 10/19/18 05:53 AM
Preferences? No younger than 35 No older than 49 Not a couch potato Not an incessant complainer Not an angry rebel Willing to share in the cleaning Has at least average intelligence Possesses empathy and compassion Hopefully possesses some creative spark The list is incomplete, but I never remember the whole thing which is why I tend to just wing it these days. It's much easier than just being fussy. Why these things? Because I already fit most of them. If a woman can't match certain traits that I already possess, then we just aren't going to be compatible. Period. Of course, age is subjective. It changes all the time with me. There will always be exceptions to the rule. And as I age, I tend to raise the upper limit further above my own age. So who knows what it will actually be 2 years from now. Now here is a Man with a LIST !

Toodygirl5 Joined Fri 10/26/12 Posts: 14437	Fri 10/19/18 05:59 AM
Some preferences that I'm not strict on are: Brunette, dark hair Dark skin complexion Average height No children ... Some things that I'm more strict on any more are: Since I'm a smoker and am not going to quit, she should also be a smoker. She must at least want children, as I already have children, but I don't want any more, unless she already has children. She must be older than me at least by one year, but not more than ten. She must have happiness with herself and not expect me to provide her happiness. ... Just a few things, not a complete list. Thanks for Sharing ! Men have LISTS too !